cajunmomma

@cajunmomma (624)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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My idea of marriage, get stable first!

deodavid @deodavid (4150) • Philippines 29 Mar 12

Hello there lotters, I have this idea of marriage and i think in hard times like we have right now it is important that we think of our future ahead. Marriage should be between to people in love and are compatible to each other...

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cajunmomma I agree that you should at least have yourself somewhat stable before you jump into a relationship. Make sure you have yourself taken care of. If I could go back and do over, I would definitely have been more strict about saving. I would also have been working...

29 Mar 12

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Self absorbed father in law

ImmortalKitsune @ImmortalKitsune (152) • United States 3 Mar 12

My father in law is, to put it nicely, kind of a jerk. He's always making promises he never follows through on, so we don't even believe him anymore when he tells us he's going to do something. He told us he was going to get us a...

family

father in law

question

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cajunmomma My father-in-law is sort of like this. He used to take my oldest over nite almost once a month. He has taken our second child a nite or two. Now our kids never see their grand parents on my husbands side. We have not heard from them since christmas and our...

29 Mar 12

Don't cheat

Nami NV @mayflowerhorn76 (122) • Makati, Philippines 29 Mar 12

In a relationship, fidelity is very important. The couple should be faithful and loyal to each other. To succeed a lasting relationship you should be loyal to your partner no matter what. I strongly believe that once a cheater is...

relationships

wife

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cajunmomma This is not always true. I used to believe the same thing. However, I do have friends that have been through this and they found out that their significant other cheated the one time. However, they were skeptical. They did work through the tough times and are...

29 Mar 12

is there any legit site that is offer & surveys ETc.. that will acctualy pay

lowyder @lowyder (282) • Canada 26 Mar 12

well ive been scammed almost all times ive signed up and put my effort to the site so im wandering is there site that offer survey offers like cash crate i just have issues with that site wont let me update my password and wont...

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cajunmomma I know surveyspot.com offers surveys. Not every survey pays, but I have had a couple of payouts from them. I forgot what the amount you have to have to payout. You can check synovate and neilsen.

26 Mar 12

as early as teens got pregnant

kristinemclopez @kristinemclopez (20) 23 Mar 12

what would you say about this? who's to blame if your daughter got pregnant as early as her teens or high school life? so sad but its true, i knew someone who got pregnant and become a single parent for almost 4 years. she got...

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cajunmomma I know this is a controversial topic. I think that it is the teens to blame. They know what they are doing and there are very few who don't know or realize the consequences when they make the decision to do the deed. The dad should take responsibility. It...

26 Mar 12

cleaning is a never ending process

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 26 Mar 12

I have so much to do around the house today. I also have a lot of work to do because yesterday I basically took the day off. And my head was hurting after our trip out of town. So my husband and I watched a movie and went to bed....

cleaning

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cajunmomma My house is never in order the way I want it. I am here all the time, but unfortunately the man I married feels it is not his job to do housework, so it is left on me. I would love to have a spotless house with everything in a place, but we have too much stuff...

26 Mar 12

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Has anyone ever played Townian?

shebacs @shebacs (178) • Philippines 23 Mar 12

Hello MyLotters, has anyone here ever played Townian? Its a browser based game where you create your own town or kingdom and you can make money based on your kingdom's resources. You build everything in your kingdom, from...

browser base game

paid to play game

townian

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cajunmomma Thanks for the heads up!! I just signed up today on Townian, because of your post!

26 Mar 12

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how do you select the right tv programes for your kids?

atwilson @atwilson (540) • Indonesia 26 Mar 12

nowdays television shows violence and other things that innapropriate for our kids. As a parent or family, how do you deal with it? is there any tricks and tips? Kids are the future generation of the world. They should be well...

generation

kids

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cajunmomma I usually put Qubo, disney jr, or Nick jr on for my kids. They play only programs for their age and none of the cartoons are violent. I don't ever let my kids watch anything that I don't approve of.

26 Mar 12

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Emotional blackmail from husband...

fourjems08 @fourjems08 (550) • Philippines 15 Dec 10

The problem is already present in my marriage since the day I went to live with my husband. We quarrel almost every night and I shed tears just as the same. I have come to point of leaving my husband for a hundred times and...

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cajunmomma Leave him! No matter what he says your reasoning for leaving is, and no matter how many times you tell him that you are not happy he will say things that will make you feel totally crappy. Who cares how he feels. If you don't feel like you are loved and valued...

15 Dec 10

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How often do you use stamps?

natnickeep @natnickeep (2336) • United States 14 Dec 10

I don't ever buy stamps. Except maybe to buy Christmas cards. I do all my bills, banking and other stuff online. Just wondering how often other people buy and use stamps. I also recently started pen-paling. So I am going to try...

mail

penpal

stamps

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cajunmomma We only use stamps to sned our bills in the mail. We have recently switched 2 of our bills over to pay online which I have found it much easier.

