Shustme

@Shustme (33)

United States • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Marriage Preparation. What is the list?

r_yuen @r_yuen (332) • Indonesia 9 Sep 07

After having some conversations tonight, my girlfriend said she will be ready for marriage 1 year from now. WOW! It surprised me. Hehehehe... Because I haven't propose yet. But actually she knew that we have that plan to get...

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Shustme Life is confusing wether you get married or not so if you think you can be married instead and be husband material(don't cheat,try to communicate, etc. etc.) I think you will be better off, specailly if you have found some qualities in your other half...

13 Sep 07

Can you forgive a cheater??

rachsal4 @rachsal4 (391) • United States 13 Sep 07

Is the saying true, once a cheater always a cheater? Can you forgive him, better yet can you make the realationship work after someones cheated?

cheating

love

relationships

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Shustme to make the story short... NO

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How much you believe in herbal medication?any of them you are using these days?

medstudents4 @medstudents4 (826) • India 24 Aug 07

herbal medications were rather unheard a few decades back but these days their use and applications are on the go..do you use any of them?do you find them good and effective?please share your views here if you have used them...

healthherbal treatment

herbal cure and side effects

herbal medication

herbal remedies

herbs

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Shustme well, definetly I find(anyone can find) a senna very obviously effective as it gives you a belly ache and makes you go to the restroom... pepperment and kava kava makes me very relaxed...

7 Sep 07

can two people from different cultures and dating habits come together?

Rajni9 @Rajni9 (52) • Mauritius 7 Sep 07

Can two people from different cultures and dating habits really come or stay together for life? i mean one may be used to dating and the other has never done it in his/her own life? i wonder if things can work between them. can...

dating and different cultures

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Shustme That is a very interesting question that I ask myself also, so if you get answers, I need them too... I would like to think there is a possibility if you both are positive about it and accept the other person as they are and where they come from... There...

7 Sep 07

Do you think being single at the age of 30 is still good?

selene_31 @selene_31 (90) • Philippines 27 Jul 07

I have a lot of friends who got married early. Many are separated now with kids. As i look at them, being a single parent is hard but happy. Every time we are having a gathering and seeing their children grow like a sister or...

still single

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Shustme I turned 35 and a single mom, a fashionable still looking good one though... it's like reincarnation lol... most of my friends with or without kids that are married think I live so glamorous and happy and whatever cause they always have a complaint about their...

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Pogo

blackkatdreamer @blackkatdreamer (1461) • Canada 5 Aug 07

How many of you are pogo.com addicts... I was introduced to it almost 2 years ago and cant stop... I have to be a premium member and get those addictive badges... although people say Canadian cannot win the money so I was also...

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Shustme what is pogo???

5 Aug 07

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January wedding

nickspinky @nickspinky (198) • United States 23 Jul 07

I am planning a wedding for January of 2009. I want to do like a Cinderella theme cause of the beautiful blues that she has with her. I love the idea of the prince and princess type of thing but I dont know how far to go with it....

wedding

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Shustme wedding decorations are always beautiful no matter what colors... play with different colors and even mixing the white and off white...

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Love, three types of love ...

rhonerlianz @rhonerlianz (173) • Malaysia 5 Aug 07

Basically, there are three types of love. The first one is self-centered. A person with this type of love want everything for themselves at the first place. They think of others as the next priority. The second type is two ways...

love

three types of love

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Shustme I have most of my life been focusing on others without expecting back, now I'm more into myself, I am learning to be more selfish and think of me first and thinking of others as a next priority, also looking at situations to see how the other person usually...

5 Aug 07

JUNK FOOD IS BAD FOOD???

telulas @telulas (459) • Indonesia 4 Dec 06

what do you think about junk food???

food

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Shustme It's not what goes in your mouth, it's what comes out...

29 May 07

Do u ever had the fear that someone has feeling for u?

go4amitshah @go4amitshah (1005) • India 28 May 07

I want to ask u this one. lets that if u anytime literraly feared that someone is griowing a special feeling for u? can propose u any day? it may be you are noty feeeling the same way for that person? I had this experience one...

love

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Shustme yes, many times and It just proves that men and women just can not be friends...

29 May 07

PREDICT who will be the next PRESIDENT of the United States!

ramonbayron @ramonbayron (15) • Philippines 29 May 07

who will be the next US President after Pres. Bush? Black or white? Male or Female? Republican or Democrat? Make your predictions NOW! :)

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Shustme I want obama, but I'm afraid it won't be a fair campaign and it will be hillary if not another puppet like bush... "ron paul"

29 May 07

Low GI and low carb diets - any experiences?

fluffleshark @fluffleshark (810) • Ireland 31 Dec 06

Hi! I've been thinking about starting either a low carb or a low GI diet. I've been trying to lose weight now for decades, with absolutely no success. I've tried virtually everything. I eat very little, and unfortunately I think...

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Shustme I can just tell you that I know a high carb diet gets me in trouble, I don't eat too much meat anyway...

29 May 07

How to stay asleep

sweetpea5375 @sweetpea5375 (18) • United States 29 Apr 07

I don't ususally have trouble falling asleep. I have trouble staying asleep. I wake up between 2 to 6 times every night. This has been going on for about 3 months. I have tried some over the counterr sleep aids, but I feel...

insomnia

sleep

stay asleep

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Shustme don't think, do breathing exercises like deep breathing inhale deep and exhale very slow or ,,, ignore thoughts in your mind and concentrate on just the way you are breathing normally, concentrate on each breath and clear your mind this way...

29 May 07

How many of you like Sushi? Could you eat it every day?

julialaurene0206 @julialaurene0206 (1262) • Philippines 29 May 07

I'm scared to eat it, I am not a raw fish fan.

fish

sushi

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Shustme not me, I've tried

29 May 07

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Garcinia Cambogia

Lucille7 @Lucille7 (509) • South Africa 16 May 07

I read last night in a Herbal book that this herb is used mainly in promoting Weight Loss in a more natural way. It's main ingredient is Hydroxycitric Acid (HCA) and a dosage of between 750mg to 1500mg should be taken per...

garcinia

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Shustme Well, I read today something I never thought existed "natural herb birth control pills" lol I don't need them, but it's very interesting...

29 May 07

Moving House

Lucille7 @Lucille7 (509) • South Africa 17 May 07

I hate moving house, and I am moving house this weekend... there is so much to organize and arrange and I just do not do well with being disorganized in my home during the whole moving process... I do not have money to pay people...

moving house

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Shustme the best advice I can give you is to "let go" of things you really don't need cause if it's hard for you to organize getting in boxes, I'm sure you can live without a lot of stuff in them... been there already... live as clutter free as you can so you can...

29 May 07

Living on a tight budget

worldwise1 @worldwise1 (14885) • United States 28 Mar 07

All this talk about working and welfare got me thinking. I live on a very modest income. After I pay my bills there is very little left. What I am wondering is who else lives on a strict budget, and (other than bills), what is...

expensive pasttime

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Shustme definetly in the same boat here, but I have many passions and so does my daughter lol

30 Mar 07

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Living on a tight budget

worldwise1 @worldwise1 (14885) • United States 28 Mar 07

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Shustme definetly in the same boat here,

30 Mar 07

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