candleintherain

@candleintherain (31)

Malaysia • Age 50

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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where is your favorite dating place or rendezvous?

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 3 Dec 09

when dating someone, either a friend or a loved one, where is your favorite place to go? why?

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candleintherain hello, for me, that place would be the seaside. to enjoy the sea breeze and also listen to the wind there. I also love to see either the sunset or sunrise at the seaside. A walk along the beach? Superb thing to do with my loved one.

3 Dec 09

Why do they have to be SCAMS!!!

rosepedal64 @rosepedal64 (4188) • United States 3 Dec 09

Hello mylotters I needed to share some of my hurt feelings with you. My husband had asked me what I wanted for Christmas this year. We normally don't buy for each other so this kinda took me by surprise. I thought about it for a...

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candleintherain Dear Rosepedal, So sorry to hear that you just went through such a terrible experience! Though I didnt go through a similar experience, I did go through the experience of locating a puppy of my choice and I do understand your feeling of joy and...

3 Dec 09

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Any tips on keeping glass surfaces dust free longer?

candleintherain @candleintherain (31) • Malaysia 3 Dec 09

Everytime I wipe the glass surfaces with water, I notice that they dont stay dust free as long as compared to when the professionals come and clean the same places! I wouldnt want to end up buying the chemicals these professionals...

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household

Tips on maintaining bedsheets, and reheating food

squaretile @squaretile (3778) • Singapore 2 Dec 09

Here are some tips to share! hope you enjoy them and feel free to share some of yours! Bed Sheets After drying sheets, put both sheets and one pillowcase in the other pillow case. Fold neatly in a square. Next time you change...

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candleintherain Hello! At last, a really useful tip regarding the bedsheets! Have always been hunting high and low just to get a match! A good idea there. Thanks for sharing. One tip I have that I find helps me save time with the laundry is to hang the t-shirts on hangers...

2 Dec 09

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Have you tried eating FRIED FROG, with CHILLI?

alexysabelle @alexysabelle (905) • Philippines 1 Dec 09

i have a taste o eating exotic food, though this one is not really exotic but I think is worth asking: Have you tried eating FRIED FROG with CHILI? my family used to have a rice field when i was young. edible frog thrive on...

edibe frogs

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candleintherain I have never tried fried frogs. Have tried them either stir fried in dried chilli and onions, or with spring onion and ginger slices or even in porridge! Simply Yummy! Is the meat still tender like fried chicken after the frogs are fried? They can be quite...

2 Dec 09

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How many times do you have to say I Love You?

rhyme23 @rhyme23 (44) • Philippines 1 Dec 09

In a relationship it is important to say this magic words. There are people who wants to hear it often and but for some once is enough. We all know that action speaks louder than words. But how often do we really have to tell our...

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candleintherain I love this question! I think we should tell our partners we love them whenever we feel like it. In my opinion, I dont think we can put a number to this.... perhaps the others may have a different opinion. I have a friend who ends every telephone conversation...

2 Dec 09

Don't Post Discussions in a Row...if you are a Clever..

Baluyadav @Baluyadav (3643) • India 19 Nov 09

Don't get angry,this is for your higher earnings only,the logic behind is.. You may miss responses for some of your discussions....even though members may want to give response...because the discussions are always...

miss responses

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candleintherain Thank you very much for sharing this info. Never ceases to amaze me how people can come up with discussions in a row! Takes me days to think of one. At times, by the time i want to post it, it has been posted by someone else! How do you all do that? Any tips?...

2 Dec 09

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Is it health or wealth you would like the most?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 30 Nov 09

I think that with out health you are unable to earn money so i would always put my health first.I need to be healthy to be able to earn money.But at the same time you need money to provide the right food to be healthy.

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candleintherain Hello Jugsjugs, For me, I would definitely choose health first. I believe that when your health is good, besides being able to enjoy the money you have earned, you also get to enjoy the wonderful life ahead of you, like spending time with the people you...

30 Nov 09

House husbands... anyone?

candleintherain @candleintherain (31) • Malaysia 26 Nov 09

To the guys out there, would you ever consider to be a house husband? and to the girls out there, would you mind if your spouse becomes a house husband?

house husbands

stay at home

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candleintherain hello Mylosha, Thanks for dropping by and taking time to put in a response. A house husband means the husband stays at home to do things a housewife would normally do, like cook, clean, take care of the children, etc. This also means that only the wife will...

30 Nov 09

House husbands... anyone?

candleintherain @candleintherain (31) • Malaysia 26 Nov 09

To the guys out there, would you ever consider to be a house husband? and to the girls out there, would you mind if your spouse becomes a house husband?

