alabella

@alabella (91)

Poland • Age 48

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Responses (54)

alabella's Responses

Very Quickly Becoming Addicted!

RossBoyy @RossBoyy (161) • United States 20 Sep 10

This website is highly addictive, who else would agree? But not just even on the earning side to things, It just seeing others points of view and trying to help out in many aspects as I can. Gaining more than just money...

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alabella I like it here very much, although I can not devote much time to mylot. However, I think it is a good idea for students of English to improve their writing skills. I always advise my students to join mylot. What a pity they don't!

20 Sep 10

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Do you wear sunglasses to protect your eyes?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 20 Sep 10

We put on sunscreen's and uvb protectors on our skin but do you wear shades to protect your eyes? Long-term exposure to UVB rays can increase risk of developing cataracts, eye growths and even eye degeneration. When you put on...

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alabella I seldom wear sunglasses because I wear health glasses -3,5 so it is quite a lot. However, I when I stay in the sun on the beach I usually do not wear sunglasses because I see nothing :)

20 Sep 10

if you could do a job that you really want, what would it be?

nikramos @nikramos (698) • Philippines 20 Sep 10

presently i'm an accountant and working with numbers can get really tiring besides the fact that it can get really boring. if i have the chance to do another job, i want to be a broadcast journalist, like tv personalities who do...

jobs we want to do

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alabella I used to be a teacher of English for many years now but the job limited my personality and I decided to teach students in private lessons. I find it a better option and I feel more relaxed, I can have more influence for my students and I can really prepare...

20 Sep 10

Do u have the habit of sleeping in the class?

JeyakumarDickson @JeyakumarDickson (277) • India 6 Jul 10

hi guys, i do have the habit of sleeping in the class while the teacher is teaching and got myself punished by standing outside the class.Do u guys any kind of experience?

class

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student

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alabella I have never slept during lessons but once when I was ill, I took 2 tablets for cold (I don't remember which) and I felt so sleepy... I am a teacher and I had a lesson with 13-year-old kids, than I could not help yawning and needed to have a nap... Anyway, I...

6 Jul 10

Coffe with and without sugar?

christiana81 @christiana81 (717) • Romania 6 Jul 10

Hello! iI enjoy drink coffe evry mornining, sometimes i drink one at lunch too. i like to put a little sugar... sometime i put cream too. So I am asking how do athores like coffe? with/without sugar, with/without cream?

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alabella In the morning I usually have two big mugs of coffee with sweetener (not sugar) and milk (not cream). I find it hard to be full awake after sleep so I drink so much coffee. Sugar is better and sweeter but I no longer use it for tea or coffee. Try it :) It is...

6 Jul 10

Lie and make others happy ????

K.Rajib G. @krajibg (11922) • Guwahati, India 5 Jul 10

Though it goes against the ethics I do lie sometime for others' satisfaction or happiness if I think that lie is too harmless an event. It becomes necessary sometime. When, say, you see that telling the reality would hurt the...

lie to make make happy

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alabella I have lies for the purpose of my satisfaction. Anyway, it is a lie and it contributes to losing trust in the person who lies to you. My ex boyfriend lied me a lot and now I am very sensitive to lies, I do not find any excuses for lies, maybe it helps...

6 Jul 10

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"two faces person"

yuliana004 @yuliana004 (6) • Indonesia 6 Jul 10

Have you ever meet "two faces person"? "two faces person" means that a person who speak nice in front of you but in the other hand speak all your bad habit to other people. Its so annoying if you meet those kind of person. I...

life

people

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alabella These kind of people are horrible, unreliable and make life harder. If somebody says one thing and does the opposite behind your back, it is more than a lie, it's manipulation, infidelity and playing with people. I used to be in such a relationship and I not...

6 Jul 10

Is mylot better than facebook or twitter? and why?

zhaopao13 @zhaopao13 (45) • Philippines 5 Jul 10

Since I joined mylot I wasn't able to login anymore to my facebook account or to my twitter account. I'm really having fun here in mylot because I can express my thoughts here in mylot. Mylot is the best for me. How about you?

facebook

mylot

twitter

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alabella I like it here very much :) I can choose the topic I like and I can share my thoughts, ask for advice and give others my advice as well. I can also learn a lot about different cultures and points of view, problems, hopes and life. Moreover, I can practise my...

6 Jul 10

how to manage time - TIME MANAGEMENT

mavhequijada @mavhequijada (110) • Philippines 28 Jun 10

Hi all. I'm having a problem managing my time. Actually, I never practiced time management until I started working. Before, when I was a full-time student, I was just rising from bed, fixing myself for an hour, and go straight to...

self

time

time management

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alabella When you have a lot of time you lose the quality of time management and most of the time may be lost. When I have more duties, I do more, I manage my time better and I try to use my time, I write what I shall do and when on small pieces of paper and I usually...

5 Jul 10

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Why is beauty so important?

dsrp82 @dsrp82 (676) • Brazil 5 Jul 10

You see, I'm not ugly, but I'm overweight, so I'd like to hear from you, guys, why is beauty so important?

beauty

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alabella It is because people judge by appearances and seldom want to look deeper as it takes time. We all prefer to be surrounded by prettier people than by ugly faces. Pretty means nice and good, although often it is not good in fact. However, if you are overweight,...

