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aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 19 Nov 08

Today I got a phone call that one of my best friend has been a father whose child is a son.When he called me,he was so excited that I can feel his joy and he invited me to have a drink after work.In China,having a son is the...

son or daughter

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aringwi when my wife is pregnant,her favorite child is a daughter,but at last we had a son which is beyond her imagination.when our son is growing up day by day,he is lovely,smart,naughty and hardy.she loves him so much that she sacrifice all her time to play with him...

19 Nov 08

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aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 19 Nov 08

my best friend who is also my college roomate is going to be married at the end of the year.when I got married,he didn't send any gift or red pocket to me.Now I am at a loss what gift I should send to him for celebrating his...

gift

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aringwi if I am free,I will go to join his wedding ceremory.but I am not sure I will go to.How can I know what he don't have if I can't go?one of ideas hit my head suddenly that is I buy a gift together with another classmate .He is good at selecting gift for friends...

19 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 16 Nov 08

I have been married for four years.My salary is spent on everyday cost ,housing payment with little left,but my wife's salary is for her personal use which I don't know how much money she owns and put in the bank.Every time when i...

housing

shared saving account

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aringwi that is a good idea,but if she refuse to do that ,what should i do?shall i have a talk with her about the importance and the necessary ,and the unclear family economy account will lead to divorce?

17 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 4 Nov 08

my brother and i liked playing the lottery together.we have an agreement,if we have a winning ticket,we will split the jackpot evenly.last night,he called me and told me that we hit the jackpot,which is 1 millon yuan.But today he...

jackpot money

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aringwi I am quite sure it is the ticket we bought win the lottery.but he betrayed me that it made me fly into a bad temper.if i don't send him to prison ,it is unfair to me.

16 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 15 Nov 08

My son will be ten-month old tomorrow.He is not able to speak,but he is trying to learn.When his grandmother is counting the number from 1 to 10 ,he will be crying or making a voice like a wolf.My wife says my baby is getting...

baby

wolf

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aringwi my son is making some noise when he is angry or when he is not getting something.my mother says it is the sign that he will speak.we are guessing that what is his first word,maybe mother or grandmother,but not father.as the pronunciation is difficult.

16 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 9 Nov 08

The western fast food take up the Chinese market,earning the money in Chinese pockets.But it is not healthy ,as the poisonous chemical seasoning is checked out in the food.We should say no to KFC and resist it ,when it could not...

kfc

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aringwi in the past more than 10 years,the KFC are becoming more and more.the developing speed is surprising and its business thought is rather successful.Chinese local restaurants are facing a tough chanllenge.

13 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 4 Nov 08

In many countries old age is a happy time.Young people in these countries show respect to the old people.Young people listen when old people speak because they believe that an old person is a wise person.in that kind of society...

korea

the young and the old

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aringwi the reason why Americans show little respect to their elders is that the young are independent at the age of 18 and leave home to live alone but in China,the old take care of the young even when they have got married and act as the baby sitters to look after...

8 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 5 Nov 08

One of my friend fall in love with a girl who is excellent except that she can't have a baby because of a kind of illness.when he tells the news to his parents,they firmly object his marrying.if he marry ,they will break the...

marry a girl

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aringwi Maybe there is a way to make the two parts satisfactory.that is finding a good doctor to treat the girl's illness then she can have a baby with my friend.there is another way that is they can adopt a orphan as their child.

8 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 6 Nov 08

My uncle just turned fifty last week.He is a successful businessman.it happened one day as he was leaving the office.all day he had felt short of breath.suddenly he was a little dizzy.the doctor told him he had a heart attack.he...

health

sausage

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aringwi the most important thing to him is the health not the money,it is the thing he concerns most.without good health,he can't enjoy the life no matter how rich he is .it is a warn to us all that money is earnable but health will go by forever.

8 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 6 Nov 08

China has entered a period of four old people ,two young people and a child.My family is a typical one.My parents are living in another city which is a bit far away.i am working in a different city.when they are ill,the problems...

family

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aringwi I agree with you.In China,the medical system has not been completed yet.It resulted in many social problems.people are concerning about being old.

7 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 5 Nov 08

there is a saying that every dog has his day.but I wonder when is my day,when it will come.whatever in my life is at a mess.i have no achievement in my woking field.i take a test to change my job with two marks left.in my family...

when is my day

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aringwi be patient and get full ready for your day.i won't compain about the surrounding and the heaven just read books and follow instructive suggestions.i believe your day is in the near future.

6 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 5 Nov 08

I got married two and a half years ago.Now i am a father of a one year old boy.It is my parents' wish that i marry at an early age(i am 27 years old now).They intend to watching the third generation growing up ,so they succeed in...

say no to early marriage

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aringwi I would rather have my own child than play with my relative's .I must take the responsibility to bring him up ,though it is a hard job.I have given birth of him,I can't send him to others or send him to orphanage.

5 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 3 Nov 08

One of my best friends intends to borrow 10 thousand yuan from me,I agree to lend it to him,but my wife disagrees with me.She thought there must be a problem in his family,his wife and he has a disagreement between them,he can't...

friend or wife

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aringwi i don't want to divorce with my wife and i also don't want to lose a friend.There must be a solution.Someone else may lend some money to him.

4 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 3 Nov 08

One of my best friends intends to borrow 10 thousand yuan from me,I agree to lend it to him,but my wife disagrees with me.She thought there must be a problem in his family,his wife and he has a disagreement between them,he can't...

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aringwi I haven't lent it to him,i asked my wife first,but she refused to lend it.SO we have a quarrel.She warned me not to lend the money,or she will divorce with me.

3 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 3 Nov 08

One of my best friends intends to borrow 10 thousand yuan from me,I agree to lend it to him,but my wife disagrees with me.She thought there must be a problem in his family,his wife and he has a disagreement between them,he can't...

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aringwi My wife thought his wife has that amount of money,but he borrow money from me,it means that there is a contridiction between them.

3 Nov 08

aringwi @aringwi (136) • China 1 Nov 08

Now I am a father of a nine-month old son.To take care of him and play with him ,I must sacrifice my personal time.It is my habit to chat on line with my old classmates and friends,but at present I can't spare my time.I have no...

single is the best

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aringwi Thinking of my good old days,I dream of becoming single.While watching my little lovely son play,cry,learn to speak and walk,it is achievement for me,making up my lost time and a lot of energy.So it is a condradiction for me.

1 Nov 08

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