Dluther89

@Dluther89 (33)

United States • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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To all people in mylot: Why are you hesitant to truly believe JESUS as CHRIST?

joseph_jedidiah @joseph_jedidiah (130) • Philippines 8 Jan 10

The Bible has been in circulation for many decades now. It is the number one selling book of all time. It teaches the Lord Jesus Christ as the Son of God who was offered in the cross of calvary in Mount Moriah which is the same...

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Dluther89 Some of us have had horrible childhoods, and based on what the bible says in Matthew 7:7 : Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. But based on this, being abused as a child, accepting jesus and...

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Can atheism (non-belief in God) make the world a better place?

joseph_jedidiah @joseph_jedidiah (130) • Philippines 8 Jan 10

There are people in this world who claim that they do not believe in God. People who deny the truth that a powerful God exist. People who lost sight of the fact that the moon and the sun was placed by God to give light the people...

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Dluther89 By your own statement, joseph, you are insulting all of us who do not believe. As if we are incompetent in some manner simply because we do not believe in your God. People can live without religion, indeed many do, and are very happy and peaceful. They are...

8 Jan 10

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The Weather Outside is Frightful.......What do you do when it's cold outside?

benhilo @benhilo (871) • Tripoli, Libya 8 Dec 09

Okay, my fellow MyLotians, what do you do when its very cold outside say -19, what do you do? I know about the fire thing and read a book. Well, I still got the fire going but I already read my entire library (2 books). Now what?

winter

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Dluther89 When it's cold outside I tend to stay inside on my wonderful computer, and drink hot drinks. Along with being bundled in blankets whenever possible. Oh! And we have a hot tub, and I love going in there when it is cold. I like the contrast!

8 Jan 10

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Do you plan or are you spontaneous?

callyw @callyw (191) 12 Nov 08

Do you like to make plans or are you spontaneous? Which is the best? I do both - I suppose most people do! My parents, on the other hand, like to plan everything in detail. My mother in particular cannot cope with something...

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Dluther89 The problem with planning everything in advance is that when you plan, and something unexpected happens, you have to do a lot more work to re-plan everything. You can sketch out ideas, but I think it's better to be more on the side of spontaneous, though not...

12 Nov 08

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Any wrong in boy marrying an older women?

cosmopolitan @cosmopolitan (1263) • India 22 Oct 08

Is there anything wrong for a boy marrying a woman older than him.My friend married a lady who was 7 years years older than him!!!Do you think it proper.

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Dluther89 7 years is a small gap! At least they were in the same time-frame, where things are happening in this world. If he can handle her being older, and probably being wiser, then good! It is very proper for someone to marry an older person, regardless of their...

22 Oct 08

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Should marriage be based on status?

cosmopolitan @cosmopolitan (1263) • India 22 Oct 08

Do you think that marriages should take place between persons of equal status.This happens mostly in case of arranged marriages which are solemnized under the guidance of parents.But in love marriages sometimes the status in terms...

mariage

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Dluther89 A relationship will be ups and downs, no matter what your status, and you will work through everything regardless of that if you truly are in love. Love is not a thing of fairy tales and happiness all the time. It is a working struggle, and each new thing...

22 Oct 08

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Last Night I Cried Over Him!

sheenarobins @sheenarobins (547) • Philippines 22 Oct 08

We broke up over 3 months ago. It was an 8 months relationship, mostly spent being far away from each other since he worked overseas. We always text and call each other, making each other feel special and loved even if we were far...

hurt

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Dluther89 There are many many many guys out there who woould stumble into your life, and that would make them the happiest man in the world. there is a reason to be sad, because it does hurt when someone you love leaves you hanging like that. But it will get better, it...

22 Oct 08

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what the f...?

ndaniel229 @ndaniel229 (419) • United States 21 Oct 08

My husband and I have known each other for a long time. And I've always accepted the fact that he is the way he is... just an average joe, he likes sports, he's handy, he gets dirty, he likes steak... he's a stereo typical male....

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Dluther89 Well, unfortunately, it seems odd that a relationship would flower without romance, but it works for some. Romance is important in a relationship, and I am with an amazing girl who I wish I could be with all the time, and show plenty of romance to. But it can...

22 Oct 08