akacipher

@akacipher (64)

India • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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What would you like to know about myLot?

Crash @Crash (312) • United States 10 Feb 08

The 48 hour period is over, and responses are no longer being accepted! New responses will not be answered, so please read the multiple answers I've already given here. Thanks!I think it's time we have a revealing...

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akacipher I have kown a lot about my lot's working reading the discussions. I just have one question, why are users having posts less than 500 not allowed to paste. According to the warning its to prevent spam, but can my lot not deal with spammers in any other way? i...

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Once in a Lifetime.. do you have one?

misheleen73 @misheleen73 (6037) • United States 2 Feb 08

To make this a discussion, after you read my story, please share your story. Do you have a "once in a lifetime" in your life??This is dedicated to my hubby. Our 12 year anniversary is coming up on February 14th. Let me start at...

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akacipher There is really no story that i have as of now......... have never had an anivesarry! was in love once.... was close to completeing an year to when just 15 days before it my gf ditched me for someone else and for no fault of mine. Its ok, makes me feel...

4 Feb 08

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to the girls ( the finished version)

phillygirl606 @phillygirl606 (1112) • United States 2 Feb 08

This one is too all the girls who fall in love with guys who do not deserve them!!This ones to the girls who you can take home to mom, but won't because it's easier to mess with a another than work on a relationship. This is for...

poetry

the girls

to the girls finished version

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akacipher Its nice, But i have a one thing against it. Why did you actually include the word GIRLS everywhere? i mena do you think it never happens to guys? do you think that all girls in this world are so good that they never cheat or ditch guys? Well having heart...

4 Feb 08

he chosen me

mamakatsarj @mamakatsarj (143) • Philippines 2 Feb 08

His wife ask and he has chosen me... i love him but i can seems to find satisfaction in knowing that i hurt his wife... at church, i hear her voice in my head... as she call me on my mobile phone asking how long we have been...

affair

love

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akacipher hi there, i have been follwing your story here and i am happy that he chose you! Now to answer your guilt, well i think you should get over it. Just for a moment imagine that he does go back to his wife, now tell me does she desreve good treatment from him...

4 Feb 08

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long distance relationship

imsong @imsong (28) • India 30 Jan 08

People lets share about long distance relationship.....I believe in LDR, trusting eachother & trusting God will help out the relationship....Moreover, both the partners should value one another....Wat's ur opinion?

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akacipher I have been in Long distance relationshps only, seems i just cant have anything other than that... its fate not something i chose! Anywyas i find it preety easy to be in a long distance relationship, this is my second! The irony of fate as it seems appeared to...

31 Jan 08

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im scared

mamakatsarj @mamakatsarj (143) • Philippines 30 Jan 08

when i said that im in a great hold of my feelings im lying, frankly im killing myself... im torturing my heart and making myself feel worst... I love him... now i can admit... his wife or exwife wants him back... for the kids he...

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akacipher That is really a complicated situation, I think u had posted a question on the same issue a few days back. Anywyas, i think you should just talk it out with the man. Let him chose what he wants, after all its his life. I know you love him a lot, and i think he...

31 Jan 08

Why is he so stubborn?

quiltedblessings @quiltedblessings (1066) • United States 30 Jan 08

Okay, so me and hubby have been married for 12 years. He says that when we have an argument, that it is usually because I become defensive. I see it as if I say something that he does not agree with, he has to prove me wrong. Its...

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akacipher Men are somewhat like babies, they like stuff to happen as they like it (not always though, sometimes we do agree on others opinions,... but only someties). just hop along with them, if things get screwed up by doing thigns and having thigns their way then......

30 Jan 08

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interesting fictional question 4

bettyrose20 @bettyrose20 (997) • Philippines 29 Jan 08

this is a fictional question. i just want your opinion on this matter. here goes: your friend and your boyfriend had a one-night stand that eventually you found out. whom will you choose? a) your bf and ditch your...

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akacipher dithch both of them....... is there any need to specify why? this is biggest betryal on both there parts and it deserves no forgiveness under any circumstances.

30 Jan 08

interesting fictional question2

bettyrose20 @bettyrose20 (997) • Philippines 29 Jan 08

this is a fictional question. i just want your opinion on this matter. here goes: After 6 months of separation, abby and her husband got back together. but while they were apart, the woman got pregnant from a brief affair....

fictional question

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akacipher There is absolutely no need for all this to be told to the child. If he is getting thte love of a mother adn father in his family then that is all the child actually needs. There is nothing positive that can happen if he is told the truth on the contrary it...

