SectorX4

@SectorX4 (55)

Australia • Age 42

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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How do you deal with insecurities?

nizzy18 @nizzy18 (44) • Philippines 11 Nov 07

I get really insecure whenever i see my boyfriends ex. though i can say that we're just on the same page when it comes to the looks department. I still find myself always comparing myself with her. How can i stop this?

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SectorX4 I suppose it can depend on how he split up with her, if she dumped him because he cheated on her then your insecurity is a lot more understandable. If not and you and your boy friend have been relatively happy then I don't think you have anything to worry...

11 Nov 07

Are you satisfied with mylot???

MUKUL_6907 @MUKUL_6907 (292) • India 11 Nov 07

A heavy hi to all mylot users! I love mylot. I signed up here last week and I am very happy to be its member. I think this is one and only site of its kind....... What do you think? Are you satisfied with mylot or want...

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SectorX4 The site needs a serious re-design to logically lay out the profile and account preferences in my opinion, the site needs to be as simple as possible to attract and keep users coming back to the site. Also an experience system more like Yahoo Answers...

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Why is God a he?

dreamy1 @dreamy1 (3811) • United States 10 Nov 07

I'm not religious but I consider myself spiritual. I don't believe in the bible but I do believe in a God, Supreme Being, Intelligence, The Source, whatever you want to call it. I actually get a little bothered when people always...

god

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SectorX4 I think its probably due to most religions referring to god as a he (Buddha, Allah, etc) so it puts people in the mindset that if there is a god then it's got to be a guy. On top of that being an authority figure society has a preconception that it must be a...

10 Nov 07

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If God is One - Then why so many religions?

AKRao24 @AKRao24 (27424) • India 10 Nov 07

We say that God is one . Nothing on this can happen without his consent. The destiny is predetermined by him. We are all the children of God! Then why God has made us to come up with so many religions ? Whjen every one ultimately...

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SectorX4 Thats is a very dicey question and I think the inherent contradictions and hyporacy in religion just proves that its a fraud. I think that religion gives people who are perhaps less well equipped to deal with everyday life somewhere to turn to explain why...

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do you believe in guardian angels and demons?

JowJie @JowJie (271) • Philippines 9 Nov 07

Do you believe in them? do you know a true to life story about this?When I was a baby, my mom told me that she left me sleeping on her lap. She fell asleep too,but she suddenly woke up when she felt me slipping downwards (there...

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SectorX4 I think that people need something like angels/demons to believe in to rationalize what they see and feel and as the responses above show saying that there is a guiding force keeping us all safe makes everyone feel happy. I don't believe in what I can't see...

10 Nov 07

laughter riot.

sang2k2 @sang2k2 (1833) • India 10 Nov 07

Have you laughed to the extent that you had tears in your eyes?Do you have any insatnces where you have laughed from your heart and njoyed the most.

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SectorX4 I have a couple of times but not too often, I know what you mean by laughing from the heart but I don't think thats really me so no.

10 Nov 07

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I'm sad...=(

MaeGoddess @MaeGoddess (70) • Philippines 10 Nov 07

i just wanna share this to you that i'm kind of sad these days, but by writing my feelings down somehow lightens me... i really love someone but that man doesn't love me back and by that it makes me sad, huhu...=( why do guys...

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SectorX4 It's hard to know what to really tell you since I don't know your situation but I know from experience that it works the same in reverse as well. If he's knowingly lead you on then there isn't much you can do but just move on and try not to let it get you...

10 Nov 07

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what do you enjoy riding a bike or drving a car

binny29 @binny29 (1527) • India 31 Oct 07

i enjoy drivng a car because its more comfortable and i could easily relax in it and drive long distances

bike

car

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SectorX4 It depends on the distance involved, if its at all practical to ride a bike I would prefer to ride since you have more control over your route and can go as fast or slow as you want. In a car you are really confined by road rules and traffic that its a lot...

10 Nov 07

remember when i wrote about finally getting my own car.....

joshdale08 @joshdale08 (2320) • Philippines 10 Nov 07

and finding it difficult to muster the nerve to drive it? well, the car is still on the garage and i'm still not driving. i don't know if i ever will find the courage to drive it! i've gone as far as to tell my husband to just...

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SectorX4 Have you done driving lessons? I know when I was getting my license (Its obviously going to be different, sounds like you're in the US) I had a driving instructor who taught me all the basics, I hated the lessons with a passion as I didn't want to crash or do...

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have you ever thought of how your own funeral should be?

joshdale08 @joshdale08 (2320) • Philippines 10 Nov 07

first, i'd like mine to have lots of people. that way, i'd know that i'm loved. then i'd like plenty of singing to go around. specially of my favorite songs. then i'd like everyone to be as colorful as they can - no blacks & no...

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SectorX4 The only thing I would really like to have at my funeral was the lessons I learned in life so that other people might enjoy their lives more, other then that I would suggest a party be held in my honor including lots of drinking :) The reason I would want...

