Jennib1

@Jennib1 (62)

South Africa • Age 62

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Parents kissing each other infront of Kids??? Peoples Mind it here...Wat abt ya?

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 3 Sep 12

hi to all, well, The Question above is very simple, here in Pakistan, peoples mind it, & Calling the couple shameless, whats your country culture & what you said about this??? have a nice day.

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Jennib1 I agree with Amiya, it depends on the type of kiss. If it was an affectionate kiss on the mouth it not only teaches the children how to show affection towards their marriage mate when they themselves are married one day, but it also shows the love the parents...

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How do you dress yourself?

blinjk @blinjk (617) • United States 29 Aug 12

There are people who are really fashionable and would always like to follow trends that they see in magazines, TV and etc. Some would buy clothes that are not branded but at least they are in and some just make their own...

clothes to wear

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Jennib1 Over the years I have discovered, by trial and error, what colors and cut of clothing suits me. Every season I will add one or two items that are fashionable that season to my wardrobe. Unfortunately in my country we have a lot of mass produced clothes, unless...

31 Aug 12

Why is life hard for me ?

Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 31 Aug 12

Other woman smiles from here and there , am dignified than them , why can't i ? My life is composed of 99.8 % tears and point 2% smile. I almost forgot to smile. Why is life so hard for me Lotters ?

life hard

smile

tears

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Jennib1 Dear Angelpink I am really sorry to hear that you are so unhappy. Please believe me even those people that smile and look as if they do not have any worries in the world, also have their problems. It all depends on how we react to our problems. Always see a...

31 Aug 12

Why is life hard for me ?

Angelpink @Angelpink (4034) • Philippines 31 Aug 12

Other woman smiles from here and there , am dignified than them , why can't i ? My life is composed of 99.8 % tears and point 2% smile. I almost forgot to smile. Why is life so hard for me Lotters ?

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Jennib1 I am really sorry to hear that you are so unhappy. Just remember there is not one person who does not have problems in this world. It can be emotional, financial, family problems. Even those people that seem t

31 Aug 12

Best Barter-- 1 male alpaca for 8 pounds of carrots!

chrystalia @chrystalia (1208) • Tucson, Arizona 31 Aug 12

Living on a farm, I barter frequently, and today i got real lucky-- I got am unaltered male alpaca, bred for fiber, in exchange for 8 pounds of carrots! my three girls are very happy, and I'll have three crias (baby alpacas) next...

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Jennib1 When I had my slimming business I used to barter treatments for other types of services my clients were involved in. For example I had a client that was a personal trainer at our local gym. I exchanged my treatments with her for free personal training...

31 Aug 12

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ring tatoos are the new wedding brands

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 23 Aug 12

The traditional symbol of commitment has changed as couples now opt to get their rings inked with tattoos.Since the fingers are used a lot an advice to retouch these tattoos after a while as the color starts fading.A famous type...

ring tatoos are the new wedding brands

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Jennib1 It is a unique idea but what I have heard from my girlfriends that have got divorced was that they no longer wanted their wedding ring as it reminded them of bad memories and sometimes a bad husband. Those that got married again would rather wear a ring given...

23 Aug 12

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How do you cope with death?

jdiltz13 @jdiltz13 (10) • United States 20 Aug 12

Everyone deals with death and it happens everyday. Personally I have lost many relatives. My other died when I was 6 years old. I am now 17 and have coped with it pretty well. My dog just passed away the other night so the subject...

death

loss

relationship

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Jennib1 The first time I lost someone that I really loved was when my dad passed away a year and a half ago. It has been the worst thing that I and the rest of my family has ever experienced. When it happened I did a lot of research on how to deal with grief and the...

21 Aug 12

What is the most important thing you do before you go shopping?

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! @krupesh (2608) • India 11 Aug 12

Well I have only one thing in my mind.... that of leaving my wife behind..hehe(no need to tell the reason I hope).Likewise what is the most important thing you do before you go shopping?Some usually make a list of the things ,...

shopping

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Jennib1 I make sure I have my debit card and my husband's :) in my purse and that the house is neat and tidy before I leave. There is nothing worse than having a good day out shopping and having to come home and still do some cleaning up.

12 Aug 12

the government should improve the city

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 7 Aug 12

with the flooding during some rains or heavy rains, i think we can't just blame because of the flooding. i think it is more of the garbage that is causing the flooding. if the causes of flooding would be solved then even in strong...

city

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Jennib1 In certain areas in our country we also have a problem with garbage. I think one can only blame the government if there aren't enough rubbish bins in public places to put the garbage in, or if they don't provide trucks to transport the garbage away. But the...

7 Aug 12

Do you have a regular date with your friends?

jakie18 @jakie18 (233) • Philippines 6 Aug 12

I missed dating with my friends. Since we graduated in college we seldom see each other. Some of them are working outside of the country while others left here are busy with their jobs. We only see each other during special...

friends

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Jennib1 My friends and I try to make dates but most of the times it doesn't work out. We all live in the same town and still its difficult to get together. Life just gets in the way. Good friends play such an important role in our lives its a pity, not always due to...

