chayruocs4

@chayruocs4 (102)

United States • Age 36

Joined myLot 16 years ago

the less you expect out of people the less you get let down

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I'm not allowed to have my family or friends over any more.

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 18 Jan 09

Not if they intend to help me around the house. That's a new 'law' my husband just laid down. He said it's his job to help me around here. The problem is, he doesn't help me around here... at least, not as much help as I need, not...

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chayruocs4 No matter how much you love someone, you can never let them take your family away from you. He might not always be there for you, but your family is there forever, you can't pick your family and you can't make them go away. and i know that if you were to go...

18 Jan 09

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Your dogs age

gxnfly @gxnfly (1147) • China 11 May 08

Do you have a dog for company?How many years has it been spend with you?How old is it?What's the oldest age that for a dog do you think? It 's assumed that dogs generally do not live more than 20 years. But there have been a few...

dogs age

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chayruocs4 i know that chuiahas live from 25-30 years and thats what i have. but i had a beagle that was 18 when we put him to sleep it was so sad because he was so sick at the end and couldn't even controll his bouls.

12 May 08

Who Would You Rather Have Watching Your Children?

terilee79720 @terilee79720 (3621) • United States 15 Apr 08

If you were given the option to select from a 14 year old girl from down the street, daycare, or a grandparent, which one would you choose. Mind you, you will have to pay for either one, including the grandparent. They deserve a...

baby sitting

selecting who watches your children

watching your children

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chayruocs4 if i had a family member that could watch my kid i would choose them over anyone else because you know them and hopefully they wouldn't harm the child in anyway with all the stuff going on about these people babysitting and being so mean to the kids it makes...

15 Apr 08

PROCRASTINATION: Are you guilty of it?

SassyKittyKat @SassyKittyKat (2135) • Australia 11 Apr 08

I am definitely guilty of putting things off at times and right now is one of them. I am suppose to be getting some housework finished and here I sit on MyLot, when I know there are things to be done. It's just that during the...

guilty

of it

procrastination

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chayruocs4 haha aren't we all guilty of this. right now i'm suppose to be cleaning my room but no i'm not i'm sitting here on mylot and listening to music my room probably wont get clean until thursday or sometime around then i'm such a procrastinator and i don't get...

11 Apr 08

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What time do you get up?

mom4kids @mom4kids (657) • Canada 8 Apr 08

What time do you get up? I get up between 7-8 to take care of my kids. I remember the good old days before kids when I'd get to sleep till 10. If I could choose when I'd get up it would be 10. So what time do you get up? Is it...

morning

sleep

wake

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chayruocs4 i get up monday through friday at 8:30 or around then because i have to be to school at 9:30 but if i didn't have to i wouldn't get up til 11 or 12 i'm not a morning person and i don't think that i ever will be i'm just always so exhuasted in the morning its...

8 Apr 08

My poor friend can't find a girl friend

gxnfly @gxnfly (1147) • China 8 Apr 08

Yesterday,my friend Yun from college complained to me that it's difficult for him to find a girl friend. I asked,"Aren't there any girls at your office you like?" "Sure,they are all hot and pretty.But I am too shy,and they think...

find a girl friend

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chayruocs4 okay well my dad is a eletric engenier and he does computer programing and stuff and hes a pimp. maybe its just your friend. i don't know him or anything and i don't know why he would be shy because really thats the biggest turn off to me is when a guy is shy...

8 Apr 08

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another superstitious belief...

checapricorn @checapricorn (16061) • United States 2 Apr 08

wearing pearl earrings when you're single is a bad luck ? yes or no? whats your stand guys?

accessories

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chayruocs4 wow i've never ever heard that before that sounds crazy i don't think thats true but i never really started wearing pearls til this year and i have a boyfriend so i don't know ha ha

8 Apr 08

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did you fell ache when you pierced ears?

chenpan @chenpan (381) • China 4 Apr 08

Did you fell ache when you pierced ears? as for me , when i was only 6 years old ,my mother pierced ears for me ,but i din't fell ache at that time. what about you?

pierced ears

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chayruocs4 nope mine didn't hurt my naval piercing didn't even hurt the only one that hurt was my nose but that didn't even hurt that bad just made my eyes water

4 Apr 08

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Take off or not.

ciades @ciades (1623) • Philippines 3 Apr 08

Do you take off your bra when you at home? or not comfortable without it? Some advices said that better to take off your bra when your inside your house alone with your family coz its not a good health for a woman and...

