akmmedhi3

@akmmedhi3 (41)

India • Age 46

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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You are indeed a friend not only in words but also in actions!

Daisy_22 @Daisy_22 (1229) • Philippines 7 Nov 12

When I was in disaster and in time of emergency, my friend who is really a business women never failed to help me. She let me borrow a huge amount of money without even giving any 1% interest which is very unusual.I was really...

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akmmedhi3 You have got a true friend whom you should always remember. You seems to be very lucky. It is a very rare sight in the contemporary time. In the good days of your life you would get a lot of friends. But the friend who helps you at the time of your need is...

7 Nov 12

What do we need to consider in buying children's toys?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140119) • Philippines 7 Nov 12

One of the common thing to make the child to develop his motor development, is through usage of toys to meet the curiosity of the child. It takes one step at a time, then the learning's progresses to a more challenging tasks.

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akmmedhi3 First of all we have to check the materials that the toy is made up of, are they safe for the child or not? Then we have to consider about the nature and interest of the child. For the children building blocks, puzzles, games etc are better as they help in the...

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A right direction is more important than striving hard

Gretchen522 @Gretchen522 (715) • China 7 Nov 12

The most important thing in our life is not striving hard but the direction. You feel pressure is not because other's striving harder than you, but those successful men still striving harder than you. Even we can't...

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akmmedhi3 Yes, I totally agree with you that direction is the most important thing in our life. If you could set yourself in the path of the right direction then there is less chances of failure in it. Those who believe in themselves are always going to be able to...

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Do you use your cellphone as your alarm clock?

cobalt20 @cobalt20 (1318) • Philippines 7 Nov 12

I use cellphone as my watch because I am comfortable using. If I use the watch, it makes me oily and my wrist feels me distraction. If no cellphone, my another option is to ask from other people. I am using it also as alarm clock....

people cellphone alarm clock

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akmmedhi3 Yes, I use my cellphone as an alarm clock. It is more convenient then a alarm clock for this purpose. If I want then I could keep it below my pillow and try not to disturb anyone else when it rings. Moreover I could set different alarm tones as per my own...

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It hurts!

GreenMoo @GreenMoo (11833) 7 Nov 12

This is a blatant call for sympathy! I have a weird, and very painful, infection on one of my hands and I'm really feeling miserable and out of sorts. This is day 5. It started as a small circle the size of a coin on the top of...

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akmmedhi3 I am very sorry to hear that. I think you shouldn't have waited so long and should have visited a doctor as soon as possible. In my case I prefer to go to the doctor as early as possible. But the visit to the doctor depends upon the nature of the illness...

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what are these stars???

xhanne009 @xhanne009 (108) • Philippines 7 Nov 12

On my first day here in myLot, I notice there are stars right before your name mylotters. Can you explain to me what are these stands for? There are also numbers in it, what does it mean?!

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akmmedhi3 The Stars are the reputation of the writers. And I think that the numbers that you have asked about indicates the number of postings done by a writer. It is a good way to measure the quality of the posts by the fellow Mylottians.

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What did you learn about Mylot?

cobalt20 @cobalt20 (1318) • Philippines 7 Nov 12

I am learning something new. I have added freinds here as well. I also learning from other member when they share discussions especially online earnings or making money. Not only learning, I can have discoveries. We really need a...

mylot writing

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akmmedhi3 I have found a new world in Mylot. At first I came here to discover it's usefulness as a site for forum writers. But with time I have discovered different aspects of Mylot which has attracted me towards it. I am liking the various discussions that are going on...

7 Nov 12

When did you and your partner kiss for the first time?

allenwrites @allenwrites (263) • Philippines 28 Oct 12

I am 23 years old right now. And to be honest, I haven't had a girlfriend before. So naturally, I never experience kissing a girl on the lips. But my curious mind just wanted to ask something about kiss. When did you and your...

first kiss

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akmmedhi3 I kissed my girlfriend (who is my wife now) for the first time in the year 2000 when our relationship was 3 months old.Now we are married for 7 years. It would be better if I keep the rest of the description under the Censor board. Otherwise I am going to...

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Friends, this is serious . I need your help.

gary23 @gary23 (425) • India 1 Nov 12

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend since 9 years. He used to respect me a lot. But now he's always angry with me.Today he checked my phone and discovered that I picked up an unknown number. When I explained him that...

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akmmedhi3 I feel unhappy that you are facing such a problem. I think you boyfriend is feeling insecure and therefore being very much possessive. He is being stupid but you have to get rid of this ridiculous demands. At first you try to talk him about it in a manner...

2 Nov 12

Do you rephrase words before saying it to others to avoid hurting them?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 30 Oct 12

A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters, Different people have different attitudes. And this is the reason why others talked tactlessly and others talked softly. But the matter is, there are times, we didn't mean anything, we are...

avoid the feeling of hurting

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akmmedhi3 When I am participating in casual conversation then I don't need to rephrase words before saying it. But whenever I am discussing something important or essential matter then I have the habit of tending to rephrase words before saying it to someone. It helps...

