besthope44

@besthope44 (12123)

India • Age 43

Joined myLot 14 years ago

Go Confidently In the Direction Of Your Dreams! Make the Change you wish to see!

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"have a nice day" or "have a rotten day'or be happy?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 22 Feb 12

Trying to think of a topic for discussion I could not help but notice how some of us repeatedly go "have a nice day".And got to wondering how often we even think " have a nice day" when we say that. I mean are we always being...

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besthope44 Hi Hatley, I use to say my hubby "have a nice day" or "have a great day" when he starts for his work. I feel its will spread a fresh and new positive thought for him to begin his day at his work. I don't feel it mechanical when i say this to him. But to...

1 Mar 12

I don't dare to have kid because I'm not sure that I'll feed him/her well

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 15 Sep 11

After getting married, I and my husband have a little difficult about finance. So, we don't dare to have kid right. We want to save some amount to guarantee that we can care our kid with the best conditions. My friends...

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besthope44 I would say its a good decision that you like to stablise your financial status first and then plan for the kid. Its a planned decision and work for it. Say you can wait for year or so, as you said long time waiting may cause problems in getting pregnant. So I...

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Life for poor people in a slum

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 28 Aug 11

Last night I saw a documentary about slums in Manila in the Philippines. It showed the living conditions of the very poor and some of the people had been living there for 20 years. Some of these people from the slums have been...

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besthope44 I usually think of the poor and slum people when i find the food at our home gets wasted. There are millions who suffer for their essential food and its painful to see many slums are still not given a support or lift in the society and country. They are...

28 Aug 11

Changing birth date

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 28 Aug 11

I have illness and today my mom and I visit a chinese medium and he told us to change my chinese birth date for RM108.80. Mom agreed to pay him since he said he can remove my fybroid in my uterus and cure my depression, help me to...

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besthope44 Hi Wong! Honestly to my knowledge i dont believe in these stuffs. Even in my country they believe numerology of birth dates, so you no need to worry that changing or not your birth date will make any effects. May be you can accept if for your mother who is...

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Is man the only creature in this vast universe to challenge nature?

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 28 Aug 11

Science has not yet been able to predict whether there is existence of man or any man-like creature anywhere in this vast universe in addition to the earth. If it is taken for granted that there is, then we must admit that so far...

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besthope44 Initially man was trying to explore the nature of universe to understand more about it. But later, he started to change the nature with his discoveries which started a threat and it is returned back. I would say answer is yes, its only us challenging the...

28 Aug 11

annoying people on facebook

enaid_osnam @enaid_osnam (99) • Philippines 27 Aug 11

I have noticed that some friends of mine in facebook are really annoying. There are some who are so obsessed about their looks and upload a lot of pictures with the same background, the same face but just a different angle. I mean...

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besthope44 Yep sometimes i feel the same and i would say my advice personally while commenting on their photos. But good that most of them take my advice and do remove it. Thats so nice of it!

27 Aug 11

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Do you think sleeping in afternoon is Good or bad?

Princelierocks @Princelierocks (817) • India 26 Aug 11

Hey guys i would like to come up with a discussion on our the basic factor of our life that is sleep. We all need minimum about 8 hours to refresh our mind and avoid our body to get overclocked. I have this habbit of sleeping in...

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besthope44 I would say its not totally bad, but making it as routine can be bad. My mom use to take nap at afternoon, so she feels fresh to wake up and start her home makes. So it can be taken as a rest. You can make it a practise to sleep an hour to refresh yourself, so...

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relaxing getting my hair done

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 25 Aug 11

My girls have been obcessed today with doing my hair. Even though the spray bottle of water is getting low and my hair is getting a good soak it's relaxing. They like playing with my hair from time to time and I miss how relaxing...

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besthope44 Thats so sweet..its almost like you are having a head massage and its good for your health keeping you away from stress and strain. You have sweet gals to help their mom, so lucky and lovely to hear it! My gals are just 3 and 5 years, but they are smart at...

