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I wish I had a cd player in my car!

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 24 Apr 10

I don't and maybe someday I will! Right now I have a cassette player! I still have alot of cassttes laying around so I do play some in my car from time to time! It is better then not having it at all! Listening to the radio get...

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couplescafe I don't and maybe someday I will! Right now I have a cassette player! I still have alot of cassttes laying around so I do play some in my car from time to time! It is better then not having it at all! Listening to the radio get boring once in awhile!

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Should I have to pay for this gift or not?

Pigglies @Pigglies (9329) • United States 10 Dec 06

I've been searching for a long time for a nice gift for my brother. He wouldn't write a list. And when I asked him for ideas under $50, he would not give me ideas because he told me that limit was ridiculous because he wanted a...

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couplescafe I don't know how old your brother is... but, in my humble opinion... he deserves NO gifts!!! It was gracious for you to even want to get him a gift... even more gracious to offer a gift of $50... I dunno, it doesn't matter whether or not money grows on...

11 Dec 06

My Family - I can't seem to stop enabling them

linda345 @linda345 (2661) • Canada 10 Dec 06

I have a very mixed up family. My oldest daughter is a 20 year old single mom. My 19 year old son is a drug addict and an acholic. My 15 year old is in foster care because we both decided it would be for the best. She also has...

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couplescafe The BEST way you can make it up to them, since you recognize the problem, is to acknowledge to them that your problems have contributed to theirs and come together as a family to begin turning things around... one step at a time. This is also the BEST GIFT...

11 Dec 06

How real do you think peoples problems are?

medooley @medooley (1873) • United States 10 Dec 06

I think that it is funny that you see so many people having the same problem as the popular discussion. I think that people are making up some of their problems just to get responses? I mean last week some time there was a...

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couplescafe oops... I meant to say ... these days

11 Dec 06

How real do you think peoples problems are?

medooley @medooley (1873) • United States 10 Dec 06

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couplescafe Well, the "problems" may be made up... but c'mon, ya gotta admit... these stays it's certainly stuff people think about - or at least hear about in bizaare stories on tv shows or in the news. Maybe they're doing it for the MyLot monies (which, if that's the...

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Relationship

shaheena @shaheena (35) • Pakistan 9 Dec 06

If i will ask this question to you all that "How long does it take to build a lasting relationship? 6 months? 1 Year? 2 Years? 5 Years? 10 years?" I think the answer is None of the above. It takes a lifetime of commitment....

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couplescafe You are so right, Shaheena. It's not that it takes time or work, it's a matter of realizing - not so much that people change - it's more a matter of that experiences shape our perceptions and outlooks. This happens to each person in the relationship... so,...

9 Dec 06

10-Day Sale... Would You Buy this Book?

couplescafe @couplescafe (18) • United States 8 Dec 06

You'd spend more than $15 on a meal that, well... let's say would be eliminated. Sure, you might remember how good it was but it doesn't keep on feeding you. So, go ahead... spend $15 on something that will literally change your...

bad doggie!

alicianichole @alicianichole (39) • Canada 22 Aug 09

Hey, So I have a story of my lovely dogs. Armani is a boxer/great dane mix, and Boss is a boxer mix. Anyways if anyone has these kinda of dogs I don't know if they are all bad or just mine. They chew everything, from shoes,pop...

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couplescafe Hey, So I have a story of my lovely dogs. Armani is a boxer/great dane mix, and Boss is a boxer mix. Anyways if anyone has these kinda of dogs I don't know if they are all bad or just mine. They chew everything, from shoes,pop cans?? I know right..couch, wall,...

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Should children be given pocket money for completing chores?

megs85 @megs85 (3142) • Australia 5 Dec 06

Or do you think that this encourages an attitude of being "paid" or "rewarded" for helping others. I'd rather my child helped others out of their goodness of their heart rather than thinking they are going to get something out of...

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couplescafe Yes, I think in some ways you're right - money for chores can send the wrong message(s). Perhaps there should be "levels" of chore completion. For example, for completing the chore 'as requested and expected' there is no payment; however, if they go above...

6 Dec 06

Teaching children RESPECT!!!

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 5 Dec 06

Ever noticed that now-a-days children are SOOOOOOO disrespectful???? And I'm not very old either, but when I was a child if I would of spoke to my mother the way my kids speak to me, I would of gotten a couple teeth knocked...

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couplescafe In addition to what you said... a good question to ask is this... who are they learning this from? If the kids' parents are divorced, listen to and watch the way the parents talk to and treat each other. Or, watch some TV shows - talk shows, sit-coms, reality...

6 Dec 06

I need some advice!!

ScarletAlston @ScarletAlston (2693) • United States 5 Dec 06

here's the situation..my mother died last month and her apartment pretty much is now is my name..I decided that my father isn't going to be living here due to some of the things he did just before she died (stole her bank card and...

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couplescafe Just curious... before I put my two-cents in... have you discussed any of this with him? Were your parents divorced? If not, why wasn't he on the lease? Based strictly on what you said, though... I would discuss all this with him, come up with an...

6 Dec 06

saw ii - what do you think it meant?

couplescafe @couplescafe (18) • United States 5 Dec 06

i'm curious... folks could walk away with several different messages from "saw ii"... what do you think the main message is?

Name three movies that illustrate your life...

couplescafe @couplescafe (18) • United States 3 Dec 06

Just like songs, movies tend to illustrate the stories of our lives. Three movies that have done that for me are: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind Chocolat What the Bleep What's yours?

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He talks to his ex-wife

spiritfinger @spiritfinger (137) • United States 2 Dec 06

I can't stand it when my husband talks to his ex-wife. Before he and I were even dating we were living together just as friends and he was talking to her and thinking about getting back together with her. (even after she totally...

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couplescafe hmmmm... sounds like there's already at least 3 people in this relationship. the thing you have to ask yourself is why? why are you so unsure of yourself? aside from the fact that they do have this child together so he HAS to talk to her, why are you...

3 Dec 06

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couplescafe @couplescafe (18) • United States 3 Dec 06

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My boyfriend...

mayakup @mayakup (1303) • United States 30 Nov 06

seems to be acting really wierd lately and I can't understand why. He seems to be avoiding me and always acts distracted when I'm with him. He's changed so much and I don't know if he is planning to break up with me or if...

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couplescafe The real "why" you should be understanding is why you're spending so much time trying to figure it out... why you're not valuing yourself more... ask him! First... ask him Then... if you don't like / don't trust his answer; kick him to the curb Then......

1 Dec 06

An Intro to the Couples Cafe...

couplescafe @couplescafe (18) • United States 1 Dec 06

Welcome to the Couples Café. C’mon in, sit a spell… we’ll have cawfee, we’ll tawk… it’s very cas! Latté for the Ladies? Java-du-jour for the Gents? No matter… the goal is to brew the perfect “couples blend” mixed in the...