15 Dec 10

Parents, do you worry about keeping it even?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 15 Dec 10

Most years I do try my best to ensure each kid has the same number of presents to open. I know there were a few years I couldn't get my oldest as many gifts as the younger kids.. but his gifts were pricier and things he'd like...

christmas

kids

presents

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cajunmomma I always make sure my 2 have the same amount of gifts. I find it is only fair that way. My husband didn't think anything of it when he bought our son an extra gift and I made him go out and get our daughter another gift. I think it is only fair unless one of...

15 Dec 10

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Facebook: Do you really have to check Facebook everyday? How long do you take?

Jacobus1919 @Jacobus1919 (1683) • Philippines 15 Dec 10

Hello, Before I get some shut eye. I wanted to ask the people in mylot who has facebook or who knows anyone with facebook. On how long do you guys or do they spend just tinkering with Facebook? And do you think it is a must...

facebook

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cajunmomma I check my facebook everyday. Alot of people on my list usually have something posted that makes me laugh. Plus I play alot of the apps. I could probably go without checking it, but since I have no friends to hang with where I live, it helps to keep in touch...

15 Dec 10

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Younger generations nowadays

nicregi @nicregi (1934) • Malaysia 15 Dec 10

I went to shopping mall today and I seen many youngsters (roughly less than 18 years old) holding hands and being in love. However, it just struck me to think how many of them actually understand the real meaning of love. In my...

couple at young age

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cajunmomma I think it is teenagers just being teenagers. They think they know alot and think they understand what love is, but until they are old enough realize that there are other things that come along with being in a real relationship, they don't understand. Plus,...

15 Dec 10

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Did Hubby Really Need To Do This?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 15 Dec 10

We all have disgusting habits don't we? Some more disgusting than others. Now, John's finger and toe-nails grow quite long so he has to keep cutting them with nail clippers. In fact, I have some nail clippers myself that I will...

nail clippings being left

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cajunmomma I have the same problem with my husband. I think it is disgusting. Don't go as you say "apeshit", just leave them there. He leaves them there, because he thinks you won't notice and as long as it is out of sight. I will leave them where my husband has left...

15 Dec 10

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minding one's business

figurativeme @figurativeme (1089) • Philippines 15 Dec 10

I heard it again! SIGH!!!! I heard a co-worker comment on how I look, how thin I am becoming and no amount of diversion I make could swerve her away from the topic. Why can't people just be nice or simply mind their own business?...

unwelcome comments

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cajunmomma I had this problem last year. My mom and I worked at the same job and I was losing alot of weight while working. One of the ladies that worked with my mom kept saying that I am probably anorexic, because I was losing weight so fast. I wasn't anorexic, I just...

15 Dec 10

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Have you had any problems with the changes with paypal?

peedielyn @peedielyn (1207) • United States 15 Dec 10

This is a bit of a rant and I apologize for my bad attitude. I have been signed up with paypal for some time. They have had my same account numbers (I have an H&R block card/debit) for forever. I got my payment from mylot and they...

new policy updates

paypal

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cajunmomma I haven't had any problems with paypal yet. I hope that they don't screw up me receiving any of my payments from here though.

15 Dec 10

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She is too young to get married?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 13 Dec 10

The marriage of a 14 years old girl to a 26 years old man has sparked a controversy in this predominantly Muslim country of Malaysia. The young girl told the media that it is her 'individual decision and right'. While the human...

kid bride

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cajunmomma That man should be locked up for the simple fact that he knows in his mind what it takes to be in an "adult" relationship and the 14 yr old girl does not. She might think it is fun, because she is no longer under her parents rule, but she is not prepared to...

15 Dec 10

backyard monster on facebook game.

whitestich02 @whitestich02 (1056) • Philippines 15 Dec 10

i found this new game in the facebook. and on my first game im so excited with this. i build some building and defense tower. i like this strategy game. and now im addicted with that. now i always play this backyard monster. i...

backyard monster

facebook

game

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cajunmomma I have tried that game. I liked it at first but got really bored with it after a while. I don't play it anymore, but I do play many other games on facebook!

15 Dec 10

The good things this time of the year are...

Amber @AmbiePam (93883) • United States 15 Dec 10

Decorations, giving and getting Christmas cards, food that is only made this time of the year...what is the best part of this holiday season for you? Even if you don't celebrate Christmas, is there anything you enjoy seeing or...

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cajunmomma I love being able to just be with my family and see the excitement on my kids faces! Plus, I love taking them to the parades and see santa! My parents always decorate their house and always have people passing by to see it.

15 Dec 10

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1 person

Lindsay Lohan Sues E-Trade For Baby Commerical

WriterFactor @WriterFactor (24) • United States 13 Mar 10

I think We've all heard about Lindsay lohan suing E-trade for the commercial aired during the Superbowl. If you don't know this is what happened. E-trade makes hilarious baby-talking commercials and in one which aired during the...

commercial

etrade

lindsay lohan

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cajunmomma Personally I feel that she is only suing them, because she is probably almost out of money. Especially since her movie star days as a teen are over. I think it is ridiculous that she is actually suing e-trade because of a commercial. So because of that, does...

13 Mar 10

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