aims_0311

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How do you cope up with stress

grace147 @grace147 (223) • Philippines 13 Nov 12

We face variety of stressors everyday in our life. At times, stressors are external while most of it are internal. In my opinion, external stressors are avoidable and perhaps manageable but what makes it a "stressor" is how we...

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aims_0311 I agree that it's a matter of how an individual perceive the situation. If we perceive things we encounter negatively, it will really stress us out. In situations where I have control over, I usually find the best way to resolve the things the soonest time...

16 Jan 13

What kind of stress you have for today?

ardhidoank @ardhidoank (136) • Indonesia 20 Nov 12

Of course, Everyone experiences stress at time; adult, teens, and even kids. A feeling that's created when we react to particular events. It's the body way of rising to a challenge and preparing to meet a tough situation with...

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aims_0311 That's a good question, what kind of stress do I have today. Well, recently, we were so stressed because my new born nephew was suffering due to some illnesses but no worries, everything is already ok. We're glad that he's fully recovered and we're so thankful...

15 Jan 13

i need some stress reliever

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 14 Nov 12

i have been using gadgets like mobile phones and tablets to relief my stress but oftentimes they can add to my stress actually. as i become more busy learning how to use them and looking for more applications for them so i can...

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aims_0311 Definitely right! Having too much gadgets and too much eagerness to learn how to use them would make you more stress because you would tend to focus on learning everything about the gadget. Since you are looking for something to do that you would enjoy, try to...

15 Jan 13

i don't want to worry

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 4 Jan 13

I'm a person that likes to worry. I'm tired of it. So i want to change my attitude and way of thinking. I want to be more positive in life. I don't want to think of many bad things that may happen in the future. I would like to...

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aims_0311 Hi hotsummer! It's great to hear that moving forward, you would be focusing on looking on the positive things in life. Worrying too much would only makes you stressed. Being positive all the time would make us a better person. Being positive also makes us...

15 Jan 13

Stress and Anxiety

Emre1206 @Emre1206 (41) • Turkey 4 Jan 13

Everyone has a different technic to cope with stress and anxiety.I usually listen to some relaxing music such as classical of blues. What do you do when you get stressed?

anxiety

stress

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aims_0311 Like you, I also listen to music that I loved when I'm stressed. I noticed that recently, when I'm facing stressful situations, I tend to eat a lot and I think it's now becoming one my ways to relive stress. To make it more fun, I invite close friends to it...

15 Jan 13

My number one enemy

aubrey @averygirl72 (37845) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

This year I made an extra effort to focus on stress management and indeed next 2013 I will focus more on it. I realized all the garbage thoughts I allowed on my mind is product of my anxiety and stress and with that I am sorry...

new year

stress management

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aims_0311 Hi Averygirl! It's good to hear that you're exerting extra effort to effectively manage stress. You're right about that. Thinking of negative thoughts really makes us stressed so I suggest that instead of thinking of those, focus on thinking about the...

15 Jan 13

Stress Management.......

mukesh414u @mukesh414u (86) • India 1 Jan 13

As long as the life is considered i heard it is collections of all struggles and happiness all the time... But when it comes about Managing stress, I have got to learn it from people who's been managing since long time.... Can...

stress

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aims_0311 Everybody struggles to be able to have a happy and meaningful life. I think it is normal to experience stress because it is also part of our living. Try to imagine life without any pressure or problems. Don't you think its less challenging? I do consider...

15 Jan 13

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Where or who do you go to when you are under a lot of stress?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 27 Dec 12

Stress comes in all types. Big or small. Is there a place you go to when your stressed, something you do, or someone you talk too. I like to write in my journal when I'm stressed. Thankfully there are wonderful friends that I have...

stress

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aims_0311 Going to relaxing places that we enjoy helps in relieving stress. When I'm stressed, I usually go to our favorite mountain with my husband. We call it "Flow". It takes 20-30 minutes to get there. Everytime I get there, I enjoy spending time with myself while...

15 Jan 13

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What‘s your way of escaping the stress?

sunshinesophie @sunshinesophie (794) • China 20 Dec 12

Stress is our biggest enemies,and there are many kinds of stress,some caused by work,some by friend,family,even by ourselves. For me,I would get rid of my stress from work by talking with my good friends,sometimes I don't need...

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aims_0311 When I'm stressed, I always find a way to see my daughter and spend time with her. It feels great to see her smiling, laughing and doing the stuff that she enjoy. Being away from my daughter is one of the things that makes me stress most of the time so I...

