EldaFreya

@EldaFreya (37)

United States • Age 36

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Infidelity: Can you blame him?

melloncollie @melloncollie (661) • Philippines 13 Mar 10

Questions in a loving and healthy relationship. (1) Are you able to feel that you are well taken cared of? (2) Do you feel that your partner supports you in everything you do? (3) Have you two become good friends along the...

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EldaFreya But the problem in that situation isn't the infidelity or the excuse given for being unfaithful. A real healthy relationship is founded on communication. If the husband was feeling this way, and was in a healthy relationship, he should have said something to...

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Can cats see color? They like their new bowls better and it's the color!!

Tallygirl09 @Tallygirl09 (1380) • United States 13 Mar 10

I have several pairs of matching ramekins that I use for my cats food. I just bought some new ones that are exactly the same shape and size as the others. But they are a deep red color and they seem to really like them much better...

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EldaFreya Yep, cats can see in color. They don't have the same spectrum as humans, but they can see blues and green but have difficulty telling the difference between red, green, and yellow. Which would explain why they are interested in them :) Our cats only had one...

13 Mar 10

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Are there gay cats?

snowhybiscuis @snowhybiscuis (1882) • Philippines 3 Feb 10

I have two male cats, one is pure white and the other is also a white with black cap on his head, heart-shaped tail and a dot at his back. I call the pure white as Siomai and the other one as Siopao. I just noticed that my two...

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EldaFreya We have female cats that act the same way with each other. In their case though the one is much older, she is 17 while the other cat is only 6, and the younger cat was a kitten when we brought her home so the older one acted like a foster mom. We joke about...

13 Mar 10

Witch do you think is better dry cat food or wet cat food?

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 3 Feb 10

My cat eats a dry indoor cat food brand, but sometimes I wounder if I should consider switching to a wet brand. my cat seems to really like his dry food though sometimes I put just a little water in it, I think it helps his...

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EldaFreya We fed our cats both, they would get dry food most of the time and wet food occasionally as a treat, they seemed to prefer the wet food but dry is better for their teeth. If you kitty is happy with dry food then all the better!

13 Mar 10

Can your cat open a door?

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 2 Feb 10

I was amaze when my cat open the door of my room. She always come into my room every night and open it. At first I thought my mother is checking me or what because my door opens and the I realized that it is my cat.

cat open a door

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EldaFreya When our cat was about a year to 3 years old she could slip under the doors in our house, they had a gap at the bottom just big enough to slip your hand up to the wrist under. So we couldn't keep her out of any rooms unless we blocked the bottom of the door....

13 Mar 10

Sphynx/Hairless Cats

BeckieAnne @BeckieAnne (27) • Malta 25 Feb 10

So many people don't like these cats but I simply adore them, I think they are simply beautiful! I would very much like to buy one in the future but cannot afford them right now as most pedigree are over 1000 dollars. Yet i wanted...

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EldaFreya I replied to someone else's question about the same thing. My fiance's grandmother owns a sphynx. She is exceptionally sweet and loving. She likes to feel different textures against her skin so she'll rub all over people's hair and clothes. She likes to...

13 Mar 10

sphynx cats!ever had one?

punkgurl73 @punkgurl73 (248) • United States 11 Mar 10

hi,i am thinking of treating myself to 2 sphynx cats soon!have you ever had one?or maybe know someone who has one?tell me about it.

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EldaFreya My fiance's grandmother has one! Her sphynx is exceptionally sweet and loves climbing all over people and perching on their shoulders. She likes the feel of different textures on her skin so she will rub all over your hair and clothes. Depending on where...

13 Mar 10

Our cat is pregnant

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 12 Mar 10

This is the first time that we will have a cat which is pregnant and have her delivery. Our previous cats were male so that's not a problem. Now, were worried that she might deliver her babies in our bed. After we've done a place...

cat is pregnant

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EldaFreya I think a lot of people have already given you really good advice, just make sure to keep her safe, there is probably nothing you can do about her choice of where to birth the kittens! Good luck and definitely come back with some pictures to share once they...

13 Mar 10

best friends quarrel?

