cordacs99

@cordacs99 (15)

Canada • Age 64

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JUDGMENTS--What is Your View of Them--How Have They Helped/Harmed You?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 25 Jun 07

Judgment is a tricky thing to pin down because people have many opinions about it and the reason I wanted it open for discussion. One thing I do know for sure is that people who judge others view things with a narrow lens. They...

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cordacs99 Foe me its a question of judgement or judgemental. We need to exercise judgement everday just ot survive and live. It is our judgemnets of other for me where the trouble is. I do not feel unless it is a legal or personal moral issue I do not have the right to...

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how old would you be if you didn't know old you are?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 29 Jun 07

I hear a lot of people my age and older saying things like, "I am too old to be doing this or that." Other times they say they are too old to be wearing something they really like...because they think they are too old. Then there...

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cordacs99 If I look at the grey hair on my head and the white beard I have developed over the last number of years I would say I am old. If I go by my energy, I have as much as when I was a spring chicken, so I guess I am just right....

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Adding music on Mylot site, How? What about copyright infringement?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 7 Mar 08

Greetings to all.. I have been away the past few days and I appreciate hearing from friends who miss chatting...thanks for letting me know that. I miss all of you too! Anyway, hope to be catching up to previous...

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cordacs99 It is probably not legal but does that mean someone my come after you probably not. But then again there is that lady in Minnisota that was tapgged for $220 big ones. So as anything in life you take your chances

11 Mar 08

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Can we talk abour favorite 'places' and 'spaces?'

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 8 Jan 08

While I was responding to the discussion on screen savers some of you commented that you had images of your favorite places. That got me to wondering what other favorite 'places' and 'spaces' you might want to discuss. The...

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favorite spaces and placesnear or far

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cordacs99 My Favorite place is my Quiet room when I can go to enjoy ???? quiet. I also like the living room where we watch the ocassional movie or TV Show.

22 Feb 08

Ubuntu--A celebration of relationships..on Mylot and with everyone else!

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 17 Feb 08

I have been busy with a variety of work commitments and have not been able to participate on Mylot and I miss it. Two friends have abecome members here and they are finding what the rest of us know...this is an amazing place....

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working for the good of the all

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cordacs99 Sounds like being centered and balanced with the world around us. Some people look for it in religion, phylosophy. Some live it. I lkie the latter

18 Feb 08

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Why are we harder on ourselves...than we are on others?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 1 Feb 08

This is a topic that comes up a lot in our life coaching and seminars. People ask questions like these. Did somebody say something once that stuck in our brains and won't go away? Did we make some huge mistake..or 'fail' at...

learning to level the playing field

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cordacs99 Never thought about this one two hard. I think women are probably more hard on themnselves overtly tham men due to socialization. Higher expectations and having to work harder to measure up. men I think can be equally as hard on themselves but hide it better....

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Why are we harder on ourselves...than we are on others?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 1 Feb 08

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Self-care/nurturing activities what are your male/female perspectives on this?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 24 Jan 08

As we have been sharing ideas on how guys/gals do and see things differently I could not help but wonder what your views are on the subject of self-care. By self-care I mean...soul satisfying 'breathing space' activities that we...

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cordacs99 Some people like to take vactions, some like food, I like electronics, DVD, Computers all the bells and whistles. And for when I get a head ache from over using all the above, I count on quiet time to myself.

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Is it possible to have more than one 'Best Friend"

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 19 Jun 07

As you can tell from my choice of topics the subject of friendship is on my mind. I wondered if any of you have wrestled with the label of 'best friend?' I never been able to wrap my head around that one and here are the reasons...

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cordacs99 As you state I think it depends on what qualities you and your friends beleive make a "best friends" If you catagorize them into interests of social settings I think you can have many best friends

28 Jan 08

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Care to share your favorite 'Aha!' Moments?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 28 Nov 07

As Christmas draws near for David and I it will be the third one without my Mom. She was central to our family celebrations and kept them up even after my father died in 1998. During this time of year I find myself thinking about...

sharing aha momentsmine and yours

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cordacs99 The best aha moment for me is when I met my wife and still is.

6 Dec 07

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Christmas is coming...do you commemorate it or not?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 30 Nov 07

I looked at the calender today and realized that it is just over three weeks and then Christmas will be here. After chatting with so many people from around the world I wondered how many of you will be celebrating Christmas this...

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how it is commemoratedor not

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cordacs99 I like to do the traditional things. Church, shopping, visiting friends and special time with my wife.

6 Dec 07

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What did you do to push WAY...WAY beyond your comfort zone?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 20 Jun 07

This picture hangs on my office wall and is a constant reminder of what it took to break through my comfort zone and try something radically different. The opportunity presented itself while attending a Big Brother/Big Sister day...

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cordacs99 I read the last comment before mine and in some ways it is surprising that this topic does not have greater participation but in other ways not so much. In my dealings with people many are afraid to move beyond their comfort zones and stay there, often for a...

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When You Have Doubts What Do You Do About Them?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 12 Nov 07

I responded to a discussion today where the member was asking others what she should do. As I read some of the responses and her comments I felt like she had already answered her own question by saying that her gut was telling her...

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cordacs99 I like the term doubt means don't and is how I assess things when it comes up. I am not an overly intuitive but I trust my gut about things and it is a good guide marker. When something feels off I stop and ask why and usually wait on making a decision on...

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MSM..A Natural Solution for Pain

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 12 Nov 07

As some of you know I severely re-injured my knee last month. My knees have been through a lot with years of active living and digging, digging and more digging in our garden. I was supposed to have surgery two years ago and...

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msma great way to relieve pain naturallyit re

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cordacs99 This is a supplement that I use and agree that it does help stiff, sore joints immensely. My knees have also been put through the wringer and MSM has helped them. They still sound crackly but the overall strength has improved and the swelling and pain is less....

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Wishing you Happy Halloween with a spooky cat photo

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 31 Oct 07

Greetings to all on this Halloween evening. David is out giving the kids who are coming to our door treats and I am just about to sign off. Thought I'd do that with a photo of our female cat Nexus peering over her food bowl with...

spooky cat picture with halloween greetings from r

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cordacs99 I am not commenting here because of Halloween but because of your cat photo. I am a true blue cat lover and think the photo of your cat is really cute. That is it, no frills or long comment, just I love your cute kitty spooky or not. I commented on the image...

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