bluej20

@bluej20 (113)

United States • Age 65

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Baby Names

xgodspeedmydeath @xgodspeedmydeath (68) • United States 1 Jan 07

I would love some imput on some baby name for both a boy and a girl. So far I have come up with: Boy: Tristan Girl: Jocelyn Any comments or suggestions greatly appreciated.

baby

baby names

names

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bluej20 My daughter is Haley Erin, and my son is David Aaron.We are Jewish and the names are after someone who has passed away.If I ever (which I'm not)had another I would take my grandmothers first enitial which is an S. For a girl the name would be Shyla.She was a...

1 Jan 07

What color of christmas lights do you prefer?

medooley @medooley (1873) • United States 26 Nov 06

Do you like the multi-colored, the all white lights, all red lights, the blue lights or any other color? Me I like the all white lights.

christmas lights

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bluej20 On my windows because i don't use a lot I put multi.But my tree is all white. Now 2 years ago I sparingly put purple. Its amazing.

1 Jan 07

Is it cheating?

Trace86 @Trace86 (5030) • United States 29 Dec 06

Lately I have been having dreams. I can't specifically remember them, but I have a sense that they were of a romantic nature. I am pretty sure that the man in last night's dream wasn't my husband, I am also sure that nothing...

dreams

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bluej20 Usually dreams have nothing to do with what you see in them. They are symbols.You can only dream in the familiar.Your huband is familiar so you see him.Dreams come from your subconscience. Write down all your dreams you remember. Even the small details and get...

29 Dec 06

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Family situation...am i wrong?

jewel76 @jewel76 (2305) • Canada 29 Dec 06

Hey all! Well, we all have our family holiday issues don't we? So i'd like to share mine with all of you, and hopefully get your insight on the situation. Here goes: i've been with my now husband, for 4 years and a half. His...

family crisis

folding chairs

stepmother

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bluej20 I would yes make other arraingments for next year but I would get together alone with your father and give him the respect he deserves by telling him why. And you must be honest.Write it down if you need to.She is yes his wife but he is ruining the relation...

29 Dec 06

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my dull life

johatesjazz @johatesjazz (5) 29 Dec 06

I am seriously in debt, living at home with my parents. I have a decent job but it is dull, dull, dull. I am saving up to buy a house which with my debts will probably take around 10 years. I have very few friends and I don't...

depressed

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bluej20 I think you need help.You have no reason to be that depressed so if you get help.You have a job, be grateful. You don't like it girl go find a new one.Instead of ending your life start it.You should not need a relationship to make you happy or whole.You will...

29 Dec 06

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Types of Chocolate

happylittlevegemite @happylittlevegemite (19) • Australia 29 Dec 06

What type of chocolate is your favourite? what brand is it? does it have a flavour? i like cadbury dairy milk...not that i'd be able to resist many other types.

brands

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flavours

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bluej20 I have 1 favorite and it is chocolate covered cherries.My ex-boyfriend when he came home late from work and I was asleep would put 2 of them on my end table so they were the first things I'd see in the morning.

29 Dec 06

GHOSTS... What's your take on them.any Theories??

mari61960 @mari61960 (4893) • United States 28 Dec 06

I can't figure the whole ghost thing out. I believe there is something that goes on. I know I have been visited by a few people that are dead. But is it a choice, does it just happen, can you stay a ghost? Why do we hear, read,...

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bluej20 If you have seen something then your 3rd eye is open. I have it and not just see but get smells and feelings. Sometimes their emotions i seem to absorb. I've gotten fear but mostly sadness. Its horrible when all of a sudden you get this overwellming desire to...

29 Dec 06

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television shows

skylar @skylar (27) • United States 29 Dec 06

what kind of television shows do you like to watch?

shows

television

television shows

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bluej20 Hi I like Lost, Desperate Housewive, and Greys Anatomy.And I can also get into American Idol.Just a note when you post a question try to give more detail your self. What shows are you interested in?

29 Dec 06

How to get over beeing abused?

Marie2473 @Marie2473 (8512) • Sweden 29 Dec 06

I admit that I am mostly a happy camper these days and that there is really nothing wrong with my life, but every once in a while I end up in that DARK spot where noone actually can reach me. My life has been a rollercoaster....

