bluidkiti

@bluidkiti (37)

United States • Age 63

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How will you gauge true friendship?

snowhybiscuis @snowhybiscuis (1882) • Philippines 18 Sep 10

I happen to have two assistants whom I think I am close with. However, I just learned recently that there are things that they cannot tell me. They haven't told me honestly their issues. All along, I thought I have this open...

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bluidkiti True friends to me are those that are there through all the times. The good times, bad time and in between times. I have a couple of best friends that are like sisters to me. We don't talk to each other all the time but stay in tough a few times during the...

18 Sep 10

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In your case, does long term relationship works?

beauty_denia @beauty_denia (41) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

Base on my experience long term relationship works only if there's trust, honest and understanding. I've been going out with the guy for almost 8 years. Long distance relationship is not easy and very expensive. Your honest is...

relationship

work

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bluidkiti My husband and I have been married for over 24 years now. We were together 6 years before we got married. We have only broken up once during the whole time. That was right before we got married. We broke up for a month. During that time we discovered how much...

18 Sep 10

Darkness before the Dawn

aurorastorm @aurorastorm (1131) • United States 17 Sep 10

The quote "it is always darkness before the dawn." When will the dawn come I am tired of so much darkness. Today I am hanging on by the thinnest thread. Sick of this money crunch, sick of the tightness in my chest because of it....

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bluidkiti I am in sort of a money crunch myself right now but I keep trying to be positive and have hope. I told my youngest daughter recently that the sun will come out for us again. It is just a dark time we are going through but we will make it through. I am a...

18 Sep 10

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Do you want your children to stay or take care of you when you are old?

yspmyl @yspmyl (3435) • Malaysia 18 Sep 10

Do you ever think that you will want your children to stay with you when you are old? Do you want you children to take care of you when you are old instead of send you to the old folks home? Many parent will hope that their...

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bluidkiti I hope that when and if the time comes that I need to be taken care of that my children would step up to the plate and help me. Most parents that I know that are alot older than me don't want to be a burden to their children or anyone. I feel the same way. I...

18 Sep 10

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What do you think about "TV"? Is it good for you?

luukimlong2000 @luukimlong2000 (658) • Vietnam 18 Sep 10

One of my favorite thing is watching TV, I like it so much; but some of my friends ssy that, Tv is not so good becasue it will affect your eyes; You can learn somthing new but in the negative way, it means, you just receive the...

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bluidkiti I don't always watch alot of TV but I think it can be good for you. You have to find a balance with it like anything else. Too much of anything can be bad for you. If all you do is watch TV all day then it could be bad for you. We are need to get out and...

18 Sep 10

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Do you have good neighbors ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 17 Sep 10

When I bought a house in a new neighborhood, there was no one I knew, and I was not sure at all how the neighbors would be. After some time, we became friends, and I was so happy that both my neighbors are so friendly, and so...

friendship

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bluidkiti I feel I have good neighbors. We are not into each others business but if something occurs and we should need the other one, we are there for each other - looking out for each other. My little neighborhood is quiet and peaceful. My husband and I really like...

18 Sep 10

Fate, self confidence, hard work, God faith-which is most powerful?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 18 Sep 10

Most of us beleive in fate. ( a new born baby having fatal diseases, a not so talented person is very successful in life, very talented person unable to be successful all tell that fate is there) We can't leave everything to...

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bluidkiti I believe in God therefore for me He is all powerful. With God all things are possible. I pray to God everyday and throughout each day. I pray that His will, not mine, be done. Now I do get up and getting going taking action keeping alert for His guidance in...

18 Sep 10

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Do you like to leave a message to the answering machine?

youless @youless (112582) • Guangzhou, China 13 Sep 10

Actually I don't like to leave a message to the answering machine because it seems it's silly to speak in the phone when there is nobody answering you So sometimes I will just hang up the phone if I hear the...

answering machine

message

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bluidkiti Sometimes I will leave a message sometimes I don't. What I really dislike is calling a place of business and not getting a human to talk to without having to go through a thousand different things. Then to finally get to a human and they put you on hold or...

15 Sep 10

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Do Doctors Just Want our Money?

