darendamejodi

@darendamejodi (15)

Philippines • Age 50

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Pregnancy...what were you afraid of?

Texassulcatas @Texassulcatas (88) • United States 22 May 07

I am in the process of trying for our first child. I am going to be 28 soon and would like to have my first before the age of 30. The thing is, I am TERRIFIED! I am so scared of actually being pregnant. I almost think it would be...

fears

parenting

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darendamejodi Yes, me too I'm afraid of that. Because of my experienced with my two kids. When I know that i'm pregnant, the worst thing that I'm scared of is the morning sickness. I thought it's only when i get up from bed that i feel bad, for me it's not. I experienced it...

22 May 07

do you cover your mouth when you yawn?

rojane @rojane (500) • Philippines 18 May 07

since i had discussed how contagious yawning is, i might as well ask how you view persons who don't cover their mouth when they yawn. do you cover your mouth when you yawn? do you find unethical those persons who don't? i...

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darendamejodi I do cover my mouth when i yawn, but sometimes i don't. I see to it that I will cover my mouth when I'm in a public places when some people sorounds me. I think it's a proper etiquette to cover it because when i see someone yawning and i see a big mouth..it...

18 May 07

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Do you rearrange furniture much?

susieq223 @susieq223 (3742) • United States 23 Apr 07

I seldom rearrange furniture, but we did a massive rearrangement this weekend. We needed to set things up better so my husband can get around a bit easier. He is getting steadily weaker and will be spending more and more time in...

rearranging furniture

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darendamejodi You know i love rearranging furnitures. As in moving inside and outside, placing left and placing it right side, upward and sideward. I love seeing a new atmosphere in my house, a new setting. Why? Because i'm very fun looking around seeing that my new cabinet...

23 Apr 07

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Am I being selfish? He's my child too!

dedicated_28 @dedicated_28 (1383) • United States 9 Apr 07

How would you react while anticipating the birth of an unborn child something traumatic happens and the child is born early with many health problems? Would you keep the child and take care of him/her or would you place the child...

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darendamejodi I don't think it is selfish, it is love that brings you to this situation. If I were you, I will devote my full time to my son just to feel him that i loved him so much. Maybe my other child and my husband will also understand that extra care and love will do...

9 Apr 07

Do you buy un-needed items just because they are sale?

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 9 Apr 07

Do you impulse shop? Do you have 5 of the same toasters different colors just because they go on sale every week and you will never find another sale like that one? Knowing you will never use all of them. Do you need to have a...

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darendamejodi Nowadays, sale are everywhere. Most of the shopping stores are going to announce they are "on sale". But practically, I am not attracted to it. Why? because it's there gimmicks that they are on sale just to attract people to buy even though they don't need it....

9 Apr 07

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happily married

Lanie0107 @Lanie0107 (12) • Philippines 29 Mar 07

I was 23 years old then when i knew that I'm pregnant. Afraid to loose my job and the reputation of my family i get married with my 1 year boyfriend with lots of hesitations. I'm not really ready to go to a life time relationship...

too young to get married

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darendamejodi I agree with you..we can be truly happy if we are fulfilled of what we are doing best. For me, I got married in the age of 25, got pregnant at the age of 26. I have a daughter named daren, age of 6 and a baby boy named daniel, age of 1 year & 8 months old. We...

30 Mar 07

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big fight

faith90260 @faith90260 (52) 25 Mar 07

early this morning my husband and I get in to the biggest fight ever. I was worried about him because he went to run an pick up a few thing at the house we were moving out of and was gone for 6 hours, no phone call no contact, I...

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darendamejodi Yes it is very true that eventhough we are in a fight with our husband we are worried of what had happened to him. In your case, he did not call and gone for so long, we are worried because there are lots of questions in our mind. Where he is now? Where did he...

28 Mar 07

Quickest way to end a quarrel with your spouse/bf/gf

Agimat @Agimat (355) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

I usually keep quiet for a few minutes and give her time to cool off. Then I just go to her and massage her neck or just put an arm around her. I don't have to say anything; she just automatically smiles and everything's fine in...

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darendamejodi Me too i usually keep quiet for a few minutes, because if he's in the midst of anger and if you continue nagging, the more he get mad. After a couple of minutes, i just go to him and say sorry about what happened, after that we will talked and discussed...

28 Mar 07

How do you control your children?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 26 Mar 07

My 2 year old is being really defiant at the moment. I have asked her to sit down and eat her lunch and she said she was tired. I gave her option of a nap instead but she keeps playing. I put her on the beanbag (my equivalent of...

children

control

punishment

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darendamejodi If i were that mom, first i will let him play first and in the mid of his playing, i will let him eat and play as if he is playing. Because if i will scold him for not eating, he will be crying and the more he cried the more you react and get angry with him....

26 Mar 07

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After A Break-Up, What Do You Do With Gifts/Items You Received?

biwasaki @biwasaki (1745) • United States 20 Feb 07

As I watching my usual Monday night line up of sitcoms last night, there seemed to be a common theme among the shows...what do you do with gifts/items that you receive during a relationship after the relationship has ended? Do you...

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darendamejodi I ended a 5 years relationship with a guy, within that happy moments with him, we exchange gifts.,like wallet, watches, necklace and even appliances. It's a big deal to me, when we broke up..it hurts because for the past years we've shared, it ended with tears...

25 Mar 07

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Would You Do This To Your Child?

creativedreamweaver @creativedreamweaver (7297) • United States 23 Mar 07

This happened in a local town close by. I have taken excerps of the article. But you can read the entire article at: http://www.mailtribune.com/archive/2007/0323/local/stories/shady_cove_child_arrest.htm Would you have handled...

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darendamejodi It so sad...depressing. My mother can do this to me at school? Where all students saw the scene? If i'm in her shoes, it is very discouraging & depressing..you know that when somebody was handcuffed by the police, we are thinking of something bad happened..and...

23 Mar 07

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