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wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 29 Jan 12

Am I mistaken or not? All the companies I have been working for did not last long, sorry...its not my problem, its the employer problem. He and she is not very willing to communicate better with me, and when he delegates work...

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Cactus2010 If you are working in a company setting it is always better to be a bit mixing and cheerful. You can give it a try. Depression eats you. Try to get out of it.

14 Feb 12

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 13 Feb 12

Yah! So what if it is Valentines Day? Is that enough reason for not "letting go" and saying "hello- I want to tell you- it's Good-bye" Will you spare this day for another romance and postpone the "break-up" the...

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Cactus2010 Actually all these various celebration days which have sprung up is a big racket by those who benefit from the expenditure of people. So the greeting card industry, the gift industry and so on they feed in the psyche of people that they need to celebrate the...

14 Feb 12

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 6 Jan 12

I am a nurse by profession, but It was my parent's choice. I originally wanted to be a broadcast journalist but my parents and relatives told me to be practical, so I followed them, I graduate with honors and I was top 14 in the...

parents

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Cactus2010 You are most welcome!:)

19 Jan 12

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 6 Jan 12

I am a nurse by profession, but It was my parent's choice. I originally wanted to be a broadcast journalist but my parents and relatives told me to be practical, so I followed them, I graduate with honors and I was top 14 in the...

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Cactus2010 oh Yes! I am engineer by profession. Work in a plant.

18 Jan 12

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 6 Jan 12

I am a nurse by profession, but It was my parent's choice. I originally wanted to be a broadcast journalist but my parents and relatives told me to be practical, so I followed them, I graduate with honors and I was top 14 in the...

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Cactus2010 Oh! I thought it will be a BIG entrance test like written and aptitude and what not. It is good to see you in high spirit. Best of luck for result. As for me, I have become a bit busy in last one week. Got less time to log on. It happens due to the nature...

16 Jan 12

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 6 Jan 12

I am a nurse by profession, but It was my parent's choice. I originally wanted to be a broadcast journalist but my parents and relatives told me to be practical, so I followed them, I graduate with honors and I was top 14 in the...

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Cactus2010 Hi, I am happy to know that you have made up your mind. Wish you all the best for your medical entrance. Do let me know when you enter in the medical university and tell me your experience. I have not encounter the similar situation in my life but there...

11 Jan 12

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 6 Jan 12

I am a nurse by profession, but It was my parent's choice. I originally wanted to be a broadcast journalist but my parents and relatives told me to be practical, so I followed them, I graduate with honors and I was top 14 in the...

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Cactus2010 Traditionally all parents are like that. They think their children will fulfill their incomplete dreams. Now a days, it is said that let us not impose our dreams on our children. If by coincidence, their preference in life is same as ours, then it is ok but if...

8 Jan 12

mavil85 @mavil85 (348) • Philippines 6 Jan 12

I am a nurse by profession, but It was my parent's choice. I originally wanted to be a broadcast journalist but my parents and relatives told me to be practical, so I followed them, I graduate with honors and I was top 14 in the...

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Cactus2010 Once you find out what suits you best and where you have greater chances to succeed, you will have a better case to discuss with your parents without being argumentative. If your proposals are supported by facts, chances of getting affirmative nod are better....

8 Jan 12

hanjianbo615 @hanjianbo615 (149) • China 11 Aug 11

i am a electrical engineer and always slove urgent problems in different project site in other countries. at the beginning as a green hand i lacked site experience and practice i felt overwhelmed sometimes. but i did love my job...

enthusiastic

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Cactus2010 Making a difference means doing that extra bit which makes you stand apart from rest. Which could be done only because of you. It must be our endeaver to make a difference. If we are at a place where we are not making any difference then we should try to find...

12 Aug 11

Rosa26 @Rosa26 (2618) • United States 10 Aug 11

There are only two options give up or keep going,but most of the time we choose the easier one the first one, and not only the most easier is the one is more in our mind, why? because there time in our life where we try and try...

be strong

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Cactus2010 Yes. Faith in God is great sustaining force in the times of adversity. But I would say that it is better to have faith all the times, good or bad,and don't become a part time devotee. Then one derivers more strength at the time of adversity.

11 Aug 11

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 11 Aug 11

Would you go to marriage counseling Before the wedding? Do you think if you had gone to a counselor you would have had a better or longer marriage?

marriage

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Cactus2010 Actually success of marriage depends on many things like -the similarity of value system each follows; the willingness to accept each other as he/she is; not trying too hard to change the other; having a reasonable expectation from each other. Offcourse there...

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Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 28 Jul 11

This has been a hot topic for a long time: is killing justified if the killer was defending their own life, family or property? One one hand, life is precious and the last thing one wants to see is a family member die...

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Cactus2010 Depends on the circumstances as well as capability of your lawyer also.

7 Aug 11

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 30 Jul 11

Hi All, Everyone usually say that purchasing staffs can earn much more money than other job. They'll have main salary and getting commision from their providers. The requests of this job are not too high. Do you think...

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Cactus2010 Absolutely. Contacts make things happen or atleast help. Thanks.

7 Aug 11

Rosa26 @Rosa26 (2618) • United States 27 Jul 11

In 1997 I was checking my account in hot mail, and suddenly I see an invitation request, I felt like not accept it but then I felt curious and I accepted, that was a young man who acted at the beginning like he didn't knows who...

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Cactus2010 Yes. I do believe that it is possible to fall in love through internet. But in the net generally only the better part of picture is presented. Many other important traits are not visible.

29 Jul 11

jacklintan @jacklintan (1302) • Malaysia 25 Jul 11

I have books telling me, the whole world is in my hands if I want it and I can grab it. Yes, I agreed. I have people looking at me and say, " you can achieved more than what you have now". Yes, I agreed. I do my job and I...

feeling negative

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Cactus2010 Hi Jacklintan, You are most welcome any time. I am working for a government company. But I beliece that if you want to excel you need to work as if it is your personal business.

29 Jul 11

devideddi @devideddi (1435) • United States 26 Jul 11

What percentage of your time would you say you spend arguing with your other half? I'm gonna say roughly 25%. We have been together a very long time so I believe most of the giant arguments are in the past. We got them out of the...

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Cactus2010 We have been married for over 25 years now. The time spent on arguments would be less than 1%. Actually in the long run, married life is much more than ego trips and pleasures.

27 Jul 11

jacklintan @jacklintan (1302) • Malaysia 25 Jul 11

I have books telling me, the whole world is in my hands if I want it and I can grab it. Yes, I agreed. I have people looking at me and say, " you can achieved more than what you have now". Yes, I agreed. I do my job and I...

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Cactus2010 Hi Jacklintan, You know working on your business requires much more hardwork and grit than working for somebody else where you have limited resposnsibilities. It is a tough job and sometimes returns come rather slowly. But never loose heart. Try to expand...

27 Jul 11

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 22 Jul 11

I am. When I am sad, you can easily detect me. I may have a smile on my face, but they said my eyes belies it. I am silent when I am sad. You can tell, because I am basically a talkative and jolly person. When I am angry , I...

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Cactus2010 Relationships work on reflection principle. You give love, you get love. You give a rough comment, you will get a rough comment. There may be a time gap but it does comeback to you what you have given. So treat others in the same way as you would want yourself...

27 Jul 11

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 22 Jul 11

I am. When I am sad, you can easily detect me. I may have a smile on my face, but they said my eyes belies it. I am silent when I am sad. You can tell, because I am basically a talkative and jolly person. When I am angry , I...

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Cactus2010 Absolutely. and that is the punch line-"in a loving manner". Thanks.

25 Jul 11

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