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bluej20 It sounds like a page from my life.My stepmother said to me you can forgive but you never forget.My mother abused me and then my husband.I too go to that dark place. Heavy sadness.Noone gets it.When you just want everyone to leave you alone .t They just don't...

29 Dec 06

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Need Ideas on Making Money

heal4michael @heal4michael (161) • United States 29 Dec 06

Can anyone give me any idea on how to earn $300 fast? On Christmas, I maxed myself out getting gifts for needy kids. Kids that would have gotten nothing for Christmas. My heart went out to them and I went overboard. Plus I helped...

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bluej20 Thats a hard one short of getting another job.What you did was good.You helped other people.You will probably have to pay it off slower than you want to.but just the same good things happen to those who do good themselves.Don't be suprised when something falls...

29 Dec 06

Phone-Tree Frustrations

lauriefnp @lauriefnp (5109) • United States 29 Dec 06

How aggravating do you find it when you call a company's "800" customer service number to inquire about a product or service concern and you get lost in the phone tree- eventually to get cut-off because you press a wrong number?...

customer service

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bluej20 If I have to deal with that I won't do business with them. They will lose me as a cutomer.Who these days has the time or the patience.I think that link is great.

29 Dec 06

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New feature mylot should have.

Magikrose @magikrose (5429) • United States 28 Dec 06

I was just browsing through discussions and I constantly see discussions I have already responded to. In a way that is anoying to me. What if mylot had a feature that when you responded to a discussion it dosnt pop up in the...

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bluej20 I agree I found this and it was the only one on the page i had not posted to.It takes so much extra time to navigate when you have to weed out what you have already seen. Great idea.

29 Dec 06

Hanging Saddam Hussein. What's your opinion ?

RAMONES @RAMONES (537) • Belgium 29 Dec 06

I just heard on the news that Saddam Hussein would be hanged as soon as possible. Maybe tonight or tomorrow ... I just don't think the death penalty is good. No human has the right to take another human's life. But even a...

death penalty

muslim

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bluej20 Maybe but him being alive is too much of a chance for him to still be able to have some controll with the outside world.

29 Dec 06

myLot Friends

BELMCstar @BELMCstar (1341) • Australia 29 Dec 06

I have a few people who have asked to be my friend on myLot who are from India, the Philipines & America. I am wondering what makes these people ask to be my friend. I am not objecting by any stretch of the imagination, but I...

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bluej20 I started yesterday and had 3 friend requests.I thought that was so random, but it was from me answering on of my posts.If they are not going to mutually post with me and it is one sided I won't keep them.I am very real and I expect people to be eal with me.

29 Dec 06

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Spain and skinny models

onestepahead @onestepahead (285) • Canada 28 Dec 06

Has anyone heard about Spain passing a law about a weight loss minimum for models? If you are below a certain weight you can not model on the runways of...

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bluej20 I applaude this. It is not discriminating. They are doing it because they sre finally trying to set an example.Young girls teens are starving themselves to be just like those models,and like the ones on the covers of magazines.What they don't realizeIs how...

29 Dec 06

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starting dumb discussions won't earn you money

blogginginvestor @blogginginvestor (193) • India 29 Dec 06

Hi, Just wanted to tell you that starting dumb discussions with one word answers don't earn you any money. Similarly, replying to such discussions or answering with single word replies won't earn you anything much. I started a...

discussions

earn

money

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bluej20 I was just thinking about that. Once I get started I can't stop. I feel I owe it to the person who made the original post an effort on my part.How rude are some of these people to post nonsence just to get one more post in.You are so rihjt.

29 Dec 06

Should 'happy hols' replace 'merry xmas'?

zykios @zykios (64) • India 29 Dec 06

I recently read in an article that companies in Britain are asking their employees to greet coworkers with 'happy holidays' instead of 'merry christmas'. Even the government seems to be supporting this move. Official festivities...

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bluej20 I say both. I am jewish,so happy holidays works I think for all as a neutral greeting.But I don't think its offensive.

29 Dec 06

Does the abused partner ever disserve it?

sunshinecup @sunshinecup (7871) 29 Dec 06

When a loved one, whether it be male or female, spouse or BF/GF, put their hands on you out of rage, is there ever a justifiable reason? For instance, because you cheated? You called them a hateful name? Said something about...

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bluej20 You never deserve it. My husband hit me and no matter what I did not cause it.This is not your problem, it is his.They need help,and the reason we need help is because of what they have done.

29 Dec 06

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