chardonnay_nz

@chardonnay_nz (9)

New Zealand • Age 50

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what should I do?

chardonnay_nz @chardonnay_nz (9) • New Zealand 11 Mar 11

Recently I was told that my ex had already stepped into a happier relationship. It seems she is prettier and smarter than I am. Sooner a wedding will be under way. I still have contact with him but not very often. He himself did...

relationship

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Should we attend? but she will be there...

angelic123 @angelic123 (1108) • United States 11 Mar 11

My husband is invited to attend the 7th birthday of his friend, but his ex will be there and I feel awkward. I want to go there to see how his ex looks like and to face my insecurities.Yeah, I am insecure because his ex has the...

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chardonnay_nz If you trust your hubby, it is better to stay back. Jealousy could cause lots of trouble and issues. If I were you, I would choose not to go to the party with your hubby and stay at home instead. Why do you feel insecure? You have been a winner, havent you?...

11 Mar 11

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what would you take with you if there is flooding

chardonnay_nz @chardonnay_nz (9) • New Zealand 22 Jan 11

The rain storm has moved from Australia to New Zealand this weekend. It has been raining since Friday night and does not look like stop for the next few days. We have been warned the possibility of flooding. If we are allow to...

flood

life

rain

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Should our government tax us less on income than on sales tax?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 21 Jan 11

Here is the dilemma, and if we could vote on it? Facing the current economy, although we are on the gradual recovery, should our government tax less on our income tax, and more on sales tax? Or vice versa, tax more on our income...

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chardonnay_nz Government do need income to finance the public services. If they tax more on income tax, it can bridge the gap between poor and rich but this can only be done through lower tax rates or some exemption for low income earners and higher tax rate for high income...

21 Jan 11

from friends to lover, then lover back to freinds - is it possible?

chardonnay_nz @chardonnay_nz (9) • New Zealand 21 Jan 11

From friendship to lover is such perfect way to get into a relationship because you two have known each other for a while. However, things do not always work out. The relationship may end for various reason but is it possible for...

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Meaning of Friendships

chardonnay_nz @chardonnay_nz (9) • New Zealand 21 Jan 11

Friends are coming and going in our life. The true freinds are not those who come the first, who brag you the most, who know the longest..... they are those who come and never leave, always be your side to support you, listen to...

friends

friendship

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meaning of love....when you are heart broken?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 21 Jan 11

can you still know the meaning of love if you are heart broken? how will you now define the meaning of it if you are heart broken? when i was heart broken, i dont even know the meaning of love, and never wanted to believe at...

broke

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chardonnay_nz Love can make you happy on the other hand love can hurt you too. Things do not always go the way we want. When we are hurt, we are upset and down but hey think about the bright side. we definitely learn something from failure that is the way we get grow up and...

21 Jan 11

infront of your computer

novelcai @novelcai (600) • Philippines 21 Jan 11

hi there mylotters, i just wanna ask you if how much time do spend sitting infront of your computer? how many hrs? well ofcourse if your work is computer related maybe you can spend around 8hrs.. i can spend more time infront...

games

work

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chardonnay_nz I spend too much time on computer due to my job. It is hard to finish my job without a computer after work I also spend some time to catch up friends living in other countries and surf the net so I may spend 10 hours a day. That is so bad for my eyes I try to...

21 Jan 11