chai37

@chai37 (142)

Philippines • Age 54

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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girls kissing girls

grandpa_lash @grandpa_lash (5225) • Australia 17 Sep 08

I recently had to give some advice to my 24yo son. It seems he picked up his girlfriend from a lunch date with a lesbian friend, and as they parted they kissed, on the lips lol. On the way home, she started singing the Kate Perry...

lesbians

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chai37 LOL. grandpa_lash you are so cute sharing this to us. I can see that you're very close to your grandson for him to share this topic with you...that's really very cool. i miss my granpa. Maybe the girls are just teasing him. Girls do that. Maybe they...

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Handling day to day stress

Ptrikha_2 @ptrikha_2 (47124) • India 18 Sep 08

Hi, As we all are aware of the increasing day -to-day stress in our lives. It might be due to Monetary Constraints , Family issues, Marital issues, Job Pressures ,Traffic and Commuting problems and a lot lot more . Sometimes;...

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chai37 I know exactly what you mean and i'm in that same kind of situation right now and it's really difficult. sometimes i wish I want to escape and leave everything, I feel like crying most of the time but when i do i just stop myself and think that nothing will...

18 Sep 08

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ever come to you

DIAMONDSNECSTASY @DIAMONDSNECSTASY (87) • United States 16 Sep 08

has anyone ever came to you in hopes that you can solve their problem (s)? if so what did you do ? did it help ? or create more problems ?

create

help

solver

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chai37 most of my friends come to me for advice, but i never really give them what they want to hear i always ask them to evaluate the problem and see what solution is best to take. there are always pros and cons to everything and most of the time people tend to ask...

16 Sep 08

Did you ever BEG at one point in your life to make him stay?

kean28 @kean28 (226) • Philippines 11 Sep 08

i did...because i love him too much i cant go on without him :(...tonight he finally said goodbye..all of the memories that we had together he one by one deleted it all..deleted our pictures, our videos..deleted his friendster...

listen to your heart

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chai37 i am usually a proud person, if a guy doesn't want me anymore i would just simply say, FINE, to hell with you. I never beg..i usually just cry specially if i really love the person. So, the sooner you get over this, the sooner you'll feel better. Stop...

11 Sep 08

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My heart got ripped out..

NrgDfenZ @NrgDfenZ (1810) • Belgium 11 Sep 08

Hi all.. Today my heart got broken.. And very much.. I had to hear from a good friend of me that she heard my girlfriend cheated on me. I was happy that she told me, but actually I didn't wanted to know it. But on the other...

broken

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chai37 yes you should definitely leave her. no matter how long guys have been together, that doesn't really matter now. She cheated...just move on.

11 Sep 08

Do You Speak More Than YOu Should And Can Not Control That Also ?ohhh what to do

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 11 Sep 08

Some Time I think I am speaking more than I should .....but still I can not control myself and end up with big troubles ...... Later I think why I was not able to control my self and get sad ... What to do with such problems...

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chai37 that's natural...there's nothing to worry about. I always do that specially when i'm nervous and when i'm meeting new people. I'm like chandler (of friends)who talks too much when i'm nervous. sometimes, i hear myself talking non sense and i hate it. I just...

11 Sep 08

Women's hygene

wickikitty @wickikitty (532) • United States 11 Sep 08

So I'm very curious as to why women have to shave their legs. I know its because women feel they must be soft and what ever but when did this trend start?! Have women always been anti-hair? 2 questions: 1) For those who date...

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chai37 In my country, shaved or unshaven legs doesn't really matter unless you're a celebrity or a model. Most girls here don't shave their legs. Most men find it appealing. but a shaved armpits is really a big deal. hellooo....

11 Sep 08

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do you ever get sick of listening?

junngee @junngee (9) • Philippines 11 Sep 08

of people you are trying to explain something that is right yet they never listen to you!

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chai37 sometimes...but you still have to remember that it is still their choice whether they should listen to you or not. you have no control over that. all you have to do is say what you have to say and then step back and wait. you can't expect anyone to listen to...

11 Sep 08

what kind of character you think is the most important for friend?

cherry880813 @cherry880813 (21) • China 11 Sep 08

I think to be a good friends should be brave~To give friends some advids sometimes really need courage.Today I have done such a thing~but my friend seems didn't understand~~

friend

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chai37 a good listener and respects whatever decision you make may it be good or bad. Friends who support you and guide you. An understanding and honest friend is very important.

11 Sep 08

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what day was you born and whats your sign?

annjilena @annjilena (5618) • United States 10 Sep 08

i was born NOV 4 iam a scorpio-the intense one very energic,intelligent.can be jealous and or possessive.hard working great kisser can become obsessive or secretive.hold grudges,attractive love being in long relationships...

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chai37 I'm an aquarian born Feb. 2. Sociable,Idealist, desires change, friendly and humanitarian.

11 Sep 08

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Why are you here in My Lot? Is it for Friends, or for Discussions or for Money.?

jnk3dfx @jnk3dfx (721) • India 19 Aug 08

Tell me frankly who do you do MyLot everyday... Is it for Money or Is it for discussions or frankly speaking you are here for Money...? I am Here basically for Discussions but I make Friends Here... And I love Money too... Hope...

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chai37 I'm here for all the reasons, i need the money, i like having new friends, and it's fun reading and sharing your thoughts. A few comments here and there and who knows you might be helping others too.

11 Sep 08

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Would you still accept him/her after dumping you for another person?

eve301345 @eve301345 (658) • Philippines 10 Sep 08

Let say you have a bf/gf and one day he/she left you for another one. I know it hurts so much and so annoying knowing that he/she left you for another bf/gf. If he/she come back would you still accept him/her? Why and for what...

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chai37 i agree with all of you, I too will not accept him. The fact that he left me for another person is inexcusable and he'll definitely do it again anyway so why bother going back?

11 Sep 08

Do you believe that for every action there is an equal and

sudalunts @sudalunts (5523) • United States 10 Sep 08

opposite reaction? If you do good, something good will happen to you? That you reap what you sow? These are some of the expressions we have heard before. What goes around comes around. What do you think about them? Do You have...

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chai37 yes i do believe in this, others call it karma. What ever you do, good or bad there is always an equal reaction. But I also believe that if you do good things you should really do it because you want to help and not because you're expecting something good in...

11 Sep 08

I am 13 weeks pregnant

sassykats @sassykats (17) • United States 9 Sep 08

Hi, I am 13 weeks pregnant. I was over weight when I conceived. The pregnancy sites say that I should gain 15 lbs during my pregnancy, because I was over weight by like 20 lbs to begin with. I am depressed because I have already...

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chai37 hi sassykats, first of all congratulations!!! you know, you're really very lucky to be having a baby even though you're over weight. I have a friend who is overweight too but is having trouble conceiving. Here, i looked up this site for you may be it'll help...

9 Sep 08

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the secret of getting a lot of response is now revealed...

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 2 Jun 07

I was a newbie before in MyLot... Like you, I'm also wondering how to get a lot of response for my discussions. That time, the members that are always in the hot topics were lordwarwizard, becuttieusa, and easy888. I must...

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chai37 thank you very much ron!!! this is very helpful. I just started so i don't know what the heck i'm doing. thanks a lot!!! enjoy school and goodluck!!!

9 Sep 08

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