30 Oct 12

is it fear or real hatred?

Nnaemeka @mydanods (6513) • Nigeria 29 Oct 12

i have an aunt who is still single and she is past middle aged. she used to love a man, many years ago. she loved him with all her heart and he jilted her. she has built up hatred for me. she launches diatribes on men whenever the...

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akmmedhi3 I think that it is both fear and hatred. Due to her fear of getting hurt again she is not accepting another relationship, and on the other hand in my personal view I think that she had developed hatred towards the whole relationship thing. You have correctly...

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Respect should be a given here..

sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 29 Oct 12

Hi fellow mylotters; I just recieved feed back that I disagree with; ok that is one thing.. We are not always going to agree on things.. But to sit there and use your words to belittle another person is not right.. If you...

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akmmedhi3 Sorry that you had to face such behavior. There is no universal rule that the opinion or views of two or more persons are going to be same... on the contrary I think that the opinions of most of the people are going to be different in a matter as we are from...

30 Oct 12

Not Letting Rudeness Get to Me

megamatt @megamatt (14291) • United States 29 Oct 12

I'm sure like I have, you have encountered your fair share of rude and inconsiderate people in your life. At one point, I wanted to yell at them or worse, but I came to the realization, if they're going to be rude, that's their...

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akmmedhi3 It is true that there are some people who could drive you to the limit of your patience. I frequently face such people in my workplace. They would themselves provide incorrect account details and then would complain again and again that they haven't received...

30 Oct 12

Ever tried to end your life?

RUBESH @Manasha (2819) • Pondicherry, India 29 Oct 12

It has become common nowadays as many people commit suicide for silly reasons. Today, I read news about a girl who has committed suicide because her father scolded her foot studying properly. It is totally foolish and absurd. The...

end your life

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akmmedhi3 No, I haven't tried to end my life for anything till now. But here I must have to express that sometimes when my moral is very low and I was totally dejected then I have thought about ending my life. The times when I was grief stricken are not related...

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When woman is mad...

montevilla @montevilla (550) 29 Oct 12

Just wonder why? This how when woman gets mad. Or even a man too? When my wife is not mad she calls me with our endearment.Its really sweet, in person and over the calls. But when she is mad, she call me by my name even my...

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akmmedhi3 When woman is mad then it is an unpredictable situation for both the parties that are involved in it. When my wife is mad then she doesn't call me by names i.e. In India calling your husband name is a taboo but she would call me with some such things which I...

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same age, younger or older than you...who to choose?

annavi23 @annavi23 (6522) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

I just wonder what would you prefer most when picking someone to be in a relationship with. Well, you can share some of your experiences here and let's do the discussion going... For me, I prefer most of same age group, but...

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akmmedhi3 In case of a girl I would always prefer someone who is younger than me by 4-5 years. I think that the same age thing might also click but it becomes a little different after some years. I have seen a lot of happy same age relationships and as well age...

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Staying single your whole life

lady Di @lady1993 (27224) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

Anyone who wants to stay single for life has their own reasons.. It also has advantage and disadvantages. There are some who had bad experiences with their past partners while others are for personal beliefs. Advantage of being...

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akmmedhi3 Living a single life for some years is going to be OK but I don't think that being single for your whole life is an attractive idea. But still a lot of people might choose this option due to their own reasons. Personally I won't be able to live a single...

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Do you hug your friends?

allenwrites @allenwrites (263) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

If you're a male, do you hug your female friends? If you're a female, do you hug your male friends? Right now, I am active in a Catholic community wherein hugging is very normal. I hug some female friends whom I know are...

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akmmedhi3 I am a male and I hug my male relatives, friends etc without any hesitation. But I don't hug my female friends or relatives in any situation. For me hugging is a good way of showing sympathy and love towards the other person. It helps us to show that I...

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Sleep? Noooooo!!!!

natzumi09 @natzumi09 (21) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

I am a graduating student and at the same time, I am working. My work needs a lot of mental energy for I do not do physical things, I just sit in front of the computer and think and think and think. I am a video editor in one of...

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akmmedhi3 I think that you are working a little more then you should do. Please remember that you have to take rest as much as possible in your busy schedule also. Just try to take 4-5 hours sleep at the minimum and your body would be relieved. I appreciate that you...

30 Oct 12

How do you think of life?

Gretchen522 @Gretchen522 (715) • China 29 Oct 12

Sometimes life like a sweet spring water make those people in misery forget bitter and astringent; Sometimes life like a pleasant song make those people in dull feel joy; Sometimes life like an umbellule in rainy night to make...

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akmmedhi3 Life is something which we all are living but it is very hard to express. Personally I have seen different aspects of life very closely. Life was hard on me, life gave me my loving wife, life gave me a pet Thyroid Disorder, life gave me a cute little son...

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