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hestylim @hestylim (1210) • Indonesia 14 Jun 12

Hi all, I don't understand why Helium recently deleted my articles.. I am quite frustrated. I write to them and they said it was because English is not my first language and Helium is not my venue. I am speechless..

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cleverland Hi, Maybe they have some standards to be followed, in which you may not have meet. Anyway, there's still Mylot, so no worries. Is Helium similar to Mylot? Are they paying through paypal too? I might want to give it a try. Thanks in advance:)

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anne25penn @anne25penn (3305) • Philippines 12 May 12

Since I have been living under a rock pretty much last year, I didn't know that our government made changes on how to get an NBI Clearance. I have just landed a job and I thought that getting a clearance was easy and I was so...

clearance

nbi

work

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cleverland I had the same gruelling experience. My name is very generic. I've been having the same thing "hit" over and over again.. A good thing to do when you're name is generic or very common. Don't even try their branches/kiosks, never. Just go to the main office, in...

15 May 12

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 31 Mar 12

Ok, pretend you're a guy.. you had a girlfriend 12 years ago when you were 19/20. Although the two of you were in love, you were too young for your relationship to work out. You both made a lot of bad mistakes, cheating on each...

ex boyfriend

facebook

friend request

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cleverland whatever his reasons, good intentions or not. I think it's all up to you. If I would be in your shoes, I would just simply ignore it if I didn't care. But you said, you're curious...hmm..that means you may still have feelings for him. I mean why would you feel...

1 Apr 12

egram09 @egram09 (78) • Philippines 24 Mar 12

I am always in the middle of stress when my friends ask me for a night out during their free time, not because I don't want to join them but because I don't have money to spend for the night out. I know that they will treat me,...

friends

night out

no

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cleverland You're friends, if they are really your friends, they'll totally understand you...And you, if you are really their friends, you won't lie... One thing that I really value the most in friendship or in any kind of relationship is honesty. Without it, then your...

25 Mar 12

silverglint @silverglint (2000) • Philippines 22 Mar 12

Hi, is it possible for my boss not to allow me to resign if I want to? like what if he did not accept my resignation? what do I do? will I just not go to work after my last day as per my resignation letter? Will that have a...

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cleverland It actually depends on your contract. You might want to look it up again and check that part. If you found that you've been following the contract regarding the process of your resignation, then there's no reason for your boss to hold you. Filing of...

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Messiii @Messiii (19) • China 21 Mar 12

I haven been in love with my girlfriend for about seven months.She is lovely and I love her very much.But the question is she gets angry and upset easily,so I must be very careful when talking with her because my unmeant words may...

love

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cleverland For a young girl, it's quite understandable. Though it's unusual if a person gets irritated easily. Nevertheless, I guess we just have to live with each other, having different personalities and attitude. It's just the way things are. Talking to her and...

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chloe1055 @chloe1055 (21) • Philippines 22 Mar 12

If given a chance, would you prefer to be friends with your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend? Why or why not?

boyfriend

break up

ex

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cleverland Subjective. I'm willing, only if I have moved on. Completely. When I know that I can see him and when I don't feel angry anymore whenever I think of him, that means I've moved on. But it doesn't mean that I have to call him and ask for friendship. Of...

22 Mar 12

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 19 Mar 12

It's interesting to cut my hair sometimes and my friends would sometime say it's not bad,you know,do a haircut in hair shop is really expensive.lol,but i have to admit that i rarely go.

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cleverland Jealous...lol! I've always wanted to cut my hair by myself, but I guess I'm not good at it... Well, coloring hair is my talent I guess. Everytime I dye my hair, my friends would notice that it suits me or would even ask the salon where I dyed my hair (I get...

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lheigh @andrey0109 (297) • Las Pinas City, Philippines 17 Mar 12

My son who is just a 3 year old boy already start to learn photoshop. He saw my husband doing some photoshop and he asked my son to try to do it. He was so persistent that my husband let him do so and he was amazed that my son is...

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cleverland Wow! he's amazing...Have you seen the 11 year old millionaire boy? He's awesome. Like he's starting to earn money at the age of 9, when he built a website. Then at 11, he's making a huge amount of through making a website too, without too much sweat. He...

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SinfulRose @SinfulRose (3527) • Davao, Philippines 16 Mar 12

Why is it that almost everything I do, I need to prove something? Why is it in everything I say, I need a reference in order for that saying to be a fact? Sometimes friends really just fail to uplift my spirits and instead make...

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cleverland P.S. I had a friend whose really tough on me..Like she has always had to say something to what I say. Yeah, there were several times that we almost fought. But then, we control ourselves. We understood each other, be quiet and far from each other for a while...

