dencher315

@dencher315 (155)

Philippines • Age 74

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Why do some people look in other peoples windows?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 5 Aug 10

Why is it that when people walk past other peoples houses they seem to look in other peoples windows as they are going past.I have a man that is forever looking in my windows as he drives and walks past the house,this makes me...

looking

people

windos

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dencher315 Hi jugsjugs, I presumed you are beautiful,so as your house, the reason why that man always look at your windows every time he passes by. You know, a lot of people do that including myself but not all the time. You see, I love to see anything beautiful....

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How easy do you forgive friends

juliusports @juliusports (274) • Philippines 5 Aug 10

Do you forgive your friends immediately as soon as they apologize and be soory for what they've done?

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dencher315 Hi juliusports, You know, forgiving someone who offended you is a great act of humility. Yes, I easily forgive a friend once he/she apologized but if the offense is grave, I can hardly forget the situation even if I have forgiven the person already. Perhaps...

6 Aug 10

why do we always run for success?????

buddas @buddas (27) • Nepal 27 Apr 10

we always want to be successful. we always run for success but why do we need to be successful???

success

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dencher315 Everyone wants to be successful to get self fulfillment and satisfaction, otherwise your life is meaningless.

27 Apr 10

What is your biggest fear in life?

silvercoin @silvercoin (2101) • Lithuania 19 Feb 10

We all have fears, and it doesn't mean that we're weak.I believe that we are afraid of things we can't control and here's where those fears come from.My biggest fear is to fall in love.This wonderful feeling scares me more than...

fear

life

problem

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dencher315 Hi silvercoin, My biggest fear in life is to die unprepared emotionally, spiritually, and financially for my loved ones. I am still working hard for these. lol

19 Feb 10

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Don't you hate it when people call you 'MAM'?

Mady2791 @Mady2791 (545) • United States 19 Feb 10

Ooooh boy I used to hate that word a lot. I mean, you feel so old . Years ago when people would call me 'mam' I was like in shock..like say what? you called me what? . I would ask my mother "Mom do I look...

mam

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dencher315 Hi mady, Ma'am is use to address a lady with respect, to a stranger, and to older persons. Me?, I like it when anyone call me ma'am except for my husband. I hate it when people call me by my surname (without the Ms. or Mrs.) especially by my friends.

19 Feb 10

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What is rude to you?

tarapot @tarapot (144) • Philippines 19 Feb 10

There are people who act rude but are not aware that they do. We have our differences and also with different perception in many things. What particular attitude is rude to you?

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dencher315 Hi tarapot, Yes, people have different perceptions and attitudes towards some things. Why is it that people are rude while others are polite? Are we to blame their kind of upbringing or the influence by environment? There are so many factors that contribute...

19 Feb 10

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Do you feel sorry for homeless people?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 22 Jan 10

In many countries in the world there are homeless people. They live in cardboard boxes on the streets. They might be able to go to a soup kitchen if they live in a country like the USA. They could spend some time in a hostel for...

charity

homeless

poor

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dencher315 My heart bleeds whenever I see people on the street nowhere to sleep but on a piece of cardboard laid on a dirty side walks. I blame the government for it. A good government can solve this kind of problem if only they have political will and use the people's...

19 Feb 10

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Are you scared of dying?

mariashieryl @mariashieryl (61) • Philippines 16 Feb 10

Isn't scary to think of death, the end of your life. Isn't unfair that after growing up you've learned from school, from life, from experiences from everybody around you then you'll get old and you'll think damn I'm old now and...

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dencher315 Hi mariashieryl. Frankly speaking, I am scared of dying even if I've heard it so many times from preachers that life after death is beautiful. Maybe I can only say that I am no longer scared to die if I am already emotionally and spiritually prepared. I...

17 Feb 10

how can you say you are successful?

clouds0327 @clouds0327 (1389) • Philippines 16 Feb 10

We all have different perspective on what success means. Some or most of the people will picture it as somebody who is earning a lot of money, some will see it as being stable in all aspects. If I were to be asked I can say that I...

perspective

success

views

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dencher315 Hi clouds, Success means achieving your objective satisfactorily. For me, I can say that I am successful in my life if I am happy with what I am, and contented with what I have because I believe that each one of us has its own destiny and place in this...

