bonnieblue80

@bonnieblue80 (77)

United States • Age 44

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i hate to go shopping during a bad weather,sepcially in rainny day!!

noquite0325 @noquite0325 (473) • China 1 May 09

the crowds,the raining,the wet circumstance,that really make me feel so bad!i even have no interest in shopping.not to choose this certain day to go out,but there is sth i must have done,so there is no chance to escape the bad...

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bonnieblue80 I too dislike going out in the rain. Nothing more annoying than ending up soaking wet while doing errands. However there is something worse than just being wet, being cold and wet. If I am cold and wet at the same time, (as both annoy me separately) I become...

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Have you seen any movie Twice in Theater?

navonly @navonly (901) • India 29 Apr 09

There are many movie lovers in this world, who not only watch any movie twice but may be they go for the same movie in theaters for 6 to 7 times. Till now Titanic is the movie for which I have visited movie theater for 4 times....

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bonnieblue80 I saw Titanic 4 times at the movies, only because I went with different people. I did see Return of the Jedi like 8 times, but that was when it first came out in the 80's and I was like 5 or 6...lol The last movie I watched at the movies theater was The...

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People Of Color

CatsandDogs @CatsandDogs (13963) • United States 27 Apr 09

Now this is NOT to offend ANYBODY however, if I word something that doesn't sound right, by all means, let me know and I want to apologize if I do. I'm only telling what I've heard or read (closed...

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bonnieblue80 Can I first clarify that Abraham Lincoln never owned slaves. His wife Mary Todd came from a slave-owning family in Kentucky. However, most of our founding fathers did. I would venture to say that many of the dark skinned people who descended from former...

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there is no other way

willy6 @willy6 (498) • Jamaica 27 Apr 09

Jesus is the way and there is no other way that we can be saved. The bible says that, I am the way the truth and the life no man commeth unto the father but by me. The devil always present himself before us to confused us, but we...

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bonnieblue80 I'm not planning on going to the Christian's heaven. It seems like an extremely boring place, standing around praising this all to human like deity who isn't really all seeing, all knowing, or all powerful. Nope. Not for me. I have to wonder, if people...

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Are there times that you spend big amount of money without your partner's ....

Bebs08 @Bebs08 (10681) • United States 27 Apr 09

knowledge? what I mean is you use the money in your joint account without letting your partner know where you spend the money? and it is a big amount ha? there are some of the spouses husband or wife who spend big amount of money...

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bonnieblue80 I don't account for every penny spent out of our mutual account. But, the down side is that when hubby has access to the money and does the same thing (not knowing any specific amount was for bills.) All larger purchases -- single items over $100 -- must be...

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A walk around campus, could you make it?

fwidman @fwidman (11514) • United States 28 Oct 08

I came across this story this morning in my email and wanted to share it and see your opinions on it: [b]ORLANDO, Fla. (UPI) -- Several male students at the University of Central Florida say they now empathize with women after...

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bonnieblue80 That's pretty funny. I could walk around a campus in heels, I wear heels all the time...course I am a chick, so that would explain it. High heels that are the pointy types aren't really that hard to walk it, it just takes practice and a conscious effort to...

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Am I the only one left that washes dishes by hand?

Rocketj1 @rocketj1 (6955) • United States 27 Oct 08

We have moved many times in the years we've been married (18 years) In fact, we moved 7 times in the first 11 years of marriage (we've stayed put now for 7). In all these moves, we have never lived anywhere that had a dishwasher....

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bonnieblue80 Been with my hubby for 10 years, and of the few places we have lived, we have never had a dishwasher installed. We have two children who are just getting to an age where they can reach the sink well enough to do the dishes ( 9 and 7)so eventually I won't be...

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Do you need complete attention while driving?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 26 Oct 08

I am the type of driver that I need complete silence when I am driving. I hate music or radio as they distract me from driving. However my son always try to bring a deep conversation and ask a lot of questions while I am driving...

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bonnieblue80 I think it completely depends on the driving situation. If I am in heavy traffic on a busy 4 lane highway, then I don't like anyone talking to me or any music playing. Same goes for large cities with massive traffic issues and when I am looking for someplace I...

26 Oct 08

Is love more important than friendship?

yshashikant @yshashikant (401) • India 25 May 08

Heloo all my friends here there always have been this one questin in my mind: is love more important to you than your friends. i actually had a real life situation when i had to choose one of the two and i really got stuck as in...