17 Mar 12

SinfulRose @SinfulRose (3527) • Davao, Philippines 16 Mar 12

Why is it that almost everything I do, I need to prove something? Why is it in everything I say, I need a reference in order for that saying to be a fact? Sometimes friends really just fail to uplift my spirits and instead make...

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cleverland So then just don't let them let you down. Try to overcome getting hurt every time you're being questioned. It's a challenge for you to just be you, sharing you're opnions, gain respect without the need for you to prove something. Or just tell em the truth...

17 Mar 12

judilla_lenny @judilla_lenny (8) • Philippines 16 Mar 12

For the past couple of years we've been experiencing different kinds of natural calamities. Things that were not prepared of and expecting. We've been through with tsunami, earthquake, typhoons, great floods, huge fire and all of...

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cleverland For me, I don't really care if it's the end of the world or not..It will just drive me crazy. I'd rather pay attention to every single day that I live and try to make the best out of it...Ride a roller coaster which I'm very scared of. Try zip lines. Go to...

17 Mar 12

persona_touch @persona_touch (1701) • United States 16 Mar 12

i have a guy frend and we know each other for a wile and when ever tell me a story when i'm on the phone with him were one of his frends hear i'm a girl and they try to ask him quetions about me then he gets off the phone, then he...

friend guys

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cleverland He's trying on you. A pick up line. Guys would say that when they fee like playing with a girl or simply wanted to flirt with you. You're friend and his friends are playing you around. Guys are often playful. So just ignore them, you look like a fool in that...

17 Mar 12

rohimmudin @rohimmudin (100) • Indonesia 16 Mar 12

Social networking site Facebook was blamed as the source of most third divorce by married couples, as long as a year ago. Thus the results of a survey conducted by Divorce-Online. According to the survey, Facebook has become a...

facebook

married

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cleverland Poor facebook...an innocent website almost always being blamed for the negative things that may happen/happened to its members. LOL! It sounds ridiculous....hahaha! I want to make a shout out to any person who blames facebook or any social networking...

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oflollipopskies @oflollipopskies (41) • Philippines 17 Mar 12

Hi guys just want to ask Let's just say how do you move on with your life after a break-up but you still see your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend? I mean you're classmates with you're girlfriend/boyfriend but then you broke up. How do you...

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cleverland It happened to me when I was in High school. I had my first boyfriend during my sophomore year (we were in different sections).It was my first time to have a relationship so I was pretty upset when we broke up. I was angry, he wasn't. It went on until our...

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audrelintamayo @audrelintamayo (172) • Philippines 14 Mar 12

Somebody help me for this one. This is a big problem for me I love someone but I have a girl friend. I don't want to hurt a girl but what should I do I love other woman. I don't want to hurt my girl friend...

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cleverland But not telling your girl friend the truth and her finding what you truly feels eventually, will do more damage to her. Don't let her be the one to find out. Be straightforward. Hurting her for telling the truth will hurt her, but if she finds out herself...

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Archaiwy @Archaiwy (599) • China 14 Mar 12

One should be honest to others. But sometimes, in order not to hurt others, he has to lie and in some cases when others find he has lied, they regard him as dishonest.So he is hurt.Mylot friends, is it fair for the person with a...

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cleverland It's forgivable, but still, it's a lie. All of us had somehow done this in our lives, so I guess it should not be taken to heart. It could be unfair only if the person whom we lied to feel that way and anyway they're allowed to. I think it's just about telling...

15 Mar 12

ardoy0731 @ardoy0731 (7308) • Philippines 15 Mar 12

I'm bubbly and jolly kind of person.I'm a joker and always laugh all the time.I'm easy to get along with other people and friendly enough to them.In the office they consider me as the joker who always have jokes in almost every...

office

people

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cleverland We can't really please everybody. We are tailored that way, I guess. So that we may learn on how to deal with each other, deal with our emotions and deal with ourselves as well. Whenever I encountered difficult people, it sounds hard as it may seem, but I...

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success1625 @success1625 (533) • Trinidad And Tobago 13 Mar 12

Was thinking while driving today, that I've not seen my boyfriend in two weeks ( and trust me considering we use to see each other EVERY OTHER DAY before we became boyfriend/girlfriend this is basically new to me,loll), and most...

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cleverland Long distance relationship is hard to work out. My brother had 7 years of long distance relationship, they see each other every 2 years or sometimes not. They broke up for a while, maybe for several months. Got back together afterwards. And now, his...

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ponyboy448 @ponyboy448 (38) • United States 13 Mar 12

When I'm in my car driving around I like listening to country music this is surprising because I'm black and alot of people think that only white people listen to country, well I'm here to tell you that music knows no color. Not...

country

music

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cleverland I listen to what I like and people can't tell me what to listen or not. That's just a misplaced thought. Why would some people do this? Since when PREFERENCE becomes others preference too? Grow up. I think people who questioned somebody's choice, whether...

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