10 Nov 07

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What do you usually do on New Year's Eve?

fanji008 @fanji008 (775) • China 10 Nov 07

Hi,everybody! What do you usually do on New Year's Eve? Do you remember New Year's Eve of last year? What did you do to celebrate? Have you got any plans for this year? Would you like to share with us?

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SectorX4 I usually go to one of the large parties on New Years Eve and drink up and party, last year we had a house party and we counted down to New Years through the radio countdown, was an alright night.

10 Nov 07

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how do you start a converation?

arsonizta @arsonizta (944) • Philippines 19 Oct 07

How do you converse with a stranger? What are the things you tell, ask. please tell everything you could tell. thanks

conrversation

converse

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SectorX4 One thing that might help if they are looking tired/bored or something along those lines you can always ask them if they've have a long day, some people might not like something like that since its a bit personal but if the person has had a long day they'll be...

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Do you really care whether or not J-Lo is pregnant, if Britney is clean or not ?

monicathinks407 @monicathinks407 (311) • United States 2 Nov 07

I am so tired of all the hoo-la about these celebrities lives. I love them all and love their work but I am getting tired of the dirt. Who cares? I know it is human of us to be curious about other people's live...hey we are on...

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SectorX4 I couldn't agree more, the lives (and most of the celebrities) I couldn't care less for. I DO NOT care what they do, what trouble they get themselves into or ANYTHING like that, it perplexes me why someone would even care. I mean maybe if you were friend...

10 Nov 07

Do you gossip or do you keep secrets ?

kudeshi @kudeshi (529) • India 10 Jul 07

Do you gossip or do you keep secrets ?

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SectorX4 I keep secrets, if someone tells me "You can't tell anyone" or "dont tell anyone" then I don't tell anyone regardless of if they ask me or not. If someone has put their trust in you going around and telling people not only hurts them but proves that you aren't...

10 Nov 07

What is your favorite style of music?

MorningDew @MorningDew (833) • Saudi Arabia 10 Nov 07

As for me I prefer the 80's classics and Blues.. I really love the 80's music it was full of meanings, not a guy or girl screaming meaningless words with meaningless music... and as for the blues I love Gary Moore (On day) and...

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SectorX4 Im more a fan of dance and hip hop. I grew up listening to a KLF CD my dad owned and it kind of went from there and I listen to lots of different types of dance music. Hip hop on the other hand the lyrics and wordplay involved is what really interests me,...

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Would you perfer to go to Hawaii by yourself or someone?

eachen2002 @eachen2002 (889) • United States 15 Aug 07

I guess it would it depend on who it was.If it was a boyfriend it would be ok I guess.I love my family but they get on my nerves to much.I want to relax not argue with them.

would you perfer to go to hawaii by yourself or so

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SectorX4 I'd probably prefer to go on my own since I'd rather the freedom to do what I want then have to discuss everything, then I can just wander wherever interests me. I might consider going with someone but only if we had very similar interests and would go to...

10 Nov 07

Recommendations for places to visit

Pablofrase @Pablofrase (44) 9 Nov 07

I visited South America last year, and am going back next month to do the northern part as well as Central America. But i was wondering if people had any suggestions/tips on where to go next. I've done alot of Europe and South...

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SectorX4 I would recommend going to Thailand, I went over about 6 months ago for the fullmoon party and I had an excellent time, the staff at the place I stayed on Ko Phangan. Everything is extremely cheap in comparison to Australia and the I love the humid...

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Are you Financial Secured for the next 10 Years??

ayou82 @ayou82 (3450) • Philippines 10 Nov 07

Can anyone be open and say if they are financially secured for the next 10 years or more??Me, I really dont know but I will keep fighting to struggle..To Live!

life

mony

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SectorX4 Im not even financially secure for the next week let alone 10 years, I have enough money to my bills and keep afloat but thats about all really. Life is full of trials like this and where other people see futility in the 9-5 grind some see it as a stop gap...

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Would you lie to your friend to make her feel good?

happi3 @happi3 (77) • United States 10 Nov 07

If you had a friend that had a low self esteem about the way she looked and she felt like she was never going to find anyone would you lie to her to make her feel better?

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SectorX4 I try very hard not to do this as even though you have their best interests at heart you are shielding them from the truth and thats something thats going to be a lot more hurtful down the line. Not only this no matter how you rationalize it you are not being...

10 Nov 07

do you trust all of your friends?

tantal25 @tantal25 (838) • United States 10 Nov 07

well if you ask me, not all of them... just my REAL friends... how about you? do you trust all of your friends?

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SectorX4 Personally I would only consider someone a friend if I knew they were willing to do the same for me as I was for them, people use the term VERY loosely nowadays and anyone they don't hate is their "friend" and I wouldn't count on any of those people to be...

10 Nov 07