Chipog

@Chipog (19)

South Africa • Age 43

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Discussions (7)

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Staying energized the whole day

Chipog @Chipog (19) • South Africa 22 Oct 09

Please can anyone tell me how best can i avoid sleeping during working hours. I have always tried to take a balanced diet with lots of water as always suggested and still i dont seem to be getting any better

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hi, Mylot ladies, can you find out if your man is cheating on you?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 21 Oct 09

There are certain symptoms that reveal the hard fact that your man is cheating on you. What are they? Can you find them out? In general both man and woman pretend to the other that he/she has no interest on others. So every man...

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Chipog It really depends with your partner. Some are really good at hiding their affairs and you will only know about the affair after their deaths. However others are easily noticeable right from the moment the get involved. There is no formula really to say how...

21 Oct 09

Do you expect something in return when you give service to others?

shobhan51 @shobhan51 (376) • Malaysia 21 Oct 09

I feel that when one does something for someone out of goodwill, it should be done with no strings attached. By this I do not mean that everything should be charity. One should learn to be discrete about situations and act...

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Chipog On the contrary i believe every good deed should be rewarded. I think that the more people are rewarded for their goodwork the more services they will give to others.

21 Oct 09

How to get your dream girl?

markanthonyuy @markanthonyuy (90) • Philippines 21 Oct 09

Ever had a crush that you wanted so badly? what should you do to win his/her heart?

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Chipog I think the best way is to start up as a friend, findout what interest her the most and what she does not like so that you would know the best way to approach her.

21 Oct 09

would you call me selfish..???

gemini13 @gemini13 (333) • India 21 Oct 09

i live in a joint family,mine is a luv marriage,the family has accepted me ,i have a son everything is going on..but just don't like being with the in laws..b'coz the baggage is too heavy for me..it brings lot of emotional stress...

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Chipog There are two sides to your story. Remember your relatives are also your husband's inlaws. Suppose it was your little sister in the same senario,what would be your response to the same situation. If you have the answer then that how you should respond to your...

21 Oct 09

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Secrets in Relationships

Chipog @Chipog (19) • South Africa 21 Oct 09

When you are in a relationship or if you are a married couple, are there any secrets that should be kept from each other for the sake of "saving your relationship". Can you really save your relationship by keeping secrets? Suppose...

secrets in marriages

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Salary negotiations

Chipog @Chipog (19) • South Africa 21 Oct 09

Suppose you are working under someone who is paid on commision. The sales of that person is the first quarter of the year increases by a very good margin. As a person working under this person you feel that your contribution to...

salary negotiations

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More qualified than Supervisor

Chipog @Chipog (19) • South Africa 21 Oct 09

If you are more qualified than your supervisor who feels threatened that you might take over his job, how best would you assure him that you are not after his job.

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Extra Marital Affairs

Chipog @Chipog (19) • South Africa 21 Oct 09

If you suspect that your partner or husband is having an affair with someone would you directly confront him or you would just keep quite remaining suspicious of the whole situation. Remember these are just suspicions meaning your...

extra marital affairs

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Money Versus Career building

Chipog @Chipog (19) • South Africa 21 Oct 09

Suppose you relocate after graduation to a foreign country and you happen to get two jobs. The first job pays very well but its not in line with your area of specialisation. The second job is an avarage paying job in your field of...

money versus career building

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I don't want a house husband.

Naylani @Naylani (111) • United States 19 Oct 09

I understand that times have changed, and I don't have a problem with a man staying home sometimes with the children out of necessity such as temporary unemployment, disability, or to give his stay at home wife or girlfriend a...

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Chipog I am one person who certainly believes that a husband is a bread winner. Whilst temporary situation like being fired from work are acceptable to me i believe that a man as the head of the family should show it by being able to provide for his family. let face...

20 Oct 09

Life: reality versus attitude

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 19 Oct 09

My daughter just came over with a laminated observation-on-life piece that basically boils down to this: Life is 10% of what actually happens (reality) and 90% our attitude about what happens. Do...

attitude vs reality

negative attitude

positive attitude

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Chipog I would like to agree because life is what you make out of it. There are defininately some situationms you cannot change about life (reality as you might want to put it). However i have witnessed a lot of people who were positive and have made it in life...

20 Oct 09

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would you move or stay?

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 19 Oct 09

Hello, I have a few questions to ask and want to get some advice if you have. If a couple, who married here and have house and work over here ... but all the sudden the husband wants to go back hometown to open a business that...

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Chipog I value my marriage so much as a result i would move with him to preserve my marriage.Its not that i don't trust my husband but i just want to avoid temptation that might arise. I can always look for other opportunities when i move but my marriage cannot be...

20 Oct 09

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Eating together is very good, it breeds love, trust, cheerfulness, and unity.

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 19 Oct 09

Eating together is something very nice for a family (or any people living together, such as your boarding house!) to do. The parents are able to impart the proper values to their children and also show the care and love.my...

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Chipog I grew up in a family where everyone would eat at their own time when it pleases them. However until now i feel it wasn't such a good idea. Family meal time is the time you bond as a family, get to know each other better and discuss issues that affect your...

19 Oct 09

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How to Stay Young While Growing Old?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 18 Oct 09

There is a truth that everyone on this earth will get old. For most people, expecially for the old, when they stay alone for a moment, they may be worried about their age. Yes, as time flies, they are getting old and...

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Chipog Try having a good nutrition. If you take lots of water at least 2litres a day, a lot of vegetables and fruits you won't go wrong. Don't forget exercising you look younger while advancing in your age.

19 Oct 09

Are You Happy With Your Life As You Know It?

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36447) • United States 18 Oct 09

or are there things you have not done yet that you know you need to do, or wish you could do as well? I am not referring to now with the Economy and jobs being so scarce. I am talking about your life over all. Your choice in...

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Chipog Honestly i don't regret what i have done so far. Although at times i feel i could have done better in life but what i do know is that is that i seized every opportunity that came my way. All the same i am not satisfied with where i am right now. I keep moving...

19 Oct 09

Is it okay to preached the Bible at public places?

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 18 Oct 09

Last Friday while riding a bus from work, three well-dressed people stand-up and begin preaching the Bible. As the bus is too noisy, the man speaking cannot be heard that much. While the two other guys are busy talking to their...

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Chipog I would actually recommend anyone who wants to preach the gospel to do it in public places. I believe in public places thats where you would find new converts unlike in churches were the majority are already repented. You might thing that people are not...

19 Oct 09

Managing your collegues at workplace

Chipog @Chipog (19) • South Africa 19 Oct 09

How do you manage a situation whereby you are working in a foreign country and you want to be part of the team but somehow you face rejecting because you are a foreigner. No one really tells you that they don't like you like...

foreigner at workplace

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taking care of your old parents

vathsala @vathsala30 (3732) • India 19 Oct 09

Do you take care of your old parents with love and affection or just feed them and buy clothes and medicines for them thinking that it is your duty? We are five daughters and sons to my parents. During his old age, my father used...

taking care of old parents

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Chipog I also believe it is a good thing taking care of our parents especially in their old age. Imagine what trouble they got taking care of us as we were growing up. Its just one way of showing them appreciation for what they did to us. I am staying in a different...

19 Oct 09

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