choconut

@choconut (297)

Philippines • Age 35

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Losing limbs

desertrose16 @desertrose16 (600) • United States 5 Mar 13

A couple months ago, I wrote about working hard. I got a response that is not entirely true. I know that you can lose limbs while working. You can lose limbs other times too. Rick Allen lost his arm driving too fast. He was...

losing limbs happens for more than just working ha

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choconut there's also that saying that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. We have no control of our future,we can plan all day long but it wouldn't be exactly the same as we planned it there's always the inevitable. And everything that happens has its own reason...

5 Mar 13

You sshould be grateful to your teacher

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 5 Mar 13

When you are only 'Zero' your teacher gives you the knowledge of 'One' and gives you meaning of your life hundred times. He puts 10 before your zero. So you should respect your teacher and grateful to him. As he molds you to...

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choconut sweet! its true we should really appreciate them, because looking back i don't think i would be like this if they didn't took the time to mold us.

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more knowledge = more worries

jearl02 @jearl02 (211) • Philippines 3 Mar 13

HI mylotters! It has been long time ago since I met a saying that has a main idea of "more knowledge = more worries." The idea is that while we learn a lot on different aspects of life, we have so much idea on what is good and...

knowledge

life

worries

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choconut actually its true, I'll use an analogy. When we were in elementary we just worry about going to school and meeting friends, since we're still kids. When we reached high school, we worry about grades, allowances, boys/girls, where to go to college and many...

5 Mar 13

When a woman says "Do whatever you want", do NOT do whatever you want.

MissPiggy @MissPiggy (1748) • Indonesia 5 Mar 13

I just saw someone posted it on Facebook and I was like "Hell, it won't work for my boyfriend." I know when I say "whatever, do it" he would clam down and won't do it. But it only happens when I'm right about...

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choconut whenever i have that statement said to my boyfriend he would stop and hug me and say let's talk. And we talk about why I'm stopping him and why is he not stopping. If he's convince to stop he'll stop but if not he'll continue it regardless of my feelings. It...

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The First Time In Years...Weird.

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 5 Mar 13

My husband is now working for the cab company here, he started tonight. So, he is working the late shift. 5pm-5am. My mother asked if the kids could stay over night tonight because she wants to spend time with them... So, I...

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choconut It's nice to be alone sometimes, because you can relax and do what you want to do. And also a good time to think, plan and learn something since you won't be busy taking care of your kids and your husband is still at work. Enjoy yourself (",)

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Real wife, fake wife

bryan09 @bryan09 (17) 4 Mar 13

Some of the married man has its own hidden agenda. One of those is cheating. The worst part is they cheat and they don't care if his wife is just in front of him. The guy let his another girl live in the same house with his wife...

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choconut i saw this situation once in a tv reality show Face off here in the Philippines, and all i can say is I were in that situation, I'd leave and take my kid with me. Because it will be stupid for me to try and fix our relationship when he don't even respect me...

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any idea about legit writing sites?

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 3 Mar 13

Hi guys. I'm looking for legitimate sites that pays you to write articles or comments. I've been to different kinds of paid to write sites but most of them doesn't really pay. They take your papers then when its pay day, they tell...

paid to write

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choconut mylot is legit, and other site that they've recently been talking about the bubblews I think. I just don't know if there are other sites like this. sorry.

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She claims she's innocent!

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 3 Mar 13

Whoah, I got irritated last night. My hubby's mistress sent me messages saying that she was sorry and that she was innocent about everything that happened. I can't believe it. How could she be innocent when in the first place, she...

mistress

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choconut let them be! let her have him because most probably if you take him back he's just going to do it again. Don't let it affect you anymore, she's going to have her karma soon

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starting my own online business - translation services

shellster @shellster (176) • Philippines 3 Mar 13

I have been in and out of the online business for a while now usually testing waters. I love to experiment and believed that I could really make money online. Now, I have slowly set up everything and turned my passion to building...

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choconut Good luck on your business venture, hope it'll boom (",) God bless and congrats (",)

3 Mar 13

how to tell your loved ones you have cancer?

iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2560) • Philippines 3 Mar 13

a friend just discovered she has cervical cancer. she told us, her friends, first about her condition. her husband and family doesn't know it yet. she's actually concerned about her oldest son. she said he's too emotional that...

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choconut it's really difficult to tell your loved ones about this conditions but she has to, and there's no other option. It would be best if she talks to her husband first and both of them decide how to tell the kids. If she's really having trouble telling it to...

