betsyhu

@betsyhu (207)

China • Age 48

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Long-distance relationships

jt8900 @jt8900 (11) • United States 26 Oct 09

So I've been involved in kind of a friendship+ (not friends with benefits, more like friends but we wish we were more) for about a year now. My friend lives in Colorado and I live in New York. I find the relationship very...

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betsyhu If I were you, I couldn't give up this relationship for long-distance. In china old poem, there is one sentence about your status now, that is; if your friendship is ture, why not care about long-distance ? So long-distance oughtn't be obstruction for you...

26 Oct 09

Do you want to tansgender ?

betsyhu @betsyhu (207) • China 15 Oct 09

I read a news from ABC news that a lady switch her gender to a man in order to escaping law . If I have recovered myself, maybe, I will try to be a man . lol... what about you ?

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betsyhu Relatively speaking, I prefer being a lady. after all being a lady is little pressure than being a man. thanks for your response.

15 Oct 09

Do you want to tansgender ?

betsyhu @betsyhu (207) • China 15 Oct 09

I read a news from ABC news that a lady switch her gender to a man in order to escaping law . If I have recovered myself, maybe, I will try to be a man . lol... what about you ?

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When you are lonely ,why not try something different? Volunteer.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 12 Oct 09

Reading some older discussions I noticed so many people' are lonely and there were great ideas put forth to help cure loneliness. But I remember that there are a lot of places that always need people to volunteer? and what...

volunteers can garner large rewards

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betsyhu Good idea. I'm going to be volunteer some time, but give up at last for variouse excuses. No time is key reason for me, you know, I have to work in eight hours day, care my little daughter and family,study more and more in order to follow and further my...

13 Oct 09

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My wish, My Desire

sanket111 @sanket111 (96) 27 Jun 08

Okk my question to everybody here is to what extent u can consider "something that ur suppose to do in ur life" as ur Wish and Desire.It happens to us many a times that vr forced to do that v never liked to do in our past, are u...

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betsyhu Well, I need desire, dream in my life. in the past time, I lost them, you know, how I disappointed. because I have little interesting for anything whether it's important or not for me. I believe, if no desire or dream, I can't live as a man. since have to...

12 Oct 09

Do you think horror movies can kill anyone

ishaaan @ishaaan (58) • India 28 Sep 09

is there any movie which you can say is really horror, and please tell me in which scenario or time should i watch that movie.

horror movie

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betsyhu I don't like such horror movies as you said. Suddenly scream with tragedy, blood head,ghastfulness eyes that looking at you straightly in dark .... Oh, painful feeling I can't imagine. horror film stimulate every nerve for person who seeing them.

12 Oct 09

What do people thinks about u?

Chardee Ruiz @ruiz_richard22 (111) • Philippines 9 Oct 09

Well, being part of our lives, are those challenges we striving for. One of this is the wrong information starting from one person or a backstabber. People's always thinks good nor bad for you while you are turning back to them....

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betsyhu I don't know what other person thinks about me. It's not important for me to guess. even if you are perfection, some one always list your shortcomings in his eye. that is, nobody can be ideal. Since that, why you worry about other's view ? Of course, all...

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Am I wrong to date again?

growingupthree @growingupthree (54) • United States 24 Sep 09

My husband walked out on me and our three daughters almost two years ago. He has filed for divorce and has a fiance. They have a son that she was pregnant with before he ever told me he wanted a divorce. Of course his reasons for...

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betsyhu Whichever nation or country, if you are woman, you have same characteristic with others. Having to accepted the fact that it's man's world indeed, in spite of matter or spirit, woman rely on man more or less,which make woman into terrible and puzzled if your...

25 Sep 09

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Can you think of not thinking about anything?

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 24 Sep 09

The question seems to be contradiction but can someone really be without any thoughts even for a single moment because even when we are thinking that we dont want any thoutghs actually we are thinking that we wont think of...

thinker

thoughts

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betsyhu If it's true as you said, I think, someone will be Buddha indeed. Zazen's purpose is no thinking and hold it for a long time so as to reach to heaven and man are one as a whole. for commone person , it's difficult to attain this step.

25 Sep 09

How many of you are able to sleep in tension??

