bmjut247

@bmjut247 (171)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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how did you find your perfect match...???

meera88 @meera88 (737) • India 8 Mar 07

well....lets share our stories about how we found our perfect match.....how we fell in love.....letz share our experience....

love

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bmjut247 i'm afraid that there can never be a perfect match for anyone, or in any case, for that matter. nothing that exists could ever be considered perfect. its all in the mind. hmm... just give it a thought...

8 Mar 07

Should I let an ex-husband back into my life after he cheated on me..??

carolmil123 @carolmil123 (115) • United States 7 Mar 07

I had a lot of pain while he was sneaking around with this younger woman. She used to call me and demand that I give him a divorce. I told her she was welcome to him and I gave him the divorce. After less than a year, he is back...

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bmjut247 everything is relative. it's entirely up to you. no one here can answer you and be responsible for it. you should choose on your own. it's good to seek advice but in the end, it is you... or should i say, it's up to your appraisal.

8 Mar 07

Public Display of Affection

shekharj @shekharj (296) • India 15 Feb 07

one day i was walking down the street with my uncle. on the way there was a park. uncle, being a newcomer to the place ( it's delhi where i stay, he came here for some days ) told me that he want to visit the park. both of us went...

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bmjut247 everything is relative. we can't simply judge people for what they do. i'll go for their reason on why they do it. after knowing that, then i'll discern whether or not it is justifiable or not.

15 Feb 07

The Problems with Girls:

Anthony_R @Anthony_R (98) • India 15 Feb 07

If you TREAT her nicely,she says you are IN LOVE with her; If you don`t,she says you are PROUD; If you DRESS nicely,she says you are trying to LURE her; If you don`t,she says you are from VILLAGE; If you ARGUE with her,she...

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bmjut247 hahahaha. i find your post to be very funny. ^__^ very well stated. but no matter how much we laugh at it, we cannot escape the facet of human relations (well, that is, viewing it from the male standpoint, and i don't know the otherwise).

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Child Adaption How to convince your mate?

dreym66 @dreym66 (45) • Philippines 15 Feb 07

If you are married and suddenly you and your mate found out that both of you are not capable of having a child. Other hope will be adopting child but your mate doesn't agree with you. What would you do to convince her/him?

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bmjut247 hmm... i guess the best way is to convince him through justifiable reason. you can't simply force someone to do something like that, since it is something that may affect their lives in general. you should make him/her understand why you would want to adopt a...

15 Feb 07

I'm sick of Valentine's Day. Are you?

Tesa @xphile777 (427) • United States 14 Feb 07

I'm single, but I'm not sick of Valentine's Day only because it's a reminder that I don't have love in my life. I'm also sick of it because every year I hear the same friggin' news report that explains studies have shown lonliness...

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bmjut247 hahahaha. i think that's funny. it seems people tend to take this sort of thing to a new level every time an over-rated event occurs. oh well, everything is relative. it is up to you to decide if this sort of things stand to reason so as to become so...

15 Feb 07

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the Bible says I will go to hell

Anakata2007 @Anakata2007 (1785) • Canada 14 Feb 07

I'm concerned about this because I'v recently started reading the bible and there are so many things that I'v done that will cause me to go to hell when I die. Even though I think I am a good kindhearted, loving compassionate...

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bmjut247 everything is relative - you are what you are. the bible should not be taken too literally, as it wouldn't pass the test of rational thinking and reason. though the bible would help you in creating an order of discipline, it would still fail to prove anything...

15 Feb 07

Do you believe in eternal fire of hell?

achyuta @achyuta (2851) • United States 14 Feb 07

According to me this eternal fire theory is crazy. Think about this. If a son is disobedient does a father throw him away for eternity or burn him in fire? NO. How can the all merciful Lord do that. it is all the bogus propaganda...

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bmjut247 hmm... i admire your courage for being bold enough. but just like you, i can't accept the notion about hell. but i just wonder how you came to be bold enough to post such post. as you know, there are a lot of "die hard" fanatics out there. i don't think its...

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What have you really learnt from your past relationships?

totalearnings @totalearnings (1603) • India 14 Feb 07

Although i am into relationship for a decade now and going to celebrate another aniversary soon i keep on thinking what i have learnt from my past relationship. i was trying to ask my friends who equally have experience. but the...

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bmjut247 everything is relative. what may be true to you may not be true for your partner. using relativism again, what may be reasonable for you may not be reasonable for your partner. also, too much expectations would not do you any good. ^__^ cheers!

14 Feb 07

Why Are Women Willing To Sleep With The Ancient Or Ugly?

Ravendon @Ravendon (47) • United States 13 Feb 07

Women seem, to me, to be willing to sleep with the oldest and ugliest people. Whereas, men seem to be unable to get themselves to sleep with ancient or ugly women. Is this something biological or environmental? It can't be...

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bmjut247 like i always say, everything is relative. we can't really know what each individual's motives are. every person has their own reason for doing things. we, as audiences, may be unable to grasp the whole picture. ^__^

13 Feb 07

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Life is like a box of chocolates.....

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 13 Feb 07

Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get. I think that saying is very true. I love to live my life not knowing what tomorrow will bring. And you??

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bmjut247 everything is relative. what is true for one person may not be acceptable for another. i don't think creating analogies for "life" barely depict, if not fail to depict, anything about life itself. ^__^

13 Feb 07

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myLot Payout Restrictions!

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 12 Feb 07

I found it very interesting to see that there is a list of the counrties where myLot members do not get paid for participating. I do understand why perhaps Iran and Irag members do not get paid but I was really surprised at a few...

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bmjut247 it may be that the payment service (through paypal, etc.) may not be able to cover such countries. that would consequently limit the business boundaries of mylot. aside from that, it may be that some other reasons like cost.

13 Feb 07

Common Sense is not very Common !!!

silverflower @silverflower (519) • Pakistan 12 Feb 07

Hi guys, I have seen many people who just do not have common sense. They just talk idiotically. If We ask them about something, the answer would be about some other thing . They just don't know about very common things. That is...

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bmjut247 we can't judge things or people hastily. first off, everything is relative. what may be "common" knowledge to you, may not be "common" for others. and what may be common for them may not be common for you. two, what is common sense anyway? no one has ever...

12 Feb 07

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Do you like St. Valentine day?

carlomeno @carlomeno (1085) • Italy 12 Feb 07

I think that it is only a commercial day and I do not like it. My wife (luckily) agrees with me. St. Valentine should be all te year long for 2 lovers. It is like Christmas. There is not to be good with the others only for...

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bmjut247 hmm... i can't see any reason why valentine's day should make any difference with any other day. if you say that it should be for a complete year, then why not discard the notion about valentines day and simply live up each day as a regular day by loving your...

12 Feb 07

5 Secret Ways to Show Your Love to Your Partner!

lena2000 @lena2000 (2392) • Belgium 12 Feb 07

Five overlooked ways to show your significant other how much you truly love them. Enlarge ImageThere are many ways to express love to your partner other than quoting the actual words "I Love You." Usually the fire in...

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bmjut247 hmm... i think some of those are pretty old-fashioned. though i would like to commend the person who posted this topic. however, things are not always so simple as to contain them with such methodologies, especially if we consider individual differences....

12 Feb 07

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