15 Jan 13

Husband out of love

Neriz69 @Neriz69 (1093) • Philippines 6 Jan 13

I believe my husband does not love me anymore. I tried to talk to him heart to heart but he does not want to participate. It's like he is just going home to us because of his responsibility. I feel that after he is done with all...

husband out of love

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aims_0311 I'm sorry to hear about that... I think, you can still try saving your relationship with him. It's normal for couples to have arguments because of lot of misunderstandings but you can still try to work it out. With all the pointing, still try to make him feel...

7 Jan 13

Help me stop her bed wetting

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 7 Jan 13

my daughter is approaching twelve years and occasionally still wets her bed.i don't want to think of medicine but a natural way to make her stop.is there any good method that she can try that will stop her,i find its beginning to...

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aims_0311 I'm not sure if this is gonna work for her but you can advise her to pee before going to bed... If she drinks a lot before going to sleep, I suggest that she minimize that especially drinks that contain caffeine.. If she wants something to drink, make sure she...

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She wants to go to College in her 30 /40s

silverfox09 @silverfox09 (4708) • United States 20 Dec 12

I am not sure whats her age exactly but she is my mother's friend ? She wants to do her bachelor degree but she is in her 30 are 40s , so she is having doubt . My mother is encouraging her to go but she is still...

education

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aims_0311 yeah! right! 24 is very young and I honestly feel very young with my age now(26). I started college when I was 15 but some reasons I needed to quit. hehe! Anyway, I'm now looking forward to our graduation this coming March. Here in the Philippines, students...

6 Jan 13

Training at your job

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (160949) • United States 8 Dec 12

I spent eight hours today doing training for Non Violent Physical Crisis Intervention, a requirement for some of the people I work with. I have had the class before. I have also had training at another job in a similar program...

crisis prevention intervention

danger to self or others

safety and security for all

self defense

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aims_0311 Wow!!!! You are lucky to have this kind of training because not everyone is being given the opportunity to have it. I haven't had any special trainings like this but I admire those who are good in self defense. I would love to try how to frisk someone and put...

5 Jan 13

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Career planning

lldrwin @lldrwin (187) • China 7 Dec 12

Six months ago ,I started working.My company is an ODM ,who manufactured computers ,including HP,DELL,LENOVO,SONY,TOSHIBA and so on. I think I am not happy working here.The environment of our company look like most of employees...

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aims_0311 Being happy with what you are doing is important especially that you deal with it everyday. If you are not happy with the company and unsatisfied with what it offers you, I suggest that you look for another job where you could meet your needs as an individual....

5 Jan 13

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To what extent does text messaging interrupt your work?

dolce_vita78 @dolce_vita78 (8062) • Philippines 27 Jul 12

You probably missed the deadline just because you were not able to accomplish a task due to texting. We may not know it but those few seconds that we read those messages and another few seconds to reply total to minutes or even...

texting

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aims_0311 It is true that texting or even chatting while dealing with our tasks interrupt us so accomplishing it on time is also at risk. I know some who cannot really get rid of texting at work. In my previous works, even if bringing cellphones inside the office is not...

5 Jan 13

How to deal with irritating relatives?

rubyroy @rubyroy (824) • India 3 Jan 13

Relatives could be irrational,irritating relationship which you will have to tolerate whether you like it or not.Yesterday was the engagement party of my sister law's elder daughter. There was a slight misunderstanding between her...

abstain

participate

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aims_0311 It really depends on the situation. If your husband didn't attend to avoid uncertain things to happen during the ceremony, I would say that he made the right decision. If it causes pain on your relatives, what more on the part of your husband. I think, it was...

5 Jan 13

How to win my fist interview?

mayrylflores @mayrylflores (173) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

I will be having an interview next month. I wanted you to help me to win my first interview. I apply as a call center agent in one of the company here in the Philippines. I'm a fresh graduate and I want to have some idea what...

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aims_0311 First of all, good luck to your first interview. You can make it! I used to be a call center agent and worked with several call center companies here in the Philippines. In my experience, the very first question that they usually ask is "Tell me something...

5 Jan 13

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Everyday of opportunity

mayrylflores @mayrylflores (173) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

I spend every single day of my life doing something to improve myself. I read, write, sing and chat. I don't believe opportunity knocks only once but it does everyday. It is on ourselves to find it out. If we search, there is...

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aims_0311 Absolutely right! There's an answer to whatever questions we may have! So if you have some questions about yourself, you might wanna figure it out yourself as well. Discover! Learn new things! Just enjoy dealing with the stuff that you love and continuously...

5 Jan 13