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 24 Sep 09

Can you sleep when you are in tension because of work,personel problems? Be it anything when somthings are not working can you sleep without thinking that you lied down to sleep?

sleeep

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betsyhu If I'm in stressed or anything that make trouble for me, I can't go into sleep certainly. I will open my eye all night and listen to the click from clock. how long time that I can't stand !Insomnia is so terrible !

25 Sep 09

How do u choose which type of charity to donate monies to?

vanny @vandana7 (100282) • India 13 Aug 09

Each year, there are income tax exemptions are offered for giving donations to specified charities. Not being very rich, I am always in a dilemma. There are several types of social objectives that can do with help, but the amount...

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betsyhu I have no more money to donate, but hope to help others in trouble. General speaking, I would rather choose government charity than other group with nominal donate. in order to hope let my money be used in need indeed for people in troulbe. Of couse, this's...

14 Aug 09

I'd like to know.....

doglady112 @doglady112 (604) • Canada 11 Aug 09

So I've calling my mom to keep her informed about what has been happening with my spouse and myself. Basically I've been lying to her, she just wants to pretend that my marriage is fine. When I know it's not, I know that I'm...

family

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betsyhu It's your life, you know, it's you not your monther will live with your spouse through the rest life. If you feel the life is not you want ever, even more,you can't stand longer, why not choose giving up? but you can't do that only for no one from your...

12 Aug 09

what are the 3 characteres of a MAN

scooby29 @scooby29 (239) • Philippines 13 Jul 09

Every man ha s 3 characters 1. That which he has 2. That which he exhibits 3. And that which he thinks he has Do you think of some?

wisdom of words

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betsyhu You are right. But maybe, we can't know ourselves indeed. especially, what I'm ? or who I'm ? What I want to do or have ? I don't know. As for what he exbihits , which based on his bottom of heart, another words is subconscious.

13 Jul 09

What's the train like in your country? Do you like travel by train?

Chengyueyao @Chengyueyao (32) • China 13 Jul 09

I've just experenced a two day's travel on the train, finnally , I got home. I thought at first that the train would not be so crowded and I was actually expecting a comfortable travel with my classmates. However, things were...

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betsyhu I like travel by train as long as good condition in train. First, it's not so many people, everyone has one's room; secondly, with a clean and high quality service for passergers; Enjoy the travel, you can imagine when looking landscape, recall your...

13 Jul 09

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currently,what do you want in your life if you can choose only one?

postlover @postlover (191) • China 24 Jun 09

Love, Friendship, Money, Power or others? Please note 'currently',not in your whole life. Now I need my own business. It is quite boring if one has nothing to do except sleeping, eating and playing everyday.so I really find...

life

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betsyhu Money although money is not first need, if we have no money in the world, how to support our family who you love ? only love is not enough, you have to give their good life in pratical. Based on aforesaid condition, they live happy then able to care about...

24 Jun 09

How often should a person take a bath. in your opinion..what is the norm ?

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 24 Jun 09

What is the norm for taking a bath? Once a day , once a week .. ? how often do you take a bath? Do you prefer a bath or a shower.. The most important quetion though is: how ofte is the norm to bathe in bathtub or shower?

bathing

baths

showers

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betsyhu No norm if you want to take a bath when you have relevant condition. Of course, eveyone hope clean by self. if possible, I like to take a bath eveyday whether winter or summer.

24 Jun 09

When I was a kid I thought.,,,,,,,,,,,,,

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 24 Jun 09

I thought little people crawl through a door in the back of the TV and that's how we got TV, I thought if the earth is supposed to be round I eventually fall of. I thought that Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny were real, but so...

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betsyhu So interesting, kid's imagination is more exaggerated than adult. I like kid's painting very much, coloured, lovely, naive. you know ,when we grow up, we lost these capability and turn to be disciplinarian. No other reasons, real life, society make it....

24 Jun 09

Technology and modern life style!

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 17 Jun 09

It is the modern technology which is changing the face of modern liveing and lifestyle. We have all the gadgets at work at the press of a button/ No need to get up and do it, its all there in the remote and the technology which...

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betsyhu I don't like modern life style in deed. quick, pressure and fussy are penetrated in my life. for money, for preferment, for other variouse excuses to deplete my energy,disturbe my life. In city, no more friends to worth to chat wholehearted, no more peace...

17 Jun 09