blueyankee44

@blueyankee44 (43)

China • Age 80

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Keeping in touch

radairc @radairc (98) • United States 25 Oct 08

There are a few people that I call my friends in this world, and I have a hard time keeping in touch with them. The problem isn't distance or time; the problem is me. I love my friends, but I have a hard time remembering to call...

friends

keeping in touch

losing touch

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blueyankee44 You have nothing to worry about. Its an old saying(if you have one friend,you have a good life)One thing we must do,is Focus.I am a older man,and people call it seni le.Mainly,its focus,and actually not remembering,because of concentration.You will have...

26 Oct 08

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Teenagers telling their problems to their friends instead of parents?

swarovski87 @swarovski87 (328) • Singapore 25 Oct 08

As above, is it true that teenagers prefer telling their problems to their friends instead of parents? As for me, i think its quite true that some teenagers feel that their parents do not understand them, hence they prefer telling...

problems life

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blueyankee44 Dont let this surprise you. Your parents are much older than you.You dont say how old they are and what they do,or dont do.What do you do,and what do you ask them.Th ey are wanting to help you,and get angry when they know they cant help you all...

26 Oct 08

What's your poison?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 25 Oct 08

They are people in our everyday encounter that are considered freak. We all know them, those people whose very pressence can make us feel instantly stressed; it's the family member that never has a positive word to say about...

carriers

stress

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blueyankee44 Lets put it this way. You are also in the everyday life of other people whom may re gard you in the same token.You should be where I am.When you are aging and do not feel as you are any older than 21 or the middle 30s.We tear our hair out alot.Its doubtful...

26 Oct 08

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Do you hold back your anger sometimes during a discussion?

cassandralynn @cassandralynn (1084) • United States 25 Oct 08

I know mylot expects it's members to always be play nice to everyone on here and I know for myself I sometimes would like to tear lose on some people once in awhile but I withhold my anger because I know it goes against the mylot...

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blueyankee44 Its a good thing to hold ones temper.Its frustrating at times when you do want to tear loose at some'one.The one way is to always keep an open mind,as maybe the writer had no intention of angering anyone,and least of all you.Sometimes when we write,we lose...

26 Oct 08

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What kind of KOOK is this?

redyellowblackdog @redyellowblackdog (10629) • United States 25 Oct 08

Yes, it is true. There are those thinking anyone making allegations the 0bama campaign would behave inappropiately are ignorant, paranoid, stupid, racists and even worse! Well, here is proof of someone being all those things,...

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blueyankee44 Red Yellow Black Dog,its a sure thing you are the apple of some ones love.As a citi zen and a voter(maybe) you are some'one to disbelieve him,as everyone has that choi ce,without your allegations to the Negative approach to your own statement.You do not...

26 Oct 08

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do you get excited with your kids birthday? today is my first born birthday

pehpot @pehpot (4762) • Philippines 23 Oct 08

October 24, this is my first born boy 5th birthday. To me and to my hubby this is a very exciting day, we have no plans yet on how to celebrate it and we did not planned for a party this year, unlike last year where we had a...

birthday

excited

kayil

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blueyankee44 Yes,at times I do get excited of birthdays.My wifes birthday is the 28th and I am'doing the best possible to see she has a Happy Birthday.She is Chinese and many Chinese do not treat their birthdays as special.(but,it can be questioned,and doub ted)My wife...

25 Oct 08

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Do you sleep late to stay in mylot?

pehpot @pehpot (4762) • Philippines 14 Sep 08

It is 3 am here in my country and I am feeling sleepy but I am trying to stay awake and stay away from typographical errors oh well I am spending this time to mylot because I was not able to do mylot the whole day, we...

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blueyankee44 Its been a long time since I have been anywhere as tired,as years ago.Since I have my new heart valve replacement,I have not been tired.I am not sure if I understand your question about sleeping late for Mylot. However,I do not sleep late too much at...

15 Sep 08

I Thought I Was Having A Heart Attack!!!

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 11 Sep 08

Because of all of the stress that I have been dealing with lately, I have not seen a doctor in about a year. This morning, I was doing my hair back in one ponytail. Because my hair is so thick, it was quite a task. At some point,...

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blueyankee44 Hello; Its good and hopeful only strained muscle.or gas.The main biggy,may be that you are stressed out.Why? Is it worth it,to be so stressed out.You must keep your things in life,under control,though yes I know how you must feel.We all have stress and...

13 Sep 08

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Have you noticed that most kids nowadays dont have the good values anymore?

eve301345 @eve301345 (658) • Philippines 12 Sep 08

I feel sad to see that kids attitude have change so much in a very short time. I am only 24 years old but because I grow up in a province I still experience the values that you should respect the older people than you whoever they...

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blueyankee44 Have you noticed that their parents,have very few values to learn from.There is less values and good people on some of these Internet Forums,which could benefit from some good members,as well.I joined two other forums,and the people on them are so...

13 Sep 08

I Thought I Was Having A Heart Attack!!!