VIOLETdie @VIOLETdie (51) • Philippines 12 Mar 10

me and my friend was already been best friends for 5 years but we still haven't encountered any quarrels or misunderstanding. . .is it just okay? or Is it much better if you sometimes quarrel just like other people say for...

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EldaFreya I don't think quarreling is necessarily a sign of a healthy friendship/relationship. If you genuinely get along with someone and have no reason to argue, it doesn't mean your relationship is bad. The problem is when someone is in a relationship, a...

13 Mar 10

Afraid of clowns?

mjcookie @mjcookie (2271) • Philippines 11 Mar 10

Coulrophobia is the term for the fear of clowns. My friend probably has one. I found out that it isn't something to be laughed at just as what we used to do. One day, I even sent her a short clip of Pennywise (the clown from the...

coulrophobia

fear of clowns

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EldaFreya Ahaha, it is rather funny. He must have had a very strong negative opinion of them as a child and it just stuck. He doesn't even like seeing them on TV, even worse if they are intentionally creepy.

12 Mar 10

It will be my Birthday tomorrow.

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 12 Mar 10

I'm happy... :) This week is good and this will gonna be good also. I hope this will last longer. I really don't have plans for tomorrow, I'm contented to be with the ones I love. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to me, LOL.

my birthday

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EldaFreya Happy Birthday! Being with loved ones is definitely they way to make the most of a birthday because they know you best! :)

12 Mar 10

who thinks that gaia is not as fun anymore with all the adjustments and changes?

blumoon00 @blumoon00 (14) • United States 31 Dec 09

I go on Gaia quite a bit and i am starting to find it a bit boring because there are so many people on there and many people randomly spam the fourms. I also think that some of the changes are good but there are just starting to...

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EldaFreya I think its as good as you make it. I still have fun on Gaia but its because of the people I talk to on the site, not the things that they offer.

12 Mar 10

Who makes the better cheesecake?

vjenkins86 @vjenkins86 (1478) • United States 5 Feb 10

I love cheesecake! And luckily there seems to be more of a variety of this dessert than it use to be. Who do you think makes the best cheesecake? Wal-mart's bakery, Cheesecake Facorty, Juniors? And what's you favorite kind from...

cheesecake

cheesecake facorty

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EldaFreya Cheesecake Factory is great! I like making homemade cheesecake though, even if it is just from a box, it makes it so much more fulfilling.

12 Mar 10

Mashed Potatoes

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 14 Feb 10

When you go out to eat and order mashed potatoes as one of your sides do you prefer white or brown gravy on them? Or none at all? And cam you tell when they are made instant or made like homemade? I prefer the homemade taste!! How...

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EldaFreya No gravy for me, I like butter and garlic! Mmmm. I think homemade potatoes are the best but I admit I will often resort to instant mashed potatoes to save myself some time since I am a busy college student!

12 Mar 10

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There is a New Sushi Restaurant in My Town

cripfemme @cripfemme (7698) • United States 27 Feb 10

I hope it survives because they make good sushi and are fairly-priced. I'm concerned that they won't make it because a lot of businesses come and go in that spot throughout the years I have lived here. Also, Belchertown, for the...

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EldaFreya I live in a suburban area so we have lots of different restaurants to eat at and sushi places are common. I came from a very small town though so I know what you mean, many international restaurants tried to set up shop but it was rare for any to last too...

12 Mar 10

how do you fell when you got drunk

vikeyme @vikeyme (109) • China 12 Mar 10

once a time i got drunk when i lost my love ,i think its the worst thing i have experienced ,

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EldaFreya I've never had to drink to numb heartache, and hopefully I never will, but I have gotten drunk when times are tough or I am having a particularly rough day.

12 Mar 10

Who Is Your Favorite Simpsons Character?

TheWebGuy @TheWebGuy (241) • United States 5 Mar 10

Who is your favorite character on The Simpsons? Why are they your favorite? Mine would have to be Groundskeeper Willie. I just find him hilarious with his voice and the way the use his accent. Duffman is a close second-place...

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EldaFreya I'd have to say I can relate the most to Lisa so I tend to sympathize with her as a character. But Ralph and Sideshow Bob are probably my favorite characters outside from the main cast. Ralph just has some of the best random lines and Sideshow Bob can't really...

12 Mar 10