BenterAdede

@BenterAdede (77)

Kenya • Age 42

Joined myLot 11 years ago

Always be happy!

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Country Star takes her own life!

lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 18 Feb 13

Country singer Cindy McCready age 37 committed suicide yesterday. She took a gun to her head and pulled the trigger. How in heavens name does one do this especially leaving two kids, one being less then a year old? I...

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BenterAdede Such is life. It is very sad especially for the children. If only those who do it can know the love of God which gives us peace no matter what we are going through.

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are you already prepared to die?

iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2560) • Philippines 18 Feb 13

recently i have not been feeling well. there have been instances when i felt that i was gonna die. i consulted the doctor ans she said i don't really have a serious disease. i just have to take a rest. and now i realized i'm...

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BenterAdede No, not now, I still have a lot to live for; my son for one gives me motivation to go on even when times are hard.

18 Feb 13

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"..Facebook.."...an advantage or a disadvantage?????

asd009 @asd009 (1) • India 15 Feb 13

Do you all think that for all those students who are still pursuing something or other, are compromising with their studies just to use Facebook and chatting ??

facebook

social media

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BenterAdede It is hard to tell, it really depends on what you are doing. You may chat because you are sharing lesson notes or as a way of discussing on the topics covered in class. Alternatively, you may also be chatting about irrelevant things that have nothing to do...

17 Feb 13

UUUUGGGGHHHHH!!!!! why?????

angelwithkids @angelwithkids (1256) • United States 16 Feb 13

For the first time, ever.....we owe taxes!! I'm still trying to figure this out!! So, now to figure out a way to get them paid off in 6 months and still get all of my son's senior items in 3 months and still get all the other...

earning money

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BenterAdede Such is life. Hope you get the money you need to pay your taxes. I know it is hurting especially when you know where the problem is and you can’t fix it. do not lose hope, you will soon get your payout!

17 Feb 13

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I'm going to do everything in my power not to have anymore children

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 10 Feb 13

My husband complains about every type of birth control. He makes it seem as if I'm not intelligent for taking birth control methods because of all the possible side affects. Mind you he's not willing to do anything on his part to...

children

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BenterAdede When you say, “I'm not having anymore kids with him." do you mean you can have kids with someone else? Anyway, your husband may just be ignorant about taking measures in order to control birth. Have you tried talking some sense into him or even going with him...

14 Feb 13

Whip Cream snowman

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 12 Feb 13

As part of a friends request I'm starting this discussion. I love trying to find or come up with some cute things to do with my daughter and my nephew. My youngest child can't get participate yet since he is under a year. I...

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BenterAdede You sure do know how to catch fun and be creative with your children. the Whip Cream Snowman is a classic idea. I’ll try that with my son when he is older.

13 Feb 13

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Potty Training

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 10 Feb 13

A few months back me and my husband started potty training our daughter. Finally the other day after months of telling her she actually used the toilet and peed in. Of course it's still a work in progress and she has only done it...

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BenterAdede That is so lovely. She is a fast learner, you must be really proud of her. I want to potty train train my son and I don’t have a clue of how to begin. He is now 17 months old.

12 Feb 13

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bz as a bee..

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9551) • Philippines 10 Feb 13

I got a call from a friend of long ago because her American husband wants to learn the local dialect. He wants 3 hours per session, two days a week, so that's a total of 6 hours per week. I am charging them the standard charge I...

2013

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BenterAdede My year has started slowly but I have all the intentions to pick up. I just need to know where and how I can make good money online!

12 Feb 13

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am going to fairyland tonight...

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9551) • Philippines 10 Feb 13

You heard it right. I got invited to a JS Prom of a nearby high school and their theme this year is Fairy Tale. It is going to be a spectacular evening with all the young ladies and gentlemen donning their best for their prom....

fairy tale

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BenterAdede From where I come from, we only hear about Prom stories. Down here in Kenya, we see it in the movies and films! I would love to attend one someday.

12 Feb 13

Cooking, and leaving it unattended?

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 10 Feb 13

My sister does this all the time, she will be cooking something get up and go have a shower, or go to bed. My Mother does it all the time too, although she wont admit it, and blames my sister and I for burning her pots. I...

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BenterAdede That is dangerous; it can cause a bad fire! Although, at times I leave food on the fire when am just headed to the nearby grocery shop…

12 Feb 13

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Call of Greed

kenshin2143 @kenshin2143 (1880) • Philippines 8 Feb 13

I found this purse in our classroom which I believed left by someone in the class before us. I intentionally hid the purse in my bag and checked how much money does it contain. And to my surprise, it had P550 in there which is...

