buccha

@buccha (59)

Philippines • Age 34

Joined myLot 14 years ago

Relax and everything will follow

Responses (27)

buccha's Responses

who would you rather talk to?

chilango36 @chilango36 (20) • Mexico 4 Apr 10

would you sometimes feel more comfortable talking to a complete stranger about your problems rather that someone who you are very close to?

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buccha I feel comfortable when talking to strangers but not totally like you just met the person for the first time then you start talking, strangers like a friend of a friend or a relative whom you are not really close to. I feel so easy with them, they give you the...

4 Apr 10

well its best to be agood listner than to---??

umit_umit @umit_umit (1984) • India 26 Mar 10

well i have known that its best to be agood listner than to devulge out your views which can turn the tables against you as one cant generalize anything and comment a view!as one may have good for you and you form a wrong...

form aview

good lostner

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buccha Being a listener has its good and bad side but it all depends on the person, person like me love to listen and try to give your best opinion after the conversation, most people tend to disrupt a conversation even if its not finish and give their conclusion...

4 Apr 10

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do you listen when your parents give you sermons?

werty009 @werty009 (404) • Philippines 4 Apr 10

well in my everyday living sometime my mom and dad give some lesson and pointers in life whenever i do something or things that they get mad or it get them irritated like for example i watch tv and then my mom tells me to wash the...

listen

sermons

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buccha Sermons or reasoning are the weapon of choice that our parents use against us whenever they want this to happen or they want us to do, but sometimes I know its super irritating just telling us to do this and to do that over and over again like a never ending...

4 Apr 10

How do you relax?

angelblue @angelblue (82) • Vietnam 3 Apr 10

I relax by sitting in the backyard under the gazebo, listening to music, usually with a drink and watching the wildlife (birds and squirrels fight over the birdseed^^). HOw do you relax? Let share your experience!

how do relax

relax

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buccha I like this discussion, listening to other people is usually relaxing for me, even if they rare voicing out their problems I can still take time to like listening to them but not forgetting to give my advice or opinion, when I'm alone I usually listen to music...

4 Apr 10

Are you a good listener, you might just jump into conclusion

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 3 Apr 10

Sometimes, I would like to listen to people finish the whole conversation, and thought a little bit about it before I can give it my opinion. But for some people, they might simply jump into conclusion before the conversation...

listen

opinion

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buccha I like listening more than talking, for me I think I am a good listener and I think listening to other people is kinda relaxing, knowing their insights on a thing about love, hate, school and other things its kinda fun actually, I seldom like to listen to...

4 Apr 10

If I died today

nothing2009 @nothing2009 (22) • China 4 Apr 10

"If I died today,how would I feel about my life?" Life is fragile. We really don't know how many days or years we will live.An accident ,such as by plane,automobile,or other mishap could claim our life.Or perhaps,an usual...

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buccha People are scared to die because of not the subject of dying but they are thinking they are not prepared to die, they did not yet fulfill any of their dreams or goals, they think that what would happen to the people that I would be leaving, can they live...

4 Apr 10

Why do girls want to be friends after a breakup, whereas guys generally don't?

eddyspaghetti @eddyspaghetti (1225) • United States 3 Apr 10

Have you noticed that more girls want to be friends after a breakup, but guys tend to want to just end the relationship and have nothing to do with the girl afterward? Why is that? Why do they just want to cut off communication...

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buccha Yeah I notice that too, after a break up they go all too friendly with you as if nothing happened which can be hurtful to a guy because they would think that the relationship can be salvage and everything will be okay but at the end the girl just wanted to be...

4 Apr 10

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What do girls think is the best way for a guy to approach them?

eddyspaghetti @eddyspaghetti (1225) • United States 3 Apr 10

Do pick up lines work? Or should a guy just genuinely approach a girl and start a conversation? Some girls say that just saying "Hi" is better than trying up pull a pick up line on them. What does a guy have to do in order for him...

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buccha People this days are like they want to be someone else their not, in approaching a girl for me just saying hi is alright ,I mean you don't need any pick up line to start a conversation, just ask anything and everything will follow through, just like the guy...

