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Yestheypayme2dothis @Yestheypayme2dothis (7874) • United States 16 Jun 08

For those of you who are pro-choice, could you perform an abortion? Every woman has a has a right to a choice in our country. I am pro-life. I could never perform an abortion. What if the law says if you want an abortion, you have...

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AuntieEm721 What happy little planet are you from??? In the real world you have to do hard things. Comparing a doctor who performs abortions to John Gacey is over the top! Perhaps instead of "hardening his heart" to the babies...he has OPENED his heart to the women who...

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Yestheypayme2dothis @Yestheypayme2dothis (7874) • United States 16 Jun 08

For those of you who are pro-choice, could you perform an abortion? Every woman has a has a right to a choice in our country. I am pro-life. I could never perform an abortion. What if the law says if you want an abortion, you have...

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AuntieEm721 CherylsPearls, Thank you! I have a feeling that the only answers this asker will accept is total agreement with their own narrow viewpoint. Good to know :)

17 Jun 08

Yestheypayme2dothis @Yestheypayme2dothis (7874) • United States 16 Jun 08

For those of you who are pro-choice, could you perform an abortion? Every woman has a has a right to a choice in our country. I am pro-life. I could never perform an abortion. What if the law says if you want an abortion, you have...

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AuntieEm721 How cold? Seems to me that you aren't really interested in asking a question about abortion. Seems to me all you are doing is posing an inflammatory statement and then insulting anyone who doesn't fall into line with your own way of thinking. How childish!

17 Jun 08

spygrrl007 @spygrrl007 (112) • United States 15 Jun 08

Do you believe PMS is real? How bad is it for you? Do women use it as an excuse? For me I have it terribly, I am a whole other person (I hate that person) and I have talked to my GYN about it. She recommended zoloft to take...

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AuntieEm721 Thanks, but really I was just kidding. What I really do is bear in mind that I am hearing and experiencing through highly sensitive filters and behave with restraint. I appreciate the sympathy and the link...but it IS a perfectly natural function of my body...

16 Jun 08

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 15 Jun 08

I can joke because this is my husband's problem, not mine. But this man does have a serious problem and might just be the world's most stubborn man! He's made an appointment to see a proctologist on July 18,...

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AuntieEm721 I haven't ever tried the tea but it might could work! Try putting the witch hazel and/or the wetted tea bags in the fridge so they are cold and it should help with the initial stinging. I feel for him 180 miles sitting on hemorrhoids is surely a circle of...

16 Jun 08

Myrrdin @Myrrdin (3599) • Canada 16 May 08

for a little background check this discussion http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1518135.aspx In talks with my exwife I mentioned that perhaps it is best if we use merrymount, a supervised access centre that is for the purpose...

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AuntieEm721 I do understand feeling irked at her "public" embarrassment at what her actions have wrought. As if you being aware and worse your daughter seeing it and feeling it didn't count. I do see her embarrassment as a good sign. If she was unembarrassed at ANY part...

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Myrrdin @Myrrdin (3599) • Canada 16 May 08

for a little background check this discussion http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1518135.aspx In talks with my exwife I mentioned that perhaps it is best if we use merrymount, a supervised access centre that is for the purpose...

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AuntieEm721 Yes, actually I would be asking the same question if the roles were reversed. I do not believe that a child belongs with their mother simply because she wears the nametag, Mother. Yes, I would still be asking the parent to question her own motives in labeling...

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Myrrdin @Myrrdin (3599) • Canada 16 May 08

for a little background check this discussion http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1518135.aspx In talks with my exwife I mentioned that perhaps it is best if we use merrymount, a supervised access centre that is for the purpose...

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AuntieEm721 Myrrdin, I appreciate you taking the time to comment. In the position you are in I am sure you can appreciate the necessity of asking the tough questions for the sake of a child. My motiviation was just that. I'm sorry for your family's troubles and hope it...

19 May 08

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Myrrdin @Myrrdin (3599) • Canada 16 May 08

for a little background check this discussion http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1518135.aspx In talks with my exwife I mentioned that perhaps it is best if we use merrymount, a supervised access centre that is for the purpose...

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AuntieEm721 Canadagal, just so you understand. I am not saying he is doing this. And I did beg his pardon if he felt I was and that is not his aim. However, it happens to the best of us that we may slip and use situations like this that arise in a divorce scenario to...

17 May 08

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Amy @artemis432 (7474) • Abernathy, Texas 15 May 08

Would you ever adopt a child the world would call "ugly" if they had a shining personality and a lovableness - even if hidden at first? Would you adopt a child with physical, mental or emotional disability? My heart always...

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AuntieEm721 Yes, there are reasons I haven't adopted. That I have the ability to wholeheartedly love an adopted child does NOT compensate for the more earthbound considerations. Time and physical stamina all factor into the decision to not adopt at this point in my life....

16 May 08

violeta_va @violeta_va (4831) • Australia 3 May 08

We have few adopted kids in the family. The excepted way in my coulture is that the kids should not be told or at least not till they are older (as in 18+). My aunty even went a step furder. She payed a lot of people so that...

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AuntieEm721 They were "older" than infants but still 3 and 4 respectively. They had vague memories of their lives "before". It wasn't a matter of someone knowing them it was a matter of giving them the full story of their lives. Denying those fragile first memories would...

16 May 08

underdogtoo @underdogtoo (9579) • Philippines 2 May 08

Are we pawns in the game of life? Do we have the power to live the life that we want? Are we victims of our circumstances? These are questions that I think many are asking or forgetting to ask when it is necessary to do so. It...

control

game of life

life

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AuntieEm721 Thank you for that very nice compliment. I think all that any of us can do is to pick ourselves up from the debris of failed attempts, learn and move on.

16 May 08

Amber @AmbiePam (92889) • United States 8 May 08

Has something ever happened that could be categorized as upsetting, only at first you aren't upset about it? And maybe you have a friend who is quite amazed that you handled it so well, and you aren't upset at the person or the...

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AuntieEm721 Thank you. I'm sure you will find your perfect balance someday...I hope I will!

16 May 08

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Hazel Funcion @Zelmarq (12585) • Cebu City, Philippines 8 May 08

Its a one liner question that struck me today and hit me on the face.Most of the time its what we always think about our enemies or the people who hurt us , we think and just see the negative side of their being. Its a realization...

bad attitude

enemies

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AuntieEm721 I guess if you consider someone your enemy for a casual transgression then looking for the postiives of their personality would have some value. Like the ability to be more tolerant yourself. Like I said though...I would only consider someone my "enemy" if...

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