26 Aug 11

Should children help their do to household tasks as soon as they are able to do?

tenrajj @tenrajj (911) • Bhutan 25 Aug 11

Should children be required to help with household tasks as soon as they are able to do so? What are advantages and disadvantages? In the past in America, children were valuable workers. For example, they helped on the arm or...

children

children and household task

should children do household tasks

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besthope44 It would be great if we teach our kids to help on the household task. Its not burdening the kids, whereas teaching them the responsibility to help their mothers. Creating interest to keep the houses and rooms clean will develop a good habit among the kids.

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Home Alone and Loving It!

devideddi @devideddi (1435) • United States 25 Aug 11

School is back in and though I love having my kids around it is nice to have the house to myself! My dh was home for a while and he is back to work now also. I have so been waiting on this time! I love the quietness of the house....

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besthope44 Hi devideddi, I am experiencing same as you.. My kid has just started her schooling and feeling home alone now. For first few months, i was missing her badly and worried how she would manage at school. But now i feel lighter as she loves her school. I get more...

26 Aug 11

Miss me? I miss work!

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32191) • United States 25 Aug 11

I've been out of work for three days, and friday I may not have to go in either as I am just "on call". Working only three days this week and I don't like it. I'd much rather be working, if not five hours like I'm usually...

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besthope44 Nice to hear how much you love your work. And true, when we are in the routine, taking a break from the work can make miss more. i felt it manytimes. Dedication to work and interests will pay a good future! All the best!

26 Aug 11

noticed whether or not your grammar, sentence structure, etc is bad on mylot?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 25 Aug 11

My husband was reading some of my discussions, and others. Has he read a lot out loud he picked on me and other discussions because he noticed how some words were switched around, misspelled or the sentence structure was wrong. I...

typing on mylot

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besthope44 Well it happens to me as well. I would be so involved to answer and once i post my answer and try to read, i find i have mispelled, missed a word and so on. But i believe it would be understandable for the others. As mylot is great place to communicate and...

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Getting Old ....in Frustration

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 26 Aug 11

It is common belief that a person reaches middle age when his/her children become unfriendly in behavior. In a determined effort to achieve total independence of thoughts and actions,the younger ones often turn deaf ears to their...

ageing process

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besthope44 This is the most urging problem especially at todays generation. But I would not blame youngsters or the parents alone. I would say a intimacy has to be developed between the two..lack of communications. The main problem is parents worry much and try to...

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The usual mistake in relationships... (love, friendships, family,etc)

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 25 Aug 11

Do you know, would you have an idea as to the common relationship mistakes we face? Is it about couples not finding time for each other, is it about couples just losing the love... but why would we lose something as great as...

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besthope44 I would say most lacking in relationships is the art of perseverance. And understanding the value of relationship will also help to avoid mistakes in a relationship. Relationships are gifted ones and if we learn the art of handling them carefully, we can...

26 Aug 11

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You're my inspiration, active users on mylot.

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 25 Aug 11

Since Monday, I couldn't write anything for my posts. I don't know. Sometimes my brain doesn't work well and I have nothing to say. I sometimes feel bored and lazy on mylot. But for those active users, I salute you! You have so...

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besthope44 I would say, i can join by your side to appreciate the active and most helpful users on mylot. Honestly, i have told many experienced mylotters here, that they are my true inspiration and without following them i wouldn't have learned the goodness of mylot....

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everything will come to its end..

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 24 Aug 11

Good day fellow mylotters, I was having a chat with my sister and one of the topics we have been discussed was regarding the thing which happens to our life. As she shares to me some disappointments she encounters at her job....

advise

attitude

colleague

everything will come to an end

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besthope44 Honestly yes! I have seen many people who never been calm in their life time, but as age goes and time passes, they get the attitude to understand and manage the situation more politely. So Everything will come to an end as nothing is stable in the world!

25 Aug 11

I made 3 articles today. Yay me!

beingwell @beingwell (3625) • Thailand 24 Aug 11

Today, I was able to publish an article with Triond. And I also created 2 articles for my 2 blogs, 1 each. Yippeee!! Tomorrow is a new day, though. I don't think I can do it again!hahahaha!!! Are you a writer? How many articles...

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besthope44 Thats great beingwell, I have registered in Trinod, but not published any articles yet. Nice that you keep publishing consistently and it inspires me now to start active in Trinod. Great job!!

25 Aug 11

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