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chayruocs4 i wear my bra every second except when i shower or am in a bathing suit seriously i even sleep with it, i hear if you don't wear it your boobs will sag sooner in life, and also i just don't feel comfortable without it on, and espesically when i have to go up...

4 Apr 08

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You can live a good life without money,do you believe this crap?

gxnfly @gxnfly (1147) • China 3 Apr 08

OK,there are many ways bout living a good life,different people hold different opinions about this.Some worship wealth,some can even say they don't give a damm about money,money is just what's outside us ,we should cherish more...

money life

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chayruocs4 money is not that important. i would rather be poor and happy then rich and not happy. and money can't buy happiness and if you think it can your wrong because i've had people try to buy me before and it doesn't work. i don't have that much money but i get by...

4 Apr 08

Step-Daughter's Attitude

chellekellam @chellekellam (146) • United States 3 Apr 08

I am at the end of my rope with my step-daughter! Quick background: My husband has 4 children (my step-kids) from his ex-wife. He has custody so they live with us full-time. His ex maybe sees them once a month for a day or so. I...

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chayruocs4 i know that when i lived with my mom and my step dad i always had an attitude. why? because i didn't like my step dad because he wasn't my dad so i wasn't going to listen to him i still don't like him at all, he tries to be my dad and well hes not at all. i...

3 Apr 08

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what is the weirdest pet you ever had?

johndur @johndur (3052) • Pasig, Philippines 3 Apr 08

i thing the weirdest pet i ever had is my pet mosquito... when i was in grade school,we had some experiment about mosquitoes and we have to put a larvae in a container until it matures and become a mosquito but i think i like what...

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chayruocs4 the weirdest animal i ever had was a squirelle(spelling) it was just a baby and it was hurt so i took it in and made it healthy and just ended up getting really attached to it. i love that little thing. but i finally let it go because i felt bad

3 Apr 08

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Love vs Money? Which would you choose?

deepti15 @deepti15 (1190) • India 3 Apr 08

I asked same question to my husband and he says.... It depends on what kind of "love" and how much money. I don't think the bottom line is love or money. The bottom line is how much you love. One should find most...

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chayruocs4 If i had to choose love or money i would choose love anyday money can't make you happy nor will it. My mom once had a boyfriend and he was very wealthy he knew that i wasn't very fond of him and would buy me things all the day, i didn't even use the things he...

3 Apr 08

coincedence or not... how possible it is?

jairgirl @jairgirl (2877) • United States 3 Apr 08

have you ever wondered how it happens and why it happens? i always have this moment with my hubby since i met him that he will always (ok 99% of the time) can read what's in my head, say the same word at the exact time, think...

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chayruocs4 this stuff happens with me and my boyfriend all the time like the weirdest things. like we'll be laying in bed and the fan will be blowing and ill be thinking i wish he would get up and turn it towards us more, and not two seconds later he got up and turned it...

3 Apr 08

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do you smoke?

BeachBaby @BeachBaby (815) • United States 4 Nov 06

Yes Id say I do.. and I wish I could quit.. Its sooo hard tho.. its a gross habit but I do it because I cant stop its addicting and it helps when Im very stressed or upset

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chayruocs4 yes i smoke almost two packs a day and i'm only 19 its a horrible habbit and i know i need to quit but its so hard. because lifes very stressfull and it seems like smokings helps. i just can't imagine quitting and then i'm so scared to gain weight from it.

3 Apr 08

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anyone brave enough to say that they thinking smoking is a killer

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 30 Mar 08

I just read the discussion about getting allsmoker s to stand up and say they think smoking is sexy and glamourous andd they love todo it. well I disagree.smoking kills your heart and destroys your lungs and messes up your...

smoking kills people

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chayruocs4 smoking isn't sexy or glamorous even though i do it i know that its not good for me and i should probably quit. but i guess theres so many things that cause cancer even people who don't smoke get lung cancer its like we can't do anything without getting cancer...

3 Apr 08

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