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BenterAdede I love your conscience and heart. You did the right thing by returning that purse in the Office of student affairs catering lost and found items. God will bless you and you will make extra money in no time.

11 Feb 13

Received payment from Wikinut

k sridharprasad @yugasini (12893) • Secunderabad, India 11 Feb 13

Hi mylot friends, I am happy to say that I have received fifth payment from Wikinut site, I am posting articles in wikinut site since 2 years, this is third year. Till now I have posted more than 450 articles in wikinut site,...

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BenterAdede oh my oh my, I gave up on the Wikinut site. I guess I should go back and start posting articles again.

11 Feb 13

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Can You Survive in $700 per Month???

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 9 Feb 13

hi to all well, standard of living is my favorite topic, also now I study commerce, in which we should study If we decrease our expenses we are rich & If we increase our expenses we are poor (so sorry for my open English)...

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BenterAdede Lucky you have $700 per month, I survive on $100 and sometimes less in a month. It is difficult but what can I do? There are times when I have to choose between diapers and baby milk, there are times when my baby goes on a porridge diet all day, sometimes I...

11 Feb 13

Can you ignore somebody who insult you?

rubyroy @rubyroy (824) • India 9 Feb 13

There is a cousin who always insult others just for the fun of it.I always used to keep a distance to avoid any hassle with him.Recently he insulted me in front of a crowd by making personal remarks on my appearance.I insulted him...

ignore

retaliate

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BenterAdede Pay fire for fire, eye for an eye… tit for tat. Is it a far game? Well, it largely depends on the situation at hand. In your own case, I think you reacted to the heat of the moment however, since you already knew that he does that just for the fun of it, you...

11 Feb 13

life is an amazing journey

lizyuson @lizyuson (10) 9 Feb 13

This time of my life, i am in the situation of asking myself if i am really happy of where i am right now. There are a lot of things i want to do but there are also certain reasons why i really just can't.On the brighter side, i...

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BenterAdede You can say that again. Life is beautiful and no matter our circumstances, we should always enjoy it. I like the quote, “The truth is you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride, and nothing is guaranteed." By Eminem The power...

10 Feb 13

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How Am I (SPECIAL CASE) Supposed to Ask for Marriage?

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 9 Feb 13

Lacking a car (in this city that's so sprawled-out that going to pretty-much anything big WITHOUT a car takes figuratively as much work as a whole jungle-expedition) makes me feel 'unworthy' when women (who might marry me)...

how to ask

mercy on me

special case

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BenterAdede You know what, real love is unconditional so, regardless of whether you have a car or not is irrelevant to a girl who will marry you for love. Otherwise thinking of a car to attract love will only mean you want a girl who is attracted to your money, wealth,...

10 Feb 13

Home at last

tash01 @tash01 (2030) • Jamaica 9 Feb 13

My mom is home now,after three weeks in the hospital.God has been so good to us,an am so happy that is doing ok now. And she will going to get her vitamin injection every month.I just want to thank all my mylot friends for their...

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BenterAdede Am happy for her too! Three weeks in the hospital is not a joke. Let her continue to eat well and enjoy life. Have faith, don’t doubt, and trust in the Lord. Pray some more and she will get better and better. Moms are a treasure, keep yours safe.

10 Feb 13

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Finally got a job.

violann @violann (436) • United States 9 Feb 13

After a long search both in Fl and PA I finally landed a job. I was in Fl. taking care of my mother till she passed away in Sept 2011. Thought I stay there since I have family there and get a job. Approximately 9 months after she...

job

work

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BenterAdede Congratulations on your new job! I love your undying spirit in the job hunt. Patience is indeed a virtue. Most people give up easily and miss out on such great opportunities. Am really happy for you!

10 Feb 13

given up for your children

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 31 Jan 13

What did you give up for your children? I gave up extra time online that is for sure with my kids and of course every dime of money that we have to our children.

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BenterAdede I gave up my job while I was pregnant. It was a tough decision but a brave one too. I will not go back to work until my baby is seven years old. Am a proud mother!

9 Feb 13

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that is why I hate these crazy drivers!

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9551) • Philippines 9 Feb 13

He almost rammed against a van which was moving out from where it was parked and this driver did not see that. I had to scream to make him avoid the near-collision. And you know what he said after that? He didn't see for his eyes...

crazy driver

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BenterAdede Don’t be angry, you were almost hit, and not hit. Thank God for saving your life, remember, you are the only sane driver on the roads. Well, female transport drivers may replace all these male crazy drivers but that will not stop all he craziness on the roads....

9 Feb 13

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