6 Aug 12

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now a days what you mean good relationship

gan1231990 @gan1231990 (47) • India 1 Aug 12

now a days "money take all action in all matter, even in relationship money is take all decision .many people cheat their friends for money, what whould you say about this? now your hand is no money then friend is avoid you. i...

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Jennib1 It is important to have some money because we need it to live but one has to be careful that it doesn't rule your life. Money can also cause a lot of problems between friends. If friends only like you because you have money then they are not really true...

5 Aug 12

self-examination

JRJohnson @JRJohnson (85) • United States 4 Aug 12

Have you ever sat down in a quiet place alone for hours at a time just to examine your life and wonder where you're headed and where you've been?

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Jennib1 I usually do this early in the morning before anyone has got up. I don't necessarily think where I've been because that is in the past but I do like to think about where I am going or what type of person I am and how to improve on the bad points in my...

4 Aug 12

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He Was A Big Fraud .. :(

Dassodils @Dassodils (2010) • India 4 Aug 12

Hai friends.. First of all I hope that no one will experience like my friend had..My friend had a lover..they both were classmates..Then the years passed.Then they joined in different colleges..I was really wondering by s seeing...

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Jennib1 Yes it is true that there are men and women that are not what they seem be in this life and easily mislead people. But there are also people that have values and are trustworthy. I think if you had to meet someone that you liked it is a good idea to do a bit...

4 Aug 12

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One Smiley in a crowd full of Frowns

natnickeep @natnickeep (2336) • United States 2 Aug 12

It seems like anymore my day is filled with negative, depressed, half empty sort of people. The pic for the people interest got me thinking. How could that one smiley smile when every one else is frowning. I am the type of person...

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Jennib1 I used to be that type of person who smiled often despite the gloomy faces around me. Since my dad died a year and a half ago I don't seem to smile so often anymore. It was the first time I lost someone close to me and I think one is never the same afterwards...

2 Aug 12

Why do people become fatty after marriage?

honest_efforts100 @honest_efforts100 (1607) • India 31 Jul 12

Why do people become fatty after marriage? Yes I have noticed in most of the cases when any boy or a girl becomes fatty or get extra pounds on his/her body after marriage. What is the reason behind this. Is there any kind of...

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Jennib1 I think husbands or wives or both pick up weight because they eat more regularly. I remember when I was single and living on my own I was very happy just to have a sandwich or a bowl of soup for supper. Now that I have a husband I have to make sure he gets a...

31 Jul 12

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Your thoughts on Indian culture

Pavan_m01 @Pavan_m01 (115) • India 31 Jul 12

It is true that For a person his own country, religon, place is great when compared with the others, same goes with me also. As you all know this site has the people from many countries I would like to know your views about India....

indian culture

thoughts

thoughts on indian culture

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Jennib1 I haven't visited India yet but we have a province in my country that has a huge Indian population living there. I don't have too much knowledge about India and that what I had learned at school a very long time ago is long forgotten. All that I know is that...

31 Jul 12

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Committed?

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 29 Jul 12

People always say they in a committed relationship, If you with another person doesn't that mean you're committed......and I'm not talking hoochy mama"s What do you consider committed?

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Jennib1 To me being committed means there is a time in a casual relationship when two people decide to date each other exclusively until one or the other or both decide to terminate the relationship or wish to remain together till the end of their days. This applies...

30 Jul 12

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Who has the last say, husband or wife?

galloper30 @galloper30 (50) • Philippines 29 Jul 12

Given all things equal, say in terms of education, financial status, who makes the final decision in family matters. More often than not, the breadwinner in a family, the father in most cases, makes the decision. But nowadays, we...

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Jennib1 Our family just consists of myself and my husband. Although he is the bread winner I am fortunate to have a husband that will consult me and ask my opinion in all matters that will also affect me. Once we have discussed the pros and cons of a situation I do...

29 Jul 12

price tag

dottynaa @dottynaa (30) 13 Jul 12

i dont knw why some ladies will shoes and leave the price tag underneath the shoe and walk abt wit it, i find dis really annoying!!!

price tag

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Jennib1 I did that once as well. I felt very embarrassed when I discovered it and they weren't even expensive shoes. Those little price tags aren't always very easy to remove. I guess the girls that do wear them either were very excited to wear their new shoes, or...

29 Jul 12

my other half....:)

BethelSophia @BethelSophia (538) • Philippines 26 Jul 12

It is said in the bible that a man who found a wife found a treasure. Yes, it's true wives are treasures of their husband and husband is the keeper of the treasure. I am a woman who married to a widower. At first I don't want to...

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Jennib1 Wow BethelSophia it was so good to read your post! At the moment lots of our friends and a few family members are on the point of divorce. We seem to have more friends that are divorced compared to friends that are happily married. My husband also has clients...

27 Jul 12