alegnaluvu

@alegnaluvu (660)

Malaysia • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Words are effective when truth is combined with sweatness

Responses (287)

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what is the most important ingredients of a relationship ?

fhems2010 @fhems2010 (70) • Philippines 14 Oct 10

Many people say that a relationship to last long mush have put a foundation or unique ingredient?. And what was that foundation or ingredient ? As observed there are many couples right now that after getting married for almost a...

relationship

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alegnaluvu Basically it is love and trust that glue a strong relationship. I don't know of any others .

15 Oct 10

totally shocked today....

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9551) • Philippines 14 Oct 10

Well, this is just one of my cyber moments when I log in to one site and find something that really surprises me like today, when I looked at my adsense report I found that I earned something like $2.75 which to me is really...

happiness

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alegnaluvu It is great to know that you are paid good in adsense. Your hard work is finally bearing fruits.

15 Oct 10

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Have you ever?....

grubder23 @grubder23 (271) • Philippines 15 Oct 10

Have you ever had an experience where you were sleeping and somebody woke you up but u pretended that your still asleep and waited till that person goes away? if you did or had any similar experiences such as these, whyd you do...

experiences

pretend to sleep

sleep

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alegnaluvu I never like to be disturbed from my sleep. I warn my kids not to wake me up unless there is an earthquake outside the house. Well, even if someone comes to my house when I am still in my dreamland, I will stay put in my room and pretend that I did not realize...

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What makes a girl fall in love with a boy

ynam29 @ynam29 (40) • Philippines 14 Oct 10

boy loves girl

love

relationship

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alegnaluvu Maybe having the right chemistry draws two hearts together. But most go for the physical appearance which I think is a shortlived love. Once they come to term with the truth they will slowly detached themselves.

15 Oct 10

What, in your world, has the power to move you emotionally?

foofermen @foofermen (500) 15 Oct 10

For me? Kids, music, old people crying(older parents especially, not sure why.), and "getting to the top of the mountain" (figuratively)

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alegnaluvu I have a compassionate heart for people who are in trouble. They can really pull me out of my comfort zone and help them regardless of what problems they are in. I feel only then I am worth as a citizen of this world.

15 Oct 10

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What is your favorite apples?

crazydaisy @crazydaisy (3896) • Canada 14 Oct 10

I always like granny smith apples they are really good.but I really like red delicous ones as well.I like to bake with them. cd

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alegnaluvu I like red delicious apples more than the others. Apples are imported fruits in my country and the prices are quite expensive. So I need to buy the best for what my money can buy.

14 Oct 10

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Things that make you enjoy life

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 9 Oct 10

The silly small things that put a smile on your face.Years ago me and my husband left each other a note,just every now and again and last night he told me that he had found a note that he had kept that i had wrote a few years...

love

notes

silly things that make people smile

smile

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alegnaluvu You are blessed with a wonderful hubby. Some people are so lucky to have a good husband that will bring them all the happiness in their life. You should count your lucky star to have met such a good hubby.

10 Oct 10

Should talking on the cell phone be banned while driving?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 30 Sep 10

It is alarming to see high rate of road accidents as a result of drivers talking while driving. Drivers did not take into consideration the risk involved when their concentration are distructed while on their mobile phones. The...

accidents

cell phones

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alegnaluvu Talking on the cell phone while driving is as bad as those who drink and drive. It should be prohibited during driving. Many accidents happened when people talk on their cell phones while they are driving. The law should be tight on people who abuse road...

10 Oct 10

Are you planning to buy any costly car in near future?

xorticanz @xorticanz (377) • India 10 Oct 10

I always have an ambition to buy a BMW in the near future. A dream car to drive always. I am planning to buy BMW 3 series which surely i can buy in around 2 years from now. Its an awesome car and I am working near the BMW industry...

car

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alegnaluvu Oh yes, I always dream of driving a branded car in future. But again it depends on the availability of my finance. BMW is an expensive car and is sure a dream for me to own one.

10 Oct 10

Is there a right or wrong way to respond to discussions here?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 9 Oct 10

I thought I can now call myself a seasoned mylotter after earning my 'PR' status in mylot for having been here for more than 4 years. I am one of the few pioneer members left who stubbornly refused to surrender. Simple reason, I...

responding to discussions

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alegnaluvu There is no hard and fast rule in determining the way we reply to our responders. The only thing maybe is you need to align your comments to your responders views.

10 Oct 10

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When you get upset, do you say things you don't mean?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 9 Oct 10

There are a lot of people that get upset and say things that they don't mean. I have before and I have had people say terrible things to me when they were really upset BUT the thing is that sometimes those things that are said...

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alegnaluvu An angry person is an ugly person. When I am angry I try to control my emotions. I just withdraw to the quietness of my room and listen to music so I won't be tempted to blurt out words that is hurting. A harsh word, like an arrow discharged from a bow, can...

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I don't think he understand when I said "its over"

Ellie @ellie26 (4139) • Malaysia 9 Oct 10

My marriage was such a mess right from the day I got married. My soon to be ex husband is an abusive (mentally, physically, emotionally), manipulative, intimidating, split personality kind of person. He was so controlling over me,...

abusive relationship

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alegnaluvu Divorce is a sticky problem. What more if they are children involved. I think if there is no longer love and trust, the best is just to go ahead with the divorce.

10 Oct 10

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Contemplating On Those Academic Pursuits.....

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 19 Aug 09

Ever brought back to life those days when you were a student engaged in full time studies.Life of a student has a definite firmness of purpose.The pursuit of knowledge finds a definite goal of achievement.Amidst rejoicing one...

academics

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alegnaluvu Hardships and sufferings in my student days has also taught me discipline in my pursuit to get the best out of life. In those we have to pass every exams set by the Government and without getting through any one of them will mean a year of retention unlike now...

20 Aug 09

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Do you love the country you live in?

YoungInLove @YoungInLove (1254) • Canada 19 Aug 09

I love Canada. I can walk into a clinic and walk out without paying the bill, I dont have to wait till Im deathly ill to be able to go to the doctors and I dont have to worry about the hefty bills a stay at the hospital may bring....

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alegnaluvu I love my country very much and I am blessed to have a peaceful country. Compared to where I live now, it is far cry from the progressive country where I come from.

20 Aug 09