bojangles88

@bojangles88 (649)

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should I work away for the summer?

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 17 Jun 08

It's summertime and my exams are coming to an end (yey!) and so i need to start thinking about a full time job for the summer. My options are staying in town and getting a full time job in a bar (because that's what i enjoy) or...

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Men - want what they can't have??

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 24 May 08

So my query is - is this true that men want what they can't have? Do they just go after the chase, and then lose interest once it's in their sights - or once they have it? Ive been thinking about this recently because Ive just...

On the first date...

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 23 May 08

So presumably we've all had these.... First dates. Usually the source of anxiety, excitement or plain fear?! well I went on a first date on Monday, and for once I have to admit that I wasn't that anxious at all! I've been friends...

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Living with your ex.

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 23 May 08

Who has been in this situation before? Or have you known experiences that others close to you have had? Has it come about because of divorce, waiting to sell a property, convenience, or maybe they've refused to move...

Where in South Africa?

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 18 May 08

Hey people, for those of you who have been to South Africa rather than just want to... Where have you been? Or have you lived there? Where did you like the best? I've been along the garden Route, spending a lively New Year on...

africa

south africa

travel

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Working for Minimum Wage?

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 15 May 08

I am! Who else out there works for minimum wage? Has your country even got a national minimum wage, and what is it? Also what is your job? I'm a bartender in a nightclub and I get £5.05 per hour. What do you think about getting...

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isabel allende books?

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 15 May 08

Which of her books have you read? Do you like her, and which is your favourite? I've nearly finished Daughter of Fortune, which is the first of hers I've read. I like her style, though I'm not finding it as addictive as I'd...

fun charity work!

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 14 May 08

It seems a little commercialised - fun charity work, but it does work! Because we enjoy doing it and money is still raised from people in need. What do you think? Oxfam is great for innovation - they do the gifts unwrapped, where...

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9 star rating!

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 14 May 08

I just discovered I had gone up to a 9 star rating this morning! Who else pays attention to their rating? Am I right to think the rating is due to the number of +'s and -'s you get from postings? Who else checks their rating...

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Is texting cheating?!

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 14 May 08

Ok so I split up with my boyfriend last night and afterwards he promptly went and read the text messages on my phone - turns out he'd been suspicious I'd cheated on him with this certain guy - and he found texts confirming I liked...

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Luderitz, Namibia anyone? It's a great place!

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 13 May 08

If that's a no from people out there, then go! Namibia is a gorgeous place, absolutely stunning. And Luderitz is a small isolated town in the middle of the desert and on the sea in the west of the country. Go!

Do I dump him?!

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 12 May 08

I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and he lives with me and my mum. We've been arguing for a while now - mainly just snapping at small things, yet the other day we spoke about it and since he's been as nice as pie. But...

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Vampire weekend fans?

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 10 May 08

So we have a space for Vampire Weekend here on Mylot yet no-one will claim to be a fan! Who likes them, and what is your favourite song? Have you seen them live? I going to see them at Glastonbury next month!

which DVD tonight?

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 4 May 08

It's a sunday and I think that calls for a good film. But which DVD should I watch tonight. I need to watch Motorcycle Diaries before I give it back to a friend this week, Constant Gardner which I bought ages ago and STILL haven't...

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best bits of bartending

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 3 May 08

so... why do you work behind a bar? What makes it beter than other possible jobs...? For me it's mainly the atmosphere - I can dance/sing along as I'm serving etc. and some nights can have a good time - and get good tips. It's...

overplayed??

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 2 May 08

Do you just love chasing cars but think that maybe just maybe its been played way too much? I'd just love to listen to it now, but I won't because I'll end up hating it lol. Anyone else think it's a shame that this happens to...

chasing cars

music

snow patrol

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Chilis live!

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 1 May 08

Who's seen them live? Was it a disappointment? I was supposed to see them live at Leeds Festival last year, but I couldn't stay for the Sunday night die to other arrangments and was so so gutted to miss them! Though I was later...

red hot chili peppers

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Did he really do it??

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 1 May 08

So the age old debate - do you think he really killed all those people? The first few times I watched it I took it for granted that he had, now I rewatched it the other day and I'm having my doubts... Your thoughts?

american psycho

christian bale

films

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coloured belt..?

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 1 May 08

Hey there, calling any kickboxers...? If there are in fact any of you out there, do you have a belt or ranking at all? I used to kickbox, but I haven't for over a year now (but I will definitely pick it back up!) and it took me...

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What's in the case?

bojangles88 @bojangles88 (649) 1 May 08

I know what I think it is, and I have good reason too - but what about you? Do you have theories of your own - or did you read it somewhere... Have you guess or are their clues in the film. Let me know what you think :)

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