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Going crazy now, no vacation this year.

kris182_2000 @kris182_2000 (5469) • Canada 3 Mar 13

With everything that's going on right now, I've decided not to bother with a vacation this year although we really need one. At the moment we've been put into a crunch financially, money that should have been in last week still...

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choconut i just like to comment, maybe the roofers don't want to do the roof until the snow melts for safety issue not because they're lazy. Have you considered the fact that snow can be dangerous especially if its on the roof and you'll be working there? The...

3 Mar 13

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Why Can't Christians Discern 'Different Conditions' in the Bible?

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 3 Mar 13

This'll maybe help me get '"end-times off" their minds'*, a way to remind them that the Bible is ONLY about THIS LIFE---that Jesus came that we might have THIS LIFE & have it more-abundantly! (And...

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choconut end times will not be erased from their mind for a fact that the Bible didn't just state how to live in this day but it also talks about the end times, that a time will come when the TRUE believers will be with God in heaven and the FALSE believer and those...

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My friend finally did it....but I don't think it'll last.......

trisha27 @trisha27 (3494) • United States 1 Mar 13

Why do some women just continuously let men take advantage of them? Well, awhile back I had started a discussion, about my friend being with this guy and and she wanted to marry him already but he stated that he just isn't ready...

guys taking advantage of women

lowlife guys

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choconut In my opinion, whether the man rings and say he has a job and he's ready to settle down, she shouldn't take the man back because for sure since he has already done it he will do it again, abusing her. He doesn't have the right to do that to anyone and as her...

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Well she took the loser back.......:(

trisha27 @trisha27 (3494) • United States 3 Mar 13

I talked to her yesterday and I got to learn a lot more of what happened. But well, my friend had the loser back at her house again last night. After I just talked to her a couple of days back. Now more things have been brought...

loser boyfriend

she took him back

unemployed boyfriend

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choconut Based on your story, I wouldn't take that man back, it'll be stupid of me to take him back after the hell I went through because of him, I would just focus on my babies and work and not to look for another headache. But have you tried asking her why she took...

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The "Last Days" Described at 2 Timothy Chapter 3

momalisa65 @momalisa65 (1971) • United States 2 Mar 13

Do you believe we are living in the last days that are described at 2 Timothy Chapter 3? I think it's just like reading the newspaper. People nowadays sure fit this description: "But know this, that in the last days critical...

2 timothy 3

bible

last days

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choconut Actually you would see it in the Bible not just in 2Timothy, even in the old testament, it was already predicted how the end times will look like. And based on what I know and understand, yes we're living in the time where the end is near, we just don't know...

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when will you say that you are already contented with your life?

johndur @johndur (3052) • Pasig, Philippines 1 Mar 13

Is it when you're old? Is it when you are dying? Is it now? Human nature is they live for more and never contented with what they have. What is it that makes you feel contented with your life?

contentment

full life

life

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choconut depends actually on a person, because like for me, im easily contented so im very much contented in the place where i am right now even though its not the things i probably dream about when i was a kid. But learning to be happy with what you have and be...

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if you are laid off you job and you badly need money,what will you do to earn?

johndur @johndur (3052) • Pasig, Philippines 1 Mar 13

It is unexpected that you were laid off your job,all of a sudden no if or buts. You have to pay for your rent,electric bill,phoone bill,water bill,cable bill,internet bill,car loan,etc. Plus you don't have that much savings in...

bills

job

work

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choconut i would cut down the bills fast, for those that are not that necessary i would cut them, like cable for example. Then i'll look for job right away, go to interviews, walk in applicants, and maybe do business for a while? Based on your profile you're from the...

2 Mar 13

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Followers and friend request

agapakia @agapakia (22) • Canada 1 Mar 13

I will like to have an opinion about the followers on fb. What do you prefer between followers and friends?

facebook

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choconut both! haha... well for me I prefer that my friends in FB are really my friends in real life, but after having a FB page i started accepting friend request from people i don't personally know lolz :P that's because i have an online shop in FB so its pretty much...

2 Mar 13

go and attend the Sunday service

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 2 Mar 13

Usually my mom pushes me to attend Sunday service. Now she wants to attend the morning service of 7 am. I told her it's already 6:30 am already. That she should stop cleaning or doing things at home and prepare already. I'm not...

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choconut you'll be late if you won't go now... Be careful on your way its still raining and also prepare your hearts and mind as you go to the house of praise (",) God bless (",)

2 Mar 13

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