Ekacker

@Ekacker (26)

United States • Age 57

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you go to Church?

sunshinecup @sunshinecup (7871) 3 Jan 07

Myself, no. I stopped years ago after several attempts at various ones. I find a church adds politics to religion and further distracts from one’s own relationship with God. I have found my connection with God as strengthen...

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Ekacker No, I don't go to church. I was raised Episcopalian and my husband was raised Southern Baptist. It was hard to find a church we could agree upon, so after a while we just gave up. It's too bad in a way, but I don't think it makes me a horrible person that...

3 Jan 07

Ice Hotel in Sweden

Dolcerina @Dolcerina (3376) • Hungary 3 Jan 07

Have you heard about this wonder, that people build from ICE and SNOW on the same place in Sweden each year?? It could be one of the WORDL's 7wonders, but this building stays only for 3 monthes in each year. Then it thaws under...

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Ekacker I think it looks like a wonderful place, but I like cold weather. I guess it wouldn't work here in Texas. ;-)

3 Jan 07

Weight loss

teenal @teenal (1400) • Dublin, Ireland 1 Jan 07

I am determined that I am going to loose weight. My NO Diet starts tomorrow. Im aiming to eat healthier and walk more. Im not going to do weight watchers, unislim the GI or any of the big seller diets as I feel they are only short...

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Ekacker Good luck to you. Being an American, I don't know what the equivalent of a "stone" is, but I can guess. I am also getting ready to go on a diet. I need to lose about 75 pounds...which is really, really scary.

2 Jan 07

Origin of the Christmas Card

AbbyGreenhill @AbbyGreenhill (45494) • United States 11 Dec 15

While you are busy writing out Christmas cards and mailing them to friends and family, have you ever thought about how this custom started? It wasn't invented by an American, but by Sir Henry Cole in 1843 in the United Kingdom....

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Ekacker While you are busy writing out Christmas cards and mailing them to friends and family, have you ever thought about how this custom started? It wasn't invented by an American, but by Sir Henry Cole in 1843 in the United Kingdom. Cole decided it would be a...

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Ghosts.... Do you believe in them????

vishnu_badlapur @vishnu_badlapur (560) • India 2 Jan 07

I believed that there is no such thing like ghost. But when I started watching the program "The Hunt" on discovery channel, I have too started believing in them... What do you think? Have anyone of you experianced ghost???

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Ekacker I don't know if I really believe in ghosts or not, but I have seen some stuff that I couldn't explain. If you have the SciFi channel, try watching "Ghost Hunters." The guys on that show go to places with the purpose of debunking the ghost stories. When...

2 Jan 07

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Does anyone else homeschool their children?

goldjay @goldjay (465) • United States 1 Jan 07

I homeschool my daughter and will homeschool my son as he gets bigger. If you homeschool, what are your reasons and what kind of curriculum do you use? I homeschool because I was very unhappy with the public school curriculum...

curriculum

education

homeschool

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Ekacker My husband and I are both public school teachers, but that doesn't mean we don't see value in homeschooling. I think it can be a terrific alternative if the parents are motivated and for certain types of children. My son has a learning disability in...

2 Jan 07

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Do I have to let him be a dad??

jessme @jessme (5) • United States 1 Dec 06

What do I owe the father? I am 19 years old and recently found out I am pregnant. I am single at the time, but I know the father is my ex-boyfriend. He is 21, and we only dated a few weeks and broke up because I could not trust...

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Ekacker He has legal rights as the child's father, but he also has a legal obligation (not to mention a moral one) to help support the child. If he wants to be involved with your child, then he should help support the child. Period. Get a lawyer, and fast.

2 Jan 07

Do YOU ?????

mauldinmama @mauldinmama (1501) • United States 28 Oct 06

Feel older than you are????

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Ekacker Not really. I'll be 40 this month and I guess that I feel about 40. Although the years between 30 and 40 FLEW past me, so I feel about the same as I did at 30. I guess that's a good thing!