30 Jan 08

enduring relationships

bettyrose20 @bettyrose20 (997) • Philippines 29 Jan 08

Would you endure hardships with the one you love or enjoy luxury without him/her?

endurance

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akacipher I dont care how my life shapes up, but if i am with her then i am happy!!! I dont care how hard it is going to get, i just want her by my side and on my side fighting it along with me and taking care of each other. Life can never be easy, its has to be...

30 Jan 08

Do you believe in soul mates?

katkah @katkah (235) • United States 29 Jan 08

Do you believe in soul mates? Have you met yours? For those of you how believe in reincarnation, do you believe that soulmates find one another in every lifetime? I do believe in soul mates, always have, and it took me 30...

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akacipher I dont believe in soulmates. A relationship can work out if you want it too, if you are willing to work on it.... otherwise anything can fail. Its all about your feelings mutually that decide the destiny of the relatuionship. But ya if two people feel...

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The Ideal Valentine's Day date.

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 29 Jan 08

What is your ideal Valentine's Day date? Mine goes as follows. My baby comes over wearing jeans put carrying his suit, I will explain. We order pizza and watch St Valentine's Day Massacre, the movie Or the documentary.After that...

relationships

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akacipher Thats a really nice thing to do on a day like this!! I wish i could be as lucky as you. I actually got a girlfriend and i love her a lot, she too loves me back equally, but the thing is we have a long distance relationship. I cant even just run upto her and...

30 Jan 08

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Are you scared of commitment?

ArmyChick @ArmyChick (488) • United States 29 Jan 08

If so, why? and how do you know? Personally, i feel that its a part of the growing process so for me its easy. Then again, i am a female. But men and women, are you afraid? What makes you so scared?

afraid

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akacipher I am not scared of commitment, i dont even know what this 'Scared of commitment' thing is. I fell that commitment comes automatically in a relationship you dont have to tell yourself that you are commited. so if commitment comes automatically and unknowingly...

29 Jan 08

Does absence make the heart grow fonder?

Jess @JJ4Ever (4693) • United States 28 Jan 08

In a relationship, do you think long distance is good for every couple to experience? Why or why not?

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akacipher The worth of a dollar can never be realized unless you lose it!! Having said that, one can never loser their lover, and they also should not. but then it certainly is true that staying away does make you miss them and that is probably when you realize how much...

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Gentlemen would you let your girlfriend drive your car?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 28 Jan 08

I just saw a clip of the boyfriend test on demand and this was one of the questions. It was a way for a woman to tell if her boyfriend could share. But I thought that it was a very unfair question.A man that knows how to share...

relationships

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akacipher Girls Basically lack the skill to drive....... They are the reasons for most of the accidents :) Its not about my gf, but if that was possible i would make all the ladies stop driving!! Anyways no use doing propoganda for the ideas that never will be...

29 Jan 08

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I was brokenhearted, but I've managed to move on...

darkangel079 @darkangel079 (1498) • United States 20 Jan 08

I blogged this a couple of days ago of my past love I've known for almost 2 years. Met her in the Philippines in Naga City, we dated, grew in our friendship, then turned into love. We went out, dated, got to know each other...

brokenhearted

end of relationship

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akacipher Sorry to hear your story dude! I have been there taken that. Trust me dont look back at that time, it will hurt you. i wish people could justs top falling out of love like this and realize that things work on their own and that you have to make them work....

23 Jan 08

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Is it too insensitive to end a four year relationship?

kornflakes @kornflakes (298) • Philippines 18 Nov 07

If a woman broke up with her boyfriend of four years just because she's tired of him, is she insensitive? If he tries to get back with her, is he pathetic? If he's still trying to work it out and she has a new person in her life,...

relationships

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akacipher the girl like this is nothing less that a bit** and a who**!! The guy is too good for such a girl....... Its hard to move on but then no matter how much the guy tries the bit** is never gone listen!!! In the end he just has his sobs and loneliness to be...

20 Nov 07

What do you think about it?

guext65 @guext65 (129) • United States 20 Nov 07

What do you think about having relationship on two different city? I am dating someone now. I live in East side, and my love lives in west side. We couldn't see each other face to face. We talk on the phone everyday,...

relationships

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akacipher Frankly its not this physical distance that matters in love!! What matters is how close you are emotionally. True that the two of you are quite apart but the factor that would define your relationship is not this distance but the urge to meet and be together....

20 Nov 07