17 Feb 10

do you make friends just because he is rich?

rosey19 @rosey19 (951) • Philippines 16 Feb 10

it is in reality that people choose people to make friends with. they have the reasons why they choose them. how about you how do you choose your friends? do you choose him/her because he /she is rich? what are your basis of...

friends

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dencher315 Hi rosey, It's so nice to have so many friends so I don't care if he/she is poor or rich as long as we respect each other and do no harm. But when it comes to trusting a friend, that's the time that I become choosy. I don't divulge everything to all my...

17 Feb 10

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How would you spend. . .

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 16 Feb 10

If you were to suddenly get a deposit into your checking account of $10,000 how would you spend it? You were expecting this money so it is not a error on the bank's part, but it is also far more money than you've had on your hands...

extra money

extraordinary spending

large deposit

luxuries

savings

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dencher315 Hi dorannmwin, Given the same scenario, I would do the same thing as you did. It's a good decision to keep the remaining money in the bank so you'll have something to use if you most needed it. You will also have a tendency to save more cause its so good to...

17 Feb 10

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How to introduce myself to audience ?

dhonitea @dhonitea (157) • Indonesia 14 Feb 10

When i want to introduce my self or introducing some one to other people, may i introduce the women first and then i introduce the man ? I know, there are the rules must be followed when i want to introduce but how do the best of...

be successful

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dencher315 In a formal meeting, the first thing to do is to introduce the people present according to their positions. If you are the master of ceremonies, you may introduce yourself first so your listeners may know who is talking. The order of introducing people...

15 Feb 10

Friends Come And Go

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 14 Feb 10

Hi Dear myLot Friends. Friends come and go. That is one sayings about friendship that usually goes in mind when one of your friends leave. I think it also goes on here. myLot members also come and go. After building the...

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dencher315 You're right, friends just come and go without even letting you know. Sometimes, you feel lonely if you don't hear from them anymore, but sometimes it doesn't matter, after all, you have a lot of friends in myLot. Unlike family, friends will not be forever...

15 Feb 10

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How much will it guarantee that a child will/can keep a marriage lasts?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 29 Jan 10

hello dear friends,mylotters,mere bhai/s,sister/s, How much it will guarantee that having a child will make a relationship lasts. Some couples were having problem for not having a child,and, sometimes create a big issue on...

kid in a marriage

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dencher315 Having a child or children in marriage is not a guarantee for some marriages to last. It depends upon how the couple work for their marriage to stay. It is love that makes a marriage last, for without it, your family is a disaster. Even if you have beautiful...

30 Jan 10

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When you attend a function, do you feel shy to eat in the first batch?

buchi_bulla @Buchi_bulla (8298) • India 29 Jan 10

When I go to any marriage or any other function, I feel shy to sit in the first batch to take my food. I feel others may think that I came mainly to eat and was waiting as to when the food will be served. So I sit in the next...

eating food in the first batch

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dencher315 I really don't feel shy at all if I get to sit in the first batch to take my food. Unless, there is a host or usherettes who direct the visitors where to be seated and what to do, I really prefer to be seated in the first batch. Why, because I don't want to...

30 Jan 10

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are friends are basic need of life?

deveshmudgal @deveshmudgal (2) • India 26 Jan 10

in our lifetime we face situations when friends give us more help than our family members............so what u think ..are friends more worthy than family??????

friends forever

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dencher315 Yes, we need friends in our lives. It is boring and a pity if people around doesn't want to talk with you. But friends are just friends and sometimes only temporary. People of all races can all be your friends but they can not give you the care that your own...

27 Jan 10

How To Defend yourself from FALSE ACCUSATIONS?

gambamarcela @gambamarcela (1011) • Philippines 26 Jan 10

If one of your friends or one your family members accused you for doing something you did not do, what will you tell them to convince them you're not guilty? Let me give you a scenario. You met a friend while walking on a street....

defend

guilty

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dencher315 You know, the scenario that you presented is not that easy to defend. The very first impression that will come into my mind if I saw a couple entering or coming out of a hotel is that they had a special relationship. But wait, is the girl or the boy working in...

27 Jan 10

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