Ploy1854

@Ploy1854 (59)

Canada • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Live today as it's the last day of your life.

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do you have bad past memories or heartache you wish to forget?

fredgame @fredgame (1260) • China 3 Jul 07

Good news, there has been new invention of being able to erase memories that traumatise the individual. isn't it wonderful? that certainly would improve life to people who are depressed by such bad memories that their lifes are...

drugs

inventions

medicines

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Ploy1854 It could be good to forgot all the bad memories but I really have no idea what will the result be? How can we select memories to erase? Which part of the brain keeps the bad memories? I really don't know about this but it sounds dangerous as well. Maybe...

4 Jul 07

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Do you feel sometimes you married the wrong person?

wisconsin26 @wisconsin26 (3859) • United States 29 Jun 07

I am just wondering if anyone eles feels like this.. Do you feel like sometimes you married the wrong person? I mean things were great in the start you were in love but than things just got to distant. You don't do anything like...

love

marriage

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Ploy1854 Hey:D I'm married for 2 years and things are like you said. I used to I think that I did make a wrong decision or what. But It's the life I chose and I'm happy to be with him and have him in my life even though he gets on my nerves sometimes. Yes, I want some...

30 Jun 07

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Is it worth it, anymore, getting married I mean?

DavidReedy @DavidReedy (2378) • United States 20 Dec 06

When I was younger I was very much under the spell of the sanctity of marriage. Now, that I'm almost thirty, more sexually experienced than I probably should be (by some people's standards anyway), and very aware of the...

marriage

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Ploy1854 I really agree with it. How do you find that love is real anyway? sometimes maybe two people start marriage without having experience with each other enough. Love and passion is not the same thing eventhough is related to each other. I think that it always...

30 Jun 07

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How would you react, or feel??..

fairygreen @fairygreen (533) • Philippines 29 Jun 07

How are you going to react when you seen your wife on a big screen having affair with someone else and married man?Knowing that your wife is madly inlove with you, only shes doing it to make revenge because she was really jealous...

affair

cheating wife

reactions

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Ploy1854 She is your wife and you love her, right? Feeling betrayed by someone we love is a real pain. I know that, but don't give up yet. What she did is really really wrong. Now it's your choice to forgive her or not. You both must talk about this and figure it out...

30 Jun 07

What about your college life

shilinjie668 @shilinjie668 (57) • China 27 Jun 07

I am a college student,in my collge we ofen have a lot of free time,so i have nothing to do i also feel depression.What about your college life it is good?

college life

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Ploy1854 I'm jealous of you because you are in such a best time of your life. I really love my college life, high school and etc. The time that we can study and learn as much as possible. The time that we can have friends and discover oursleves. When we get married or...

28 Jun 07

should i be sorry?

ms_anti_valentine @ms_anti_valentine (85) • Philippines 27 Jun 07

Have you shouted at your mom?to the instance that she cried,coz she didnt expect that your going to do that?..have you ever felt guilty after you have a fight?what did you do,after that?...and why is it so hard for the...

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Ploy1854 I always felt guilty and did it all the time. ( To my mother-in-law, anyway, she's like my own mother ) Sure that when we were angry we lost ourselves. The grown-up (older than you) will never say sorry. I always apologize first. There's no one right or wrong....

28 Jun 07

What do you think it means to be a good wife?

nixtickleme @nixtickleme (349) • United States 6 Jun 07

Someone who cooks and cleans. Someone who is independent. What? What do people think makes a good wife?

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Ploy1854 There is no right answer of what makes a good wife I guess. From what I have seen from my parents, my mother doesn't cook and clean the house. We have somebody to do that and she takes care of all the money in the house. She manage things and my dad go to...

27 Jun 07

Do u share everything with ur husband or will keep secretes or think b4 saying?

madhuraks @madhuraks (425) • Kuwait 27 Jun 07

1] I hv heard that some womans will think b4 sharing to their husband.They will sort out things which one to tell & which one not to tell. 2] Some r scared to talk to their husband thinking that what will b his reactions. 3]...

sharing

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Ploy1854 My husband and I don't get so close like that. It's me who think before saying because we used to get into arguments several times and I just want to avoid it. Mostly it's about my parents because they don't like my husband. I can say that my parents should...

27 Jun 07

Is There Anything That Your Spouse Or Significant Other Does That Annoys You?

wachit14 @wachit14 (3595) • United States 27 Jun 07

I love my husband and he's a good man, but he has little things that he does that I find annoying. He has a tendency to repeat the same stories over and over. He'll do it with me, but he always asks first "did I tell you this...

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Ploy1854 My husband always make jokes of my "in the mood" time. That's annoying and now I think I will not be the one to start it anymore. XD

27 Jun 07

do you ever wonder what it would be like if you didnt marry your other half

easymoney75503 @easymoney75503 (1702) • United States 26 Jun 07

it sounds so wrong and i feel bad when i do it but i cant help it sometimes i jsut wonder. like where would i be? what would i be doing? would i be with my oldest daughters dad? woud i be with someone else? would i be alone? would...

dreams

relationships

spouse

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Ploy1854 Hi :) I used to wonder like that sometimes but I feel guilty after that as well. I'm like you. I'm the older daughter in the family and got married at young age. What ever happened is happened. We can't do anything but we can decide our own future with the...

26 Jun 07

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Do you believe onlive love affair?Do you ever have it?

fengbo @fengbo (731) • China 14 Jun 07

Do you believe onlive love affair?In the Internet you cannot touch she/he in true,and also you don't know her/his appearance.Do you pay attention to her/his appearance any more? I have a girlfriend in the Internet.I don't know...

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Ploy1854 I believe that two people can fall in love online if they are sincere to each other and willing to go further more. I really understand what you mean "familiar stranger" because I have experienced it before. We started from sending pictures and play games...

24 Jun 07

My husband is a... grr

djbizmonkey34 @djbizmonkey34 (633) • United States 17 Jun 07

Yeah, I'm not sure what I would call my husband right now. I just know it wouldn't be nice. So here is the situation. The past few weeks I've been "in the mood" if you know what I mean. Well whenever I have expressed my "in the...

husbands

jerks

men

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Ploy1854 I really understand your situation very well! Besides, I'm only 23 and never been pregnant before. He might think of me as a house keeper. haha He always hugs me and kisses me like a kid. Guess that I am not sexy for him at all :(. He is not a romantic type...

24 Jun 07

if love is the most wonderful feeling in the world,why we get hurt sometimes?

krislouiebaby @krislouiebaby (2346) • Philippines 23 Jun 07

they say love is the most wonderful feeling in the world, the sweetest thing that could happen to a person. but why we get hurt when we are inlove? and why love fades?sweet things turns into sour, and togetherness turns into...

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Ploy1854 Yes. Love is the most wonderful feeling in the world. We get hurt because we have expectatioins with the ones we love. Love in my point of view is to be understanding, love the way that person is, always look for good things in them and have hope in love. Love...

24 Jun 07