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candleintherain Hello Rima, Thank you for the response. Yes, i do agree with you that it is important for both husband and wife to accept their responsibilities in this.The only thing I am wondering is whether fellow male mylotters will be comfortable with the idea of being a...

30 Nov 09

House husbands... anyone?

candleintherain @candleintherain (31) • Malaysia 26 Nov 09

To the guys out there, would you ever consider to be a house husband? and to the girls out there, would you mind if your spouse becomes a house husband?

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What collectibles are you fascinated with?

larish @larish (2234) • Philippines 30 May 09

There are people who collected different things. There are toys, stamps, antiques, etc... What really fascinates me is the one I watch years ago, a man was collecting receipt from Mcdonald stores. He usually visits all mcdonald...

collections

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candleintherain Hello, I love collecting receipts and also coasters, from hotels and restaurants. I used to write a short paragraph beside each receipt but have not been able to keep up with that lately hhaha. Once, I found a receipt to a fruit farm and a receipt for a...

23 Nov 09

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What will you give yourself this christmas?

larish @larish (2234) • Philippines 23 Nov 09

Upon checking the discussions here in mylot. I often encounter the questions on what are the things we are going to give our love ones and the people around us. I just thought that, don't you think it is also the best time that we...

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candleintherain :). I hope you will get the wallet you want for Christmas. Happy Mylotting. Still new to it so am slowly learning the ropes around here :D

23 Nov 09

How to manage the in-laws ?

priyavivek @priyavivek (681) • India 18 Nov 09

hi friends , hope those who are married can understand the meaning of this question well when compared to others. I think managing the in-laws and maintaining good terms and relationships with them itself is a difficult task. In...

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candleintherain Hi Priya, I have to agree that this is a very tricky subject. Having in-laws of my own, I definitely know how you feel. How do I manage them? FOr example, I find talking to my husband about his parents (their likes, dislikes, and most importantly their...

23 Nov 09

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What will you give yourself this christmas?

larish @larish (2234) • Philippines 23 Nov 09

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candleintherain Hi Larish :) Thank you for bringing this subject up! never thought of getting myself a gift actually. Like what the others have said, we always put others before us.... hmm... i suppose the gift i wan to get for myself for christmas would be a romantic holiday...

23 Nov 09

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who are you having a reationship with your computer or your mate?

annjilena @annjilena (5618) • United States 3 Nov 08

we spend a lot of time on line are we negecting our mates.sometimes we are not a where how much time we spend on line sometimes we forget we have a mate that we need to spend time with.beening on line can consume a lot time so...

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candleintherain Oh yes! I do agree that once you are online, time just flies. I also believe that no matter how much work you have to do on your computer or how much things you have to do online, at the end of the day, you still have a mate who is waiting to spend time with...

23 Nov 09

Do you think you are blessed with a fairly good life?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 23 Nov 09

Life is indeed a game of fate and fortunes. It is true hard work and intelligence can make your life good to some extent, but one has to be blessed to have a good life in this world. I have my own problems. I did not get what I...

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candleintherain Hello! I do feel blessed as I have a supportive husband, loving family and relatives. And a pet that never fails to cheer me up when I am down! Life is full of its ups and downs; I have my bad moments and I will feel sad every time I think of them. Then again,...

23 Nov 09

How many of you normally set aside some time in a day for your loved ones?

candleintherain @candleintherain (31) • Malaysia 23 Nov 09

Given our hectic daily schedule, time just zips past and before you know it, you are already jumping into bed, barely able to keep your eyes open. It's common to hear people say "life is short, cherish it". As I get through my...

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What is the first thing you do when you wake up in the Morning?

mchavez11 @mchavez11 (1406) • Philippines 22 Nov 09

After a hefty hours of peaceful sleep we wake up with full of vigor and energy. We find ourselves doing our own morning rituals like brushing your teeth, washing your face or whatever. But besides that, what do you actually do...

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candleintherain The first thing I do after opening my eyes is to give my husband a good morning hug and say thanks for the wonderful things happening to me in life now. Next comes mentally planning the things to be done for the day, which normally begins with household...

23 Nov 09

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Do you find it difficult to sleep when you are in a new place?

candleintherain @candleintherain (31) • Malaysia 19 Nov 09

Everytime I travel, I will have difficulties falling asleep, particularly the first night. I tend to find myself looking at every inch of the room before finally falling asleep, usually after an hour or so.. Does this happen to...

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candleintherain Hello cream, Oh yes... not to mention adjusting the pillows a million times too, to make myself comfortable. I think it's normal for us to feel like this. Given our hectic lifestyles, sleep is definitely important! Thanks for taking time to response. :)

22 Nov 09