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bonnieblue80 There are only to reasons for a female friend to want a guy friend to break up with his girlfriend: 1. She has a crush on the guy and is jealous of the girl. 2. She can see the kind of person that the girlfriend is clearly and she doesn't like her at all and...

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How to say goodbye to the one you love???

o2bfree @o2bfree (225) • United States 11 Feb 08

First want to say hello to everyone ; ) Obviously I am at a loss on this subject or I wouldn't be posting.... I met a man 4 yrs ago right after my divorce. Fell madly in love with him only to find out he couldn't love me the way...

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bonnieblue80 It sounds like you really need just some time alone with you and your child. Get out of the relationship dance for at least six months, maybe even a year. You've been divorced ( so obviously the first marriage was not so good), you've been on and off with...

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Dead Bodies displayed as Art?

petebaja @petebaja (516) • Mexico 15 Feb 08

Did you hear that they are displaying actual dead bodies posed in athletic positions as an art display in New York? I don't know where exactly, but I did hear that the Attorney General of New York is starting an investigation....

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bonnieblue80 I think it is a really cool procedure and would totally go see it live. I have seen some of his exhibits on tv shows and thought it was a really inventive way to preserve bodies. If you go to his website you can sign up to donate your body to his project....

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Divorce?????

lynnchua @lynnchua (3412) • Singapore 15 Feb 08

Why is it why you are marrying someone and you say "till death do us part" and when realtionship turn sour you say 'divorce' is the only option?

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bonnieblue80 When many people get married they fail to really know their spouse or themselves before hand. Many people jump into getting married without really knowing what marriage is, because they lacked good role models for what a good marriage is. Many people are...

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Forgive and Forget!!!

micaella @micaella (396) • Philippines 16 Feb 08

Are you the type of person who can easily forgive and forget, if you found out someones steeling the heart of your loveone? That your partner involved to someone else? Can you give your understanding and just forget everything...

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bonnieblue80 Forgiveness is something we give, forgetting is something we do within ourselves. To me it would totally depend on if the cheating spouse really wanted forgiveness, or if they were just too much of a coward to end the relationship. There are three reasons...

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How do you get your articles viewed at helium

Lovely Gifts with JewelScent @lovespecialangel (3632) • United States 15 Feb 08

I am new to helium and have only written two articles there. I am trying to learn every thing I need to know about the site, but I still have questions. Do you earn more by how many times your article is read? How does it really...

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bonnieblue80 Yes, we earn fractions of a penny every time someone views our article. The more views the more money the article makes. The Google Ad sense ads that are on the page with our article is what we get a fraction of. If you take a look at the community...

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When you are made to wait by someone, how do you feel?

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58678) • Delhi, India 14 Feb 08

Suppose you have some prior appointment with any of your near and dear ones or say with your partner. You are supposed to meet him/her at a particular place and time. You reach at that decided place well in time, but you find that...

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bonnieblue80 After having a slower than dirt husband and kids...I have learned patience. I hardly ever get impatient when waiting in lines, in traffic, or for people. Generally, I partake in people watching or thinking and hardly notice the time. There is the...

15 Feb 08

As a parent, does the Army's "You make them strong, we make them Army strong"

sedel1027 @sedel1027 (17846) • Cupertino, California 11 Feb 08

commercial bother you? This commercial really rubs me the wrong way every time I hear that tag line. My husband says that I am probably the only person bothered by the commerical.

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bonnieblue80 I usually laugh at the Army commercials. I have a nephew who is in the Army and frankly the Army offers very little in the way of making boys into men. Now the Marine commercials...the few, the proud, the Marines...well now that is a good slogan. I have...

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What's causing this to wear away?

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 14 Feb 08

Okay I have a Mr.Coffee auto drip coffee maker. Now as you can see in the attatched photo the warming plate has worn out spots. The machine is just over a year old. It does get used a lot in this house making maybe 5 to 10 pots a...

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bonnieblue80 The lower quality the coffee maker the faster the warming plate wears out. I probably replace our house hold coffee maker once a year or so. I have had coffee makers from the $12 range through the $65 end, and frankly the cheaper ones the warming plate...

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She says that she is a queen.

sheenshaukat @sheenshaukat (2617) • Pakistan 14 Feb 08

“I am queen. I am master and you all are my slaves. I can kill you. I will never die.” These are a few sentences I quoted her as an example. These sentences use to deliver a girl living nearby our home. He mother says that some...

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bonnieblue80 Yep, psychological issues would definitely explain statements like this. I don't know how old this girl is, but it sounds like she has control issues. Probably brought on by an overly controlling parent/s. It is just part of acting out, especially if...

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