5 Jul 10

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Does accupuncture work?

aurorastorm @aurorastorm (1131) • United States 5 Jul 10

I just recently started going to see an Accupuncturist, I have been twice and although I have been relaxed when I am there, I am unsure of if it is really working or not. Would love to hear other people's experiences with it, if...

accupuncture

relaxation

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alabella Yes, it works. When I was in a primary school, accupuncture was still a novelty in my country. My parents decided to advise a doctor how to help my weakening eyesight. I had -2,5 back than and after a month of accupuncture my eyesight improved by 0,5 and I had...

5 Jul 10

Do you like your name? If given the chance, would you change it?

chemist2writer @joyadalia (1408) • Philippines 24 Jan 10

It is true that we have no choice as to what names our parents gave us. After all, we could not even talk when we were born . Still, many parents are quite creative in making up names for their children. Some pick out...

names

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alabella If I had a chance, I would change it. My name is strange and rare. Few people in my country have the same name as me. There are fairy tales with my name, these are either pigs, elephants or dogs or other creatures. Sometimes when I make friends, I say I am...

3 Jul 10

Google Evil

angeldev @angeldev (171) • Romania 2 Jul 10

What do you think about google being evil? Maybe you do not know but google keeps infos about all of ous categorized by IP's. Every google website creates a cookie and send infos to google database with your searches and what...

evil

google

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alabella Although I like google, I use gmail and search engine, I know that it is a kind of Big Brother. Google knows my appearance, my preferences, interests, my contacts, personal data... I am woried if they will use it against me :)

3 Jul 10

Self Change

LaLa Leo @mrscallands22 (2851) • United States 3 Jul 10

If there was one physical thing that could change about yourself, what would it be?? I would change my scars that I acquired over the years. I HATE THEM!!!!!

changing

personal

physical traits

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alabella I have horrible legs, unshapely... I wish I were slicker...

3 Jul 10

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Faithful or unfaithful?

azeljeorge @azeljeorge (56) • Philippines 30 Jun 10

How to know if your boyfriend is cheating on your or ever since faithful? I have a girl friend of mine whose always asking me this question. And she's repeating it over and over again. My answer was really uncertain because i,...

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alabella Sometimes it is better to know earlier than later. I was cheated, betrayed, used and abandoned. I will never allow any other man to do such horrible things to me like him. That's why, if I wanted to check reliability and faithfulness of my partner, and I would...

3 Jul 10

Can you still remember your first employment ...

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 3 Jul 10

I came up with this topic when I saw my picture during my first employment. I was studying at the same time was employed for clerical post.Worked at the day time and study during the night.It was tough at first but life is like...

job seekers

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alabella I still remember my first job - a teacher of English in a primary school... My boss was a man who wanted to date me. He was married and I refused... Then I had some problems at work and the boss did not allow me to wear skirts or dresses at work!!! Can you...

3 Jul 10

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Do you go party or clubbing with your mom?

kyle2krystel @kyle2krystel (2489) • Japan 3 Jul 10

I go clubbing and party with my mom haha yea she is really cool and fun to be with. I go with my mom,bro, friends and some of my families. They are really in to clubbing and partying which is really cool. My mom doesn't drink...

clubbing

partying

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alabella Well, it's nice ;) I regret my mom is not similar to yours. My mom, although she is over 50, sometimes goes out with her friends to discos or restaurants. I am not on good terms with my mother so I can not party with her because we would quarrel... Anyway, I...

3 Jul 10

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being a single parent

lesfery @lesfery (79) • Philippines 25 Jun 10

nowadays more and more are getting pregnant, being a parent with or without a husband/wife, with or without the sanctity of marriage. being a single parent is a difficult task they need to work alone for the need of their...

life

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alabella I am a single parent. I bring up my daughter alone. My parents do not help me, nor my ex husband. It is really hard. In my country alone mothers do not get much help from the government so they are left alone and have to take care of themselves and their...

3 Jul 10

breaking up and getting back together

dinorawr703 @dinorawr703 (6) • United States 2 Jul 10

okay so me and my girlfriend just broke up sunday. we broke up because she told me she still loves her ex. she was her first love. i got mad because i gave her my whole heart but she couldnt give me all of hers. we didnt fight at...

girlfriend love gay

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alabella Give her some more time to become more aware what she really wants. If she finds out that she can possess you 100% she will not appreciate you. She needs to miss you in order to gain you back. Sometimes people do not know what they really want until they lose...

3 Jul 10

Why do you think we dream?

allyoftherain @allyoftherain (7208) • United States 2 Jul 10

There are loads theories on why we dream ranging from subconscious desires made real to the brain sorting through memories, but no one really knows exactly why we dream. So what's your theory? Why do we dream? How does our brain...

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alabella I think our dreams show us what may happen and warn us. They are just like a mirror which reflects our problems, worries, hopes and wishes. I do not believe that dreams have special meanings which you can find in books, for instance that if you dream of a cat,...

3 Jul 10

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