eidoj31

@eidoj31 (23)

United States • Age 55

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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At what age did you have your first serious relationship?

reco13 @reco13 (605) • Philippines 3 May 10

I was 16 years old when I had my first bf. I loved him and he loves me. At first, i also thought that this was just a puppy love and everything will also pass like what happens to most of my friends and their bf's. My parents also...

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eidoj31 I was 14 when I met my first love. He was 24,and in the airforce. He was gentle, sweet, and kind. Nothing physical ever happened between us because he respected my age. He was the best thing that could have happened to me. He died in 1990 in an accident at...

3 May 10

How can people be attractive if he is not handsome or she is not pretty ?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 28 Apr 10

Once awhile,I saw some T.V. stars or movie stars in the entertainment news.Frankly speaking,not all of them are handsome guy or pretty girl.But there are just something in those person who can be attractive or just look good on...

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eidoj31 simply put, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What is attractive to one person is not attractive to another. Human beings are often attracted to what is on the inside, not the outside, after all beauty is only skin deep.

29 Apr 10

Why do people put others down?

Flirtykumquat @Flirtykumquat (927) • United States 28 Apr 10

Why is it that people like to put people down? I know people that try to hurt people just to affect them and I think it is wrong. Personally I get attacked everyday and he says he is trying to make me stronger even though I don't...

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eidoj31 When someone is putting you down it is because they are insecure about themselves.They see something in themselves that they do not like. They can justify it any way that they want to, but it is them that has the problem. Stand up to the person who is putting...

29 Apr 10

Are you into Vampire movies or TV series?

a2beads @a2beads (100) • Philippines 26 Apr 10

Twilight, New Moon, Vampires Assistant are some of the movies related to Vampire Stories. For Tv series, we have, Trueblood and Vampire Diaries. The story of vampires suddenly gained interest and popularity and viewers are hooked...

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eidoj31 I absolutely love vampire movies. My love of Vampires started many years ago when I saw Salem's Lot. Every since then I have been fascinated with vampires. I loved the twilight movies, and am a huge fan of true blood. Go Vampires.

27 Apr 10

To those who are married..Not married.. and soon to be married, please read.

mayshella @mayshella (292) • Philippines 27 Apr 10

This is a long post and hope you give at least a little of your time reading it. This is timely for those people who are currently facing life's trial over their marriage. This is a good read... "When I got home that night as...

love

marriage

relationship

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eidoj31 I read your post and I think to myself, there but for the grace of god go I. I have been married for 22 years. My husband has a serious heart condition and has had several strokes. Throughout the years I have always been true to him and he to me. Even so, we...

27 Apr 10

what will you do when you fall in love with your workmate?

Joseph_Xu @Joseph_Xu (2) • China 26 Apr 10

fall in love with workmate

love workmate

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eidoj31 Falling in love,(or in lust), with your workmate is a very bad idea. Love and work do not go hand in hand. Think about this....what if after a brief affair, things don't work out for you? Then what? Can you stand facing someone everyday that knows intimate...

26 Apr 10

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Do you like your coffee hot or cold?

a2beads @a2beads (100) • Philippines 25 Apr 10

Most of us drink coffee everyday and with the various kinds of coffee and coffee shops there are so many choices for coffee. But one thing is for sure we choose it to be either HOT or COLD. For me, I usually like my coffee hot,...

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eidoj31 I generally prefer my coffee hot, However, I live in Georgia. There are many days in the summer when cold coffee is much nicer. An iced coffee can rate right up there with a nice vanilla shake in the summer. Either way, I enjoy my coffee and I drink it all day...

26 Apr 10

What do you prefer most, to be well liked or respected?

neelianoscet @neelianoscet (9615) • Philippines 25 Apr 10

Their are differences between the saying when you are being well liked or respected. You are well like when people around you accept you for what you are and for being respected mean you deserve it because of your position in the...

boss or firends

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eidoj31 I think for me,I would rather be respected than liked. In my line of work, with the position that I hold,respect is a much more desired thing than like. I have run into many cases where people do not like me for the decisions that I have to make, but they at...

26 Apr 10

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Wading in on... HEALTH CARE

Mike Summers @BCRMike (355) • Vanderhoof, British Columbia 25 Apr 10

Yup. I'm back. And I am now going to into your never ending health care debate. From a different angle. The complaint is the Obama health plan is going to cost more money. How much is open to debate. But, did you stop and...

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eidoj31 I agree with you that insurance companies are the heart of the money problem when it comes to healthcare. They get to decide how much they will pay and what procedures that you can have. If the insurance company deems it unnecessary, then it doesn't matter...

25 Apr 10

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Have you ever had to deal with unreasonable customers or people?

shimesasa @shimesasa (46) • Australia 25 Apr 10

I work as a waitress at a chinese restaurant/cafe. Everytime I work, I would have to serve customers who pisses me off so much. I've encountered so many that I lost count. One time, it was really busy. There were a lot of take...

customer people situation waiter waitress

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eidoj31 In the line of work I do, I run into unreasonable people every day. I am a nurse. For some reason, family members think that they have come to a hotel when they come to the hospital. Things that they would otherwise do for themselves, (if they can) they no...

25 Apr 10

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dreams

Lylascomments @Lylascomments (161) • United States 25 Apr 10

What's it mean when you have a recurring dream? I have had a few. This one really sticks out in my mind and I can't seem to shake it. It was about me in a clearing in the woods on my 4 wheeler and I saw 2 cubs. As soon as I saw...

recurring dreams

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eidoj31 I do have recurring dreams at times. Mostly though, I dream about family members who have passed on. I believe that sometimes our dreams are trying to tell us something. I believe that it is up to us to determine what it might be. Perhaps, you are concerned...

25 Apr 10

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Are you still interested in Facebook?

humairaku @humairaku (2038) • Indonesia 25 Apr 10

I think, days by days is getting boring more and more. today, I seldom update status. Not like few months ago, I updated status almost every two hours. . I always get many comments to every status I made ( my best...

boring

facebook

update status

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eidoj31 I am still interested in facebook. I find it very enjoyable to be able to I.M. with friends and family. Not only do I find it convenient, but it is also a great way to save on phone charges. I can talk with people on Facebook instead of making long distance...

25 Apr 10

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Do you have a problem on controlling your wants?

Andyvil @Andyvil (793) • Philippines 25 Apr 10

I usually determine my wants and needs and so far I really have a lot of wants. Although I usually control some of my wants there are just some wants that I can't control. One of my wants that I have a problem resisting is my...

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eidoj31 I do not have a problem controlling my wants. I think that with age comes the ability to know the difference in what you want and what you need. I think that control is the key for curbing heavy expenditures on what you want. The next time you feel the need to...

25 Apr 10

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Do you share bath towel to family members/ or individual one.

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 24 Apr 10

In my home we have an individual bath towel,A personalize color of bath towel for each family member to distinguished and to avoid mix up of using each other towels. I always have a white color bath towel and face towel to...

towel

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eidoj31 In my house, we do not individualize the use of towels. I have to much to do each day to worry about assigning each person his or her own towel. They are all washed and dried properly, so I say to each his own. No special towels here.

25 Apr 10