2 Jan 07

What you want on your next Birthday?

311982 @311982 (679) • India 16 Oct 06

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Ekacker Since my next birthday is the big 4-0, I would like to be 10 years younger, lol.

2 Jan 07

Starting to understand why people ask things like..."What's your favorite color?

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 2 Jan 07

I'm fairly new to Mylot and I've posted some pretty sensitive personal information on here and asked for advice. I've gotten some really great responses!!! And I want to say "Thank you" to all those that have taken the time to...

meaningful discussions

mylot bullies

mylot discussions

rude people

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Ekacker It's easy to be brave sitting behind a keyboard where the person you are responding to can't find you. I have encountered "cyber-bullies" on AOL for years. Just ignore them. They only post because they want the attention...and in this case, the...

2 Jan 07

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Click - Good Movie - kids, family etc

msbyte @msbyte (219) • United States 1 Jan 07

I think every work-a-holic needs to watch this movie. I was a work-a-holic once, 9-11 changed that for me. I don't know if this movie would change it for anyone, but it might. You see, so many of us really do go through life on...

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Ekacker Yes, Adam is really Jewish. We went to school together and I remember when he had is bar mitzvah.

2 Jan 07

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what language do u speak at your house?

hariprasad_shp @hariprasad_shp (937) • India 6 Nov 06

What lang?????

language

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Ekacker Just English, I'm sad to say.

2 Jan 07

Are you for or against capital punishment?

estherlou @estherlou (5015) • United States 1 Jan 07

With all of the news about Saddam Hussein, I found myself a little disquieted over the whole affair. I discovered I probably could not be comfortable in wishing the death penalty on anyone. I feel he deserved his sentence, he...

capital punishment

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Ekacker Difficult issue... I think in many ways that forcing someone who has committed murder to live a long, unpleasant life in prison is more of a punishment than allowing them to die. That said, I can certainly understand that for the families of the victims...

2 Jan 07

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Have you ever met anyone famous in person?

sharone74 @sharone74 (4837) • United States 1 Jan 07

I met Rosa Parks years ago when she came out to the Desert to speak to a group, I once met John Glenn at a party and I would swear that it was that old codger who pinched my bottom. Especially from the way he was grinning when I...

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Ekacker I went to school with Adam Sandler from 5th grade through 9th grade...he was funny, even then. I also know Kelly Asbury, one of the directors of "Shrek 2." Another guy I went to school with is a professor at Harvard now, but I don't know if he's really...

2 Jan 07

Not for singles please!!!

ilunice @ilunice (946) • Netherlands 2 Jan 07

For those members that are married. Now that you are married and have been through ups and downs with your spouce,if you have the option to change your spouse and marry another person of your choice (without going through the...

option

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spouse ups and downs

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Ekacker No way. My husband and I will have been married for 19 years next month...and together for 21 years. I have not met anyone in the last 21 years that would be a better husband than he is.

2 Jan 07

Speaking French Fluently

Languish @Languish (137) 1 Jan 07

I've been studying french now on and off for a couple of years after being introduced to the vibrant and extensive music scene. This grew into a general love of all things french, the culture, the movies, the way of life and after...

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Ekacker I started learning French when I was in kindergarten...and I took it all the way through high school and half of college. I was, at one point in my life, truly fluent. Unfortunately, I married a man who doesn't speak French, so I haven't been able to...

2 Jan 07

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If you Knew you were Pregnant with Siamese Twins..Would you have an Abortion?

Jshean20 @Jshean20 (14348) • Canada 1 Jan 07

Well I know that the topic of abortion has it's share of people who support it and who are against it, but are there ever times when abortion is OK? What if you knew that you were pregnant with siamese twins, do you think you'd...

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Ekacker For me, it would depend on the situation...if the twins were cojoined in a way that would make separation relatively easy and not life-threatening to either twin, then I would probably proceed with the pregnancy. If they were sharing major organs, or if one...

2 Jan 07