Ashenstar

@Ashenstar (47)

United States • Age 38

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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what is/are your sleeping position/s?

zer0charly @zer0charly (5614) • Philippines 19 Sep 07

I am always at the left side or in the middle of my bed. I never sleep near the wall,because I feel its coldness. I usually put pillows on my right side,because I dont want to have a space on it. My body usually on a...

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Ashenstar I tend to sleep by putting my legs in the shape of a 4. 4 that goes left to right is my...

20 Sep 07

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Lost all 3 kittens

myfanwy65 @myfanwy65 (1030) • United States 14 Sep 07

My cat recently had 3 kittens and they all died within a week. I have no idea why, they seemed ok. It was so sad. We moved her to a new house while she was pregnant and she had them the night after we moved her. I am afraid she...

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Ashenstar Aw, that is really sad. I remember my first cat and when she had her first litter of kittens. She was a tabby, but the father of her kittens was white with black spots. When she went into labor one of the 5 kittens was born with its stomach and part of its...

15 Sep 07

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Father MICROWAVES 2 month old BABY GIRL ...

texasclassygal @texasclassygal (5305) • United States 16 May 07

This is horrible and I can't believe it is true but a Galveston father microwaved his 2-month baby girl, she is in critical but stable condition with burns all over her body, what would make someone do this is a to helpless child...

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Ashenstar Reading a little more in depth, this almost sounds like a natural selection. This guy shouldn't breed, obviously. He's helping the gene pool basically by eliminating his own offspring. If he never has kids that his personal genetic line will end, which is a...

17 May 07

How difficult is it for you to say 'I love you' and why???

MagdalenaM @MagdalenaM (681) • United States 17 May 07

It is not difficult for me if it is to the right person, in other words I don't say it unless I mean it and I will explain that: I don't just say 'I love you' because that is the right thing to say, whenever I say it I mean it...

feelings

i love you

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Ashenstar I have an extremely hard time saying "I love you" or being affectionate. I grew up with a very abusive mother who would say she loved me but would act contrary. So emotionally I have come to be distrustful of the phrase and have found it to be empty and hard...

17 May 07

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Which type of food you like? hot or cold???

ajesh_pullad @ajesh_pullad (2251) • India 22 Apr 07

i like hot foods.also i like to eat spicy foods.i have a problem that whaen i eat any frozen food it makes stomach ache.so i dont want to eat cold foods.but icecreams.i dont know tht has no problem.in summer season i only drink...

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Ashenstar I do love spicy foods. Sometimes though, I have to eat cooler foods. Someone said I have to much fire in my dosha?. I think is what they said. Meaning basically that I'm a naturally hot person and adding spicy food only makes that worse! Which seems to be very...

22 Apr 07

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Changing the Pillow cover and bed linen

navtech @navtech (1773) • India 22 Apr 07

Of course, I agree Pillow and bed covers should be changed but not in every alternate 3 days. My wife always changes them every alternate 3 days. I feel she is just wasting soap, electricity, water and extra 2 hours labour, every...

bed linen

changing pillow bed covers

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Ashenstar If the "wasting soap, electricity, water, and extra 2 hours labour" isn't that big of a deal ie. you can afford it, I would just let it go. Some people say it is important, some people say it isn't. I don't think it's an argument either of you can "win"...

22 Apr 07

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how do u feel when u get ur 1st kiss

priya_patadia @priya_patadia (33) • India 22 Apr 07

i felt great when i got my 1st kiss and it was out of the world and whole day i was in that thought only feeling like be in his arms forever and the time should stop and should not go ahead how so u feel tell me

love

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Ashenstar I wish I could remember my first kiss. I don't think I even know who it was...geez. Obviously it wasn't that amazing. lol. Glad yours was amazing though.

22 Apr 07

What made you smile today?

jbrent21 @jbrent21 (36) • Philippines 22 Apr 07

Ever notice why there is so much anger and stress we have endure everyday? Why not think of that one or few moments today that some one or something made you smile or make you feel good.

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Ashenstar What made me smile? Um, my boyfriend and my anniversary is coming up in a few weeks. That's a great feeling in itself, however I more excited because I got this totally awesome present for him. He is a huge music nerd and I bought both of us two tickets to a...

22 Apr 07

Are you afraid of NEEDLES??

vesuvius @vesuvius (1677) • Philippines 22 Apr 07

There are people who are really afraid of needles. In fact in one of the shows which I frequently watch, a person is so afraid of needles that he'd freak out like a kid! What about you? Are you afraid of needles? Personally, I...

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Ashenstar HAHAHAHA. I am terrified of needles. From the age of 11 to about 15 I got my blood drawn at least once a month, sometimes more. Now it works out to be about 1 or 2 times a year. It was only in the last year or 2 that I can actually get my blood drawn with out...

22 Apr 07

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When getting food delivered,should you tip if there is already a delivery charge

bugbaby @bugbaby (1787) • Indonesia 22 Apr 07

For example, today I'm ordering out lunch,and there is a $4.00 charge for delivering it.Do I need to tip them also than? Or does the $4.00 charge go to the driver?

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Ashenstar It really depends on the service or the company. You can always ask where that $4 goes. Like, in pizza delivery. The delivery fee just goes to the cost to make deliveries like car toppers, warmer bags, etc. The driver never sees that. So, I would ask, and then...

22 Apr 07

What is your favorite baking scent?

bugbaby @bugbaby (1787) • Indonesia 22 Apr 07

I like the smell of fresh banana bread! Yummy!

banana bread

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Ashenstar Oh gosh, I know this topic will start me drooling. Um. My absolute favorite baking smell would probably have to be gingerbread. I really love spicy smells!

22 Apr 07

SHould pot be legal?

lightningMD @lightningMD (5931) • United States 6 Apr 07

What do you think? We all know the damage that can be done with alcohol. It effects families, insurance costs, medical costs and destroys the abusers body. Alot of crimes are caused by alcohol. It is still aloud to be sold openly....

debating

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Ashenstar I think it should be. My boyfriend, who happens to not smoke pot but did once or twice in high school thinks I should for my mental health. It probably sounds pathetic but the few times I have used it I have felt what I'm guessing normal people feel like. I...

22 Apr 07

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Do you let your children shower with you?

dedicated_28 @dedicated_28 (1383) • United States 21 Apr 07

My daughter started having problems with bubble baths. They were giving her infections. The doctor recommended that she start taking showers for a little while because the bubbles were what was giving her infections and she...

kids showering with parents

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Ashenstar When I was a little girl I couldn't take bubble baths because of infection problems. Then I grew out of it in a couple of years.*shrug* As far as letting your kids shower with you....that's a very personal decision you will have to make. You will need to take...

22 Apr 07

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