benita2008

@benita2008 (102)

China • Age 54

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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In which period of life, would you like to be in ?

curious888 @curious888 (1212) • Malaysia 7 Oct 08

The most carefree and happy period of my life was when I was about 6 to 12 years old. I don't have to worry anything, everyday just learning, playing and eating. What about you ?

carefree

period of life

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benita2008 I wish I could be about 22, a little younger and a little mature and can have my own decision. 22 years old is the best age for me.

7 Oct 08

When is the best time that many mylot members are online?

aisaellis22 @aisaellis22 (6445) • United States 7 Oct 08

I just wonder when is the best time that the mylot members are online? I can see that some of my friends aren't active now. How about you? When do you usually go online here? Thanks, i really wants to know so that I will know...

mylot members

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benita2008 I usually go online either in the late morning or late afternoon. and I also find when I am online at 11-12 pm, most mylot members are active.

7 Oct 08

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HELP! My Sink is Clogged

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 7 Oct 08

My kitchen sink is clogged. This is the worst clogg ever. I have plunged and plunged. I have also used the liquid plumber and it is still plugged. I am desperate for any advice.

clogged sink

plumber

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benita2008 Oh, how I wish I could be of help. Send for a professional or experienced one to help you. Good luck.

7 Oct 08

Will you help a stranger with money?

mtsandeep @mtsandeep (1586) • India 7 Oct 08

This happened 2 years ago. I went for an interview which is far from my house. I went there on train. It was a 12 hours journey, i reached the station earlier in the morning, i had more than 4 hours to spare. I walked around the...

help

money

strangers

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benita2008 I won't offer any money to them even if they are really like what they say, I'll ask them to ask policemen for help. If they are really old or handicapped, who obviously don't have the ability to work, I will offer some money to them.

7 Oct 08

what do you do to initiate your referal to post more on my lot

nutanjain @nutanjain (898) • India 7 Oct 08

friends i had enough referal on mylot but none of them was succesful but all of them just came and gone but now i am thinkng to refer more friends personally so what do you suggest me to do initiate more them to respond or post on...

i love referals

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benita2008 I don't intend to have any referrals because my friends hate advertisements. But I can offer them the website and tell them its advantages if they are interested.

7 Oct 08

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When your time is up?

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 7 Oct 08

Sadly yesterday a young girl in the town where I live was hit by a bus and killed, she was not yet 16.A true tragedy. The bus had been re routed due to the fair that comes to town once a year, so it would not normally have been...

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benita2008 Sorry to hear that. But I don't agree with your mother. What's the time up? You mean the "fate", right? If each person is careful, including the passers-by and drivers, such tragedy won't happen. If it is like what you mother said, then I'm here waiting for...

7 Oct 08

small mouth or big mouth??

babyorchid @babyorchid (1737) • China 7 Oct 08

According to the Chinese traditional aethestics, girls who called beauty should have small cherry mouth. well,last night, when i was chatting with my friends, we covered this topic unconsciously. which one is better small or...

cherry

lipstick

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benita2008 So long as the mouth suits your face or you and can make others feel comfortable, then it's ok no matter whether it's big or small.

7 Oct 08

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When was the last time you visited your dentist?

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 7 Oct 08

Wow, that was more than ten years ago. I always take care of my teeth and at my age, I could still use them to bite the hard guava. I brush my teeth regularly and I brush my teeth after eating sweets. Teeth are very important and...

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benita2008 I seem never to see any dentist. I don't think there is anything wrong with my teeth, I can bite something hard. I usually brush my teeth after each meal. If I am asked to wear those ugly artificial teeth, I won't dare to face people who will maybe look at me...

7 Oct 08

what time do usually go home??

urcheekyangel @urcheekyangel (438) • Philippines 7 Oct 08

hi my fellow mylotters, what time do you usually go home, after work or after school?? do you go home early or not??Oftentimes, I came home late at night. How about you??

go home

home

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benita2008 Hi, urcheekyangel, I usually behave well so I don't stay out long unless I am invited to KTV. I get back home after work as usual

7 Oct 08

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should i purchase a desktop pc or a laptop

nutanjain @nutanjain (898) • India 6 Oct 08

friends should i purchase a desktop pc or latop because my processsor which has become outdated has become very slow and makes a lot of noise i have sold that for 100 dollars and now i am thinking of...

accounting

alienware

laptop

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benita2008 That depends. If possible, you can have both. But you said you had a budget problem, so if I were you, I would choose a desktop.

7 Oct 08

how to avoid lending money?

tousif1988 @tousif1988 (373) • India 6 Oct 08

many of you might have been in a situation where one of your close friends ask you for the money, but you can't give it him as you now that it si not going to come back and it is going to be used in a right way. if he really needs...

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benita2008 If you really don't want to lend him the money, just tell him you have just loan a large sum of money and invest it in business or stocks or bonds. And, for your friendshop, never borrow money from your friends unless he/she is willing to, or you'll find you...

7 Oct 08

Are you content with your life?

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 7 Oct 08

Contentment defers for every person. I am content with my simple life and I'm content mylotting everyday and writing articles for my other sites. I don't dream of getting rich and having designer clothes. I don't dream of having...

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benita2008 I should say yes. I'm easy to be contented. I'm a simple person who enyjoy living a simple life with a simple man.

7 Oct 08

4 things Every man wants in a Woman

mizzJhaded @mizzJhaded (244) • Philippines 7 Oct 08

1. A real man wants a woman who is playful - There's something that drives men wild and invites them to a deeper level of "connection" and bonding with a woman faster than plain old talk about feelings and experiences....

relationships attraction love desire play

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benita2008 What if a woman/girl is mild, virtuous, cute, charming, wise, mature, considerate, caring, passional? Can any man rufuse her?

7 Oct 08

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Additional 5 hours per day, great ?

adriantys78 @adriantys78 (949) • Malaysia 7 Oct 08

Hi all, Recently at mylot i feel that the time is not enough. Even think of if everyone have additional 5 hours per day? How would you feel and what you will make use of that? I will definitely spend additional hours for mylot...

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benita2008 Additioal 5 hours? Sounds great. If so, I will sleep longer than now and can have more time to do what I like.

7 Oct 08

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Do you blame other for your misfortunes?

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 7 Oct 08

I heard someone shouting one time, "You have ruined my life. If not because of you my life would have been very successful." That hurts. How could one blame another for the misfortunes in his life? The only thing i know is that a...

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benita2008 I don't blame others at will. But I have a poor friend, whose mother likes to blame her for strange reasons such as not getting up early, not mopping the floor, not earning much money, or not giving happiness to the family and.... She is almost mad when...

7 Oct 08

Are you afraid to see the doctor?

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 4 Oct 08

I am glad that I don't spend much to see the doctor. I live a healthy life and I don't go to the doctor. My friends tell me to visit the doctor but I refuse. I fear what the doctor might tell me. I have many friends who thought...

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benita2008 Nobody likes to go to see a doctor unless he's really ill. But most of the time we don't think it a serious thing and handle it by ourselves. But if you can't handle it, you'd better see the doctor, no matter how you feel.

6 Oct 08

When people stare at you...

dolce_vita78 @dolce_vita78 (8062) • Philippines 6 Oct 08

What do you do or how do you react when you see someone staring at you? Do you act differently when you see someone staring at you? I do not really feel comfortable when I catch someone staring at me. I teach in a university...

college students

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benita2008 When someone is staring at me, I'm absolutely uncomfortable but I usually keep calm apprently, not looking back, then walk off to ignore him/her. Maybe I will look back with a pure-hearted smile, that depends.

6 Oct 08