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 15 Sep 10

My husband has been dealing with various medical issues throughout this year. These range from the two surgeries that he had earlier this year for kidney stones to now lower back pain. He had his first appointment with a...

doctors

frustration

money

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bluidkiti Do Doctors Just Want our Money? I certainly have felt that way sometimes especially with our dentist. I have had to pay money for cleanings when cleanings are suppose to be free with our insurance. My husband has been going to see them about every 3 months for...

15 Sep 10

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Do you buy branded stuff or think that it is better value for money ?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 15 Sep 10

[i]These days lot of people like to buy branded stuff- be it shoes, travel items, clothes or anything for that matter. Most of these branded items come with a huge price tag . No doubt that the quality is good in most cases but...

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bluidkiti It just depends on what I am buying. For shoes, because of the size of my feet and how wide they are, I usually go with brand shoes because they last much longer. Clothes I buy either. Usually though anything that I buy brand name is on sell and I have a...

15 Sep 10

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Do you workout for your self.

kartiknaiduk @kartiknaiduk (275) • India 15 Sep 10

I guess not. Most of the people do not workout for their own physic and health. Any physical activity that would sweat you up is a good workout for your body. There are many easy ways that could be achieved. But we are so lazy to...

health

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bluidkiti I workout for myself. I like to walk, dance and swim. Those are the most enjoyable things to do for exercise to me. I haven't been swimming in a long time. I really need to get back into walking again. I plan to do that soon. I do dance some with my youngest...

15 Sep 10

Red meat aswell as white meat,fresh meat is better.

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 15 Sep 10

We have decided that we would buy a whole lamb from the butchers in town the other day and have it cut in the way that we wanted it cut,also that it was a fresh lamb,unlike what they sell prepacked in the shops.You have less...

butchers

fresh lamb

saves money in the long run

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bluidkiti We eat red and white meat. I have found it tastes better if you cook it the same day but I don't go to the grocery store everyday. So I buy alot and freeze it. I go through my deep freezer ever so often to check the dates on stuff and go ahead and cook up what...

15 Sep 10

Best Friend

kerriisthebest @kerriisthebest (448) • United States 15 Sep 10

Do you have a best friend? Where did you meet them? I have a wonderful best friend. We met at college, but the weird thing is we never really talked or hung out there. When college was done and I went on with my life I was talking...

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bluidkiti My mom is my best friend. When I was in my teens, we use to hang out together and go places together. She has always been here for me whenever through whatever. I can call her and we will spend hours talking on the phone. I live about an hour and a half from...

15 Sep 10

Relatives and friends asking " When are you going to get married?

jennbart @jennbart (1330) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

I am single, my 2 other siblings are married already now, relatives and friends are asking me when I will be next in line for marraige. What's up with that? Can't they just mind their own #@$^%#!!! business? Its a personal...

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bluidkiti People use to ask my husband and that all the time when we were going together. I had gone together and lived together for almost six years before we finally got married. When we were asked, we would usually respond with not many people would know because when...

15 Sep 10

looking like not your age.

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

Does everyone tell that you seem younger or older than you really are? Are you frequently asked to show your ID to prove your age? For some people, this is a blessing. But for other people, it's a headache.people that you meet in...

look and age

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bluidkiti I have had many people tell me I look and act younger than my actual age. Basically, I just try to stay out of the sun. The sun can add to aging your skin. I see to many people who are in the sun alot have their skin look leathery when they get older. If you...

15 Sep 10

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I do not think that people can have a good relationship without trust

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 14 Sep 10

I think that people either trust each other in a relationship,or there is no point.My husband trusts me 100%,mind you who can blame him,as everytime i use to go out it was always with either two of my friends to meet up with...

total trust

trust

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bluidkiti Trust is very important in any relationship. Love and trust are the foundation. I trust my husband. I feel he trusts me. We did have at one time in our lives where we cheated on each other. That was many years ago. It took time to build that trust back again...

15 Sep 10

can you have time to spend for reading everyday..?

sinaj292 @sinaj292 (602) • India 15 Sep 10

now our life is become so fast ....no one having any time to waist with their busy life.. all are having very busy life ...... earlier it was not like this... all were getting amble time to read and write... but now the scene...

everyday

reading

time

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bluidkiti I go to the library on occasion and check out several books to read. I usually read after dinner in the evenings. I also read before I go to sleep. I keep my book by my bed so if I wake up during the night, I can pick it up to read which helps me to go back to...

15 Sep 10