Rozie37 @Rozie37 (15499) • Turkmenistan 11 Sep 08

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blueyankee44 Rozie37, I will try to tell you,if its not on your left side,it may not be a heart attack.I have had heart problems since I was old enough to realize what pain was.I never like to give advice on a Heart situation,as we are all different.So as an old person...

12 Sep 08

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Are you always on time whenever you have to meet someone?

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 12 Sep 08

Hi everyone! I went out yesterday to meet our accountant in a donut shop. The time that we're supposed to meet was 5pm and I came 5 minutes early cause I don't want to be late at any appointments and it's...

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blueyankee44 So be it. Yes its good to be on time,but the book says sometimes to be a few monute s late when going to a Social House visit.Its never good to arrive early as the hos t and hostes may not be ready.When going to the Dentist,Doctor,and wharever its goo d to...

12 Sep 08

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In your current relationship, do you tell everything to your partner?

iskayz @iskayz (5420) • Philippines 10 Sep 08

Hi everyone! Trust is very important in a relationship. Trust is also somewhat related to secrets. When you trust someone especially your partner you can tell him/her everything about your life. And if you trust...

keeping secrets

relatiionship

right to keep secrets

secrets

trust

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blueyankee44 Hello,its nice to be here.This is a good question,and it should be answered with maybe one of many you could select.The best is simply,"Use You Own Judgement". In a relationship,married or single,best friends,its certainly a good shot,to know what you...

11 Sep 08

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no best friend

dominiquevalido18 @dominiquevalido18 (8) • United States 10 Sep 08

I find it hard to make friends because i have serious trust issues and females i usually clash with.I envy other females my age who have the girlfriends to go shopping clubbing etc. I wish i had that. Now don't get me wrong i have...

friends

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blueyankee44 Of course,you will have a Best Friend!However,its hard to say just when.If you wish to have one instantly in a few months or so,relax,it will not happen,except in a few ways.(soul searching,will help to do this)You must culivate friendships,and it takes a...

11 Sep 08

Blunt truth or white lie

xomgitskamax @xomgitskamax (937) • United States 10 Sep 08

Which do you think is better? Is it to tell someone straight up even if its really mean? say some asks you if they need deodorant and you can smell them from where you are. Would you say Yes! Please put some on. Or would you be...

lies

truth

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blueyankee44 Hello,this is really some name you have.Certainly before I would tell anyone,you must be sure you are proper.Maybe there are reasons.Maybe the person is a sweater and realizes that there is a problem.Maybe body odorant does not last long when the sweat...

11 Sep 08

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Is myLot a part time job?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 9 Sep 08

I am a stay at home mother. I do not work outside of the home but I might seek work in the future. For now I like to come to this site to make friends and earn a little extra income. Therefore I do spend quite a bit of time here....

part time job

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blueyankee44 Hello, Its a easy task to come on here to earn a little money.(very little,maybe) Here they want you to go through (Pay Pal) and there is no way,it will happen.(Pay Pal),was responsible three years ago,for letting people from Australia steal my Identity,and...

10 Sep 08

Do you?

ayessa @ayessa (1583) • Philippines 9 Sep 08

I want to know if anyone here is open to help people. This means anyone who approach you and ask for some help, will you give them the help they need? Or are you the type of person who think first before giving any help?

help

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blueyankee44 Ayesa; Its a difference thses days when a person needs help.Years ago,it was safer to throw caution to the winds,and really help a desolate person.These days you can end up in trouble,and perhaps dead.In the states,people still offer assistance to many...

10 Sep 08

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Do you believe tht eating together makes the family happier?

pehpot @pehpot (4762) • Philippines 9 Sep 08

My family loves to eat, in fact we eta more 3 times a day. at breakfast we sit at the table and finish eating just in time to prepare lunch. We talk a lot while eating. We share experiences, our story and catching ups while...

eating together

family together

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blueyankee44 Well Pehpot,its certainly a great way to become familiar with your family.You can see,others eating other places,and wonder if they are happy.When you eat together you have the chance to help one another,and to become a strong family unit,who helps each...

10 Sep 08

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Do you still find chatting that interesting?

brisk123 @brisk123 (2823) • India 9 Sep 08

I used to chat a lot when computer and internet was first introduced to me.Chatting,emails and how to surf net was the first thing I learn and knew about.I had lots of online friends,some I had met and still maintaining good...

chatting

interest

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blueyankee44 Hello Brisk,if its chatting you want to do,perhaps,we can motovate you back into it .I am a talker from way back,as they say.and have plenty to say,much of the time.I can talk about almost anything,and willing to learn more to talk about,with some'on e,who...

9 Sep 08

How Many..

tessah @tessah (6617) • United States 5 Sep 08

"second" chances should be handed out? third.. fourth.. fifths? does the category of the person matter in the decision? friend, best friend, spouse, lover, parent, sibling, child? where and when do the lines get drawn on a person...

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blueyankee44 Tessah(1882); Second Chances,are usually the order of the day,when some'one you lov e is doing it or has done it.As a Person of many second chances,and good reasons fo r needing them .and a bad reasons for doing them.The second chances you speak of are...

6 Sep 08