ButterflyQueen

@ButterflyQueen (44)

Canada • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Does listening to music affect your moods?

ellie333 @ellie333 (21016) 13 Apr 08

I find that if I want to get on in the house I play something really upbeat and polish to the beat of the music, if I want to cry I'll play something sad and I daren't put anything with a fast beat on in the car as I am likely to...

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ButterflyQueen i love music. It completely relaxes me when i need it. However when i am upset i hear the song differently and it worsens my mood lol So typically when i am happy, sad, angry, frustrated, or whatever my mood may be, i choose to write instead of listening to...

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Which would you choose, Money or your Principles in life?

gabrielle47 @gabrielle47 (1219) • Philippines 23 Apr 08

There were times were we are caught in a dilemma where we need to think about the principles we stand for and believe. Most of the time, we are caught to choose between principles and money. In my last job, I was tested with...

choice

dignity

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ButterflyQueen As a single mother i agree with you on the principles, if we take money over principles then what are we teaching our kids ? that we live in a greedy world and we should teach every boy and girl to earn as much as they possibly can so they can spend it...

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Should there be capital punishment in Canada?

Esoteric1 @Esoteric1 (863) • Canada 18 Apr 08

Here in Canada we abolished capital punishment in 1976, and replaced it with a mandatory life sentence without the possibility of parole for 25 years. Our military continued handing out death sentences in the worst but rarest...

canada

capital punishment

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ButterflyQueen I totally think that the death pentalty should be brought back here in Canada! I believe that a person who commits a murder should die the same way. If anyone goes to jail for hurting other people, they should have done what they did to the other person!

18 Apr 08

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The Innocent Time, I lost

xiaosanyct @xiaosanyct (8) • China 18 Apr 08

Have you ever felt that time is moving so fast, that things around you is changing so much? Have you ever felt so lost that you don't know where to go? Recently,my moom showed me a photos of myself when iIwas young.When I looked...

the innocent time

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ButterflyQueen i always think that time is moving so fast. I have a 6 year old child and i am only 24. i look at her and wonder where the heck the time has gone. I am so caught up in the moment of my daughter and enjoying every little thing that she does that when i turn...

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Do your kids have set chores?

above31rubies @above31rubies (1863) • United States 18 Apr 08

What are they and what ages are you kids...? Do they have a set routine of when they have to do it? What if they don't do it? I do not have a set routine here- I am terrible about consistently making sure they've done them. My...

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ButterflyQueen my daughter is now 6, but she has had her own chore chart since she was about 2 1/2. I strongly believe that children should have chores! Seeing my daughter and seeing my friends children that do not have chores i can see the difference and i believe that...

18 Apr 08

Do you REALLY look at yourself? What do you see?

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 18 Apr 08

I have been trying to see myself from the eyes of a stranger. REALLY look at myself. I smile at myself and am trying to be a really happy person. I want to like what I see! This lady didn't! quote "Visiting...

modern art

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ButterflyQueen it is hard to manipulate the mind. However writing affrimations and reading it a few times a day does help. it will not happen over night and it will not take a week. But the more you work on it and keep saying outloud to yourself, that you are beautiful and...

18 Apr 08

i love Playing guitar

Stubbornpunkk @Stubbornpunkk (52) • India 9 Apr 08

guitar is my essense well some people call it the way to express there souls and why not when music is a way to express yourselves then guitar is its sourse lol..no right? hehe.. -_- though m just a beginner but i'm sure lots...

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ButterflyQueen i completely agree.... for people who do not know musical intruments or do not have that "ear" for music then they will never understand what you are talking about. Just like people who write poetry or do self mutilation... music is a creative, healthy,...

18 Apr 08

plays Guitar with his feet!!

rombi001 @rombi001 (941) 18 Apr 08

I'm sorry for adding this topic for the second time.. but I forgot to add the link to the first one... How stupid of me.. Well check this out if you watch to see someone play the guitar with his feet and sing at the same...

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ButterflyQueen i think that it is amazing to see people with extrodinary talents. For those people who never accomplish much in their life... it shows them that nothing is impossible. If you want it that bad and you try with everything you have got then it can be done. Do...

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The Mozart effect

musicfen @musicfen (31) • Romania 18 Apr 08

It is often said that Mozart's music can actually make your brain function better , or at least some components of intellectual function . This concept was first described by French researcher, Dr. Tomatis in a book "pourqoui...

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ButterflyQueen i totally believe it. If you have an ear for music... you will be amazed at what you hear underneath the melodies! It is like having a conversation with somebody, but on a more intellectual level i suppose!

18 Apr 08

Ugh! Lice! Nasty little critters!

CanadaGal @CanadaGal (4304) • Canada 15 Apr 08

My house has its first ever case of head lice. Considering that my older son is almost 9 years old now, and the twins just turned 7 years old, and all of them have been exposed to it in school many times over, I guess we're not...

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ButterflyQueen OMG lice.... i hate lice!!!!!!!! My daughter had it and we suffered for over a year struggling to get rid of it. I shampooed my house and our heads and everything but it would not leave!!!!! FINALLY i used some conditioner from the dollarstore.... i let it on...

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Do You Know What the Leading Cause of Death is in your state or province,

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 13 Apr 08

I am sitting here watching the news as I type. I live in Quebec, Canada. The leader cause of death is cancer. It is expected that one out of every two people will get some kind of cancer in their lifetime here in Quebec, not all...

leading cause of death

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ButterflyQueen Cancer.... smoking related illnesses

13 Apr 08

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Do women really fall in LUV?

dus2007 @dus2007 (37) • India 13 Apr 08

This one is an extension of my discussion "Do men really fall in LUV?" While most of the men show interest in women only to have their desires fulfilled there are few who really love their beloved and stay with her for their...

women n love

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ButterflyQueen I never used to believe in love. Then it hit me in the face and knocked me out! lol I used to be the type of girl that said love was over rated and i would never fall in love or get married, then i got married, and divorced, after my divorce i did not think i...

13 Apr 08

Why does this happen???

SweetVanillaKisses @SweetVanillaKisses (173) • Canada 12 Apr 08

My friend and refferee StrawberryKisses seems to have been blocked from posting on mylot. She can sign into mylot but cannot post, reply to ask Mylot staff for help while logged in. Has this happened to anyone???? MyLot hasn't...

help

strawberrykisses blocked out

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ButterflyQueen has not happened to me ! lol

13 Apr 08

Do Yo Write Letters Anymore?

sunkissed @sunkissed (4330) • United States 13 Apr 08

Do you ever write letters anymore? It is very seldome that I ever write a letter now days.Most people have computors and I will e-mail them, it is much easier, and cheaper too. I do have one friend that lives 1,000 miles away, she...

letters

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ButterflyQueen I write letters all the time. My mother is dead and i still write her letters. Some people get my letters and others don't. it all depends on what i had to say and my state of mind when i wrote the letter.

13 Apr 08

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