dsailor

@dsailor (44)

United States • Age 50

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Would u b willing 2 embrace the religion of your loved one just to be w/ him/her

JER616 @JER616 (545) • Philippines 3 Dec 11

In the recently held Miss Universe pageant,a question was raised: "Would you change your religious beliefs to the person you love and why?" I believe this question was raised because there are religions today which require a...

embracing another faith

foresaken faith

religion

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dsailor I believe that faith and god is a personal experience and should never be forced on someone else for any reason. Everyone has their own religious beliefs and no one has the right to ask someone else to give up their beliefs for some one else's beliefs. I know...

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It's really starting to annoy me when she says this..

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 28 Sep 11

So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and we're both really happy. He started off going to college but it just wasn't for him so now he's probably going to go into the military. In the meantime, he works his...

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dsailor Tell your mom how you feel honestly and that what she is saying hurts you and that you would appreciate it if she would just respect your decision to be with who you want to be with.

29 Sep 11

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Is it alright to EXERCISE at Night?

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 17 Sep 11

Hello Lotters, I have been chatting with a friend for the past few days. Later I learned that she's been jogging every night and only eat less. though that was COOL i got worried because I was informed once that it could lead...

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dsailor I don't know about health complications from working out or anything but i like to work out at night cause it helps me sleep better and i wake up more energized than i do when i don't work out for a couple days.

17 Sep 11

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Do I have to be guilty ignoring the old woman?

bingskee @bingskee (5234) • Philippines 9 Sep 11

On my way home, I was walking hurriedly to the tricycle station, when an old woman walked towards me saying, "Ma'am! Ma'am!" I did not stop walking and ignored in fear she's part of a syndicate roaming the streets. I know I...

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dsailor Don't feel guilty, you have to be concerned about your safety and security first. If you are not comfortable dealing with strangers then you shouldn't. Really with today's society the way it is you just can't trust anyone.

9 Sep 11

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Because the Bible says so.

Oneironaut @_sketch_ (5742) • United States 27 Jul 11

Okay, so people are always telling me that they believe this or that because something that the Bible says. Okay, simple enough. I ask them why they believe in following what the Bible says, and they tell me that it is because...

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dsailor I believe in God, but i question the bible because it was written by men. Even if it was originally written by God it has been rewritten and translated so many times that i think it is probably inaccurate, incomplete and an unreliable source of Gods word now....

28 Jul 11

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if a woman slept with another man - should she tell him(his boyfriend)?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 23 Jul 11

Okay, so a girl accidentally, or was in such a flirtatious mood made out and slept with another man (not his boyfriend).. should this woman tell his boyfriend about what has happened when she was out with her friends or she should...

sleeping with another guy

woman

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dsailor I think she should tell her boyfriend. she will sleep better at night and if they make it through it without breaking up their relationship would probably be stronger due to her honesty with him.

24 Jul 11

Does not tithing make you less of a Christian?

catcai @catcai (1056) • Philippines 23 Jul 11

Hi friends, this is a question that I would like to ask the Christian community here at myLot. I started to accept Jesus as my lord and savior back in 2004- however I'm not as you would say a full pledged Christian, I was only a...

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dsailor No it does not make you any less a christian. The church likes you to tithe so they can pay their bills, but God has no need for money he just wants you. As long as you believe in him, have faith and live your life right, your as much of a christian as those...

23 Jul 11

Five more years and I am willing to go

EdnaReyes @EdnaReyes (2622) • Philippines 23 Jul 11

I have done what I should have done, I made mistakes and had pay the consequences. I have raised my daughter as a good citizen and fellow and now she's starting to have her own life...I think I have no more goals in life. I would...

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dsailor You know i mean No disrespect but i find it funny when people say they are ready to go. I mean every new day brings new excitement, desires and pleasures in your life, why waste it thinking of dying when you can enjoy the gift that God gave you to enjoy. Now...

23 Jul 11

Do you find it easier to write it down than express it verbally

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 21 Jul 11

I found myself suck at communication verbally. Whenever I talk on the phone, or speak to a person face to face, most of the time, I can't clearly express what I want to say. That really lower my self - esteem, since I am not a...

communication

verbal

writing

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dsailor It all depends on the situation, i would much prefer to talk about things verbally with someone to avoid any misunderstandings that can happen you you write, text or email. The reason i say this is because I've received some very negative feedback from text's,...

23 Jul 11

if you were me

cormiera @cormiera (278) • United States 18 Jul 11

if u were me and ur boyfriend loved u dearly shouldnt he want to spend as much time with u as possible? he works alot and when he comes home he is tired yes and on his days off he brings work home with him he always says that he...

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dsailor You need to let your bf know how you feel about him working all the time and that you want to spend free time with him and that its not enough just buying you the fancy things and gifts. It's the emotional connection and feelings that you have for each other...

23 Jul 11

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symptoms when spouse start turn his back on you

Erna1975 @Erna1975 (37) • Indonesia 22 Jul 11

He often come home late, almost morning, rarely pick up my calls, turned off his cellphone, a bit overreacted when he was saying how much he missed me, I can't measure if he really mean it or not... well, hey...? is he start turn...

cheat

spouse

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dsailor well don't jump to any conclusions, he might just have a lot on his mind and don't feel like talking about it and needs time away. You need to just sit down with him and talk about the whole situation and if he overreacts about it then confront him and ask him...

23 Jul 11

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