4 Apr 10

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Rant about parents...

fallingfan @fallingfan (445) • United States 3 Apr 10

This ought to help a lot of mylotters. :) Here is a place for you to let all your angry feelings you may have towards your parents out! I hate when my parents have favorites (which is pretty much all the time). I hate that my...

parents

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buccha Sometimes I feel that way but I appreciate them because they are doing their best to give everything to us, I mean we only got one of them so why don't we just love of whom they are, someday we will become parents and this things will also be said by our child...

4 Apr 10

student

nirmalabhanu @nirmalabhanu (10) • India 3 Apr 10

After about two months of summer vacation our school reopened.After a long relax of two months in habit to woke late in morning, I got early in the morning.I took my breakfast and left for the school.The school was to open at 9...

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buccha Yeah, first day of class is the coolest, meeting old and new friends, seeing old and new terror teachers, and seeing old and new people.

3 Apr 10

Why do bad things happen to good people?

eddyspaghetti @eddyspaghetti (1225) • United States 2 Apr 10

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buccha I have been wondering about this also, I mean I see good people who do everything right but bad things follow them, I mean whats up with that, I also notice bad people who just do what they want and do not consider if it is good or bad but it seems nothing bad...

3 Apr 10

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They didn't feel shame when they say i have a 4 BF/GF till now..?

siliguri @siliguri (4241) • India 3 Apr 10

Very thrilling by seeing the post..i have a 3 bf/gf..it is game for them..for changing their spouse time to time..and hurting them.. they have to pay for this..in future..be careful...for the upcoming difficulties..Hello mylotters...

timepass

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buccha Yeah,uhm people who are like this are somehow like a player or being played by other people, but we can't blame them because sometimes if your not happy or your partner is not happy how can the relationship last?, but i think if the issue can just be solve...

3 Apr 10

TENNIS Fans UNITE: who do you think will win Miami?

jaydex22 @jaydex22 (20) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

ok, the tournament in Miami just started..but who do you think will win it? for me its either Nadal or Fed for the mens.. i'm quite undecided for the womens side..Venus maybe..

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buccha This is depressing Roger federer lost to world number 16 Thomas berdych of u.s.,it was unexpected but it was not suprising because in tennis anything can happen. my bet is on nadal or roddick.on the womens side i would go with the comeback of kim clijsters or...

1 Apr 10

You recognize whom ?

vishalkgupta @vishalkgupta (373) • India 8 Mar 10

Hi friends, I am very fond of watching tennis on the television, I only watch tennis else than cricket, we all know there were several greatest tennis players (male/female) in the history of tennis, as long as I saw the tennis I...

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buccha In the tennis world their are countless great tennis players that is worth mentioning, from rod laver to todays world number 1 no other than roger federer, i admit i think roger is the greatest of them all he seems to be all perfect in his games, his mental...

31 Mar 10

What makes mylot unique compared to other sites?

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 18 Jan 10

Actually this is the only site I know that pays us to post. It is unique for me because we can post unlimited here, answer and participate to unlimited discussions. Do you know any other sites like this? That is why it's unique...

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buccha I love this site, it pays us to be ourselves in here.Their are many discussions that i like in here.

31 Mar 10

is there a small still voice to listen within us?

jobmoone @jobmoone (442) • Philippines 25 Mar 10

I met a person that tells me if I had heard within myself a still voice that keeps saying good things for myself. a voice within me that will help indeed in times of doubting if I just listen from it. Is it really true?

listener

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buccha yeah i think its still there except we just can't hear it anymore.

31 Mar 10

Are YOu A FAn?

kherrnitz1996 @kherrnitz1996 (6) • Philippines 29 Mar 10

Hi Everyone Im A Linkin Park Fan! Here are the list of my top favorite songs: 1.Papercut 2.In THe eNd 3.One sTep cLoser 4.Given Up 5.BreAkInG ThE HaBit 6.CrawLinG 7.WiTH You 8.FoRGoTTen Lately Their songs are not...

linkin park

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buccha Im also an avid fan of linkin park since 2000 i love their songs especially the ost of transformers movie.

31 Mar 10

what have u done craziest thing in ur life?

replyashu @replyashu (745) • India 31 Mar 10

what have u done craziest thing in ur life?

crazy

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buccha when i was in high school i blew up a toilet bowl with a firecracker.

31 Mar 10