ergfortes

@ergfortes (516)

Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

living, laughing, loving

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Are you willing to sacrifice your life to save a friend?

deriellevc73 @deriellevc73 (982) • Philippines 27 Nov 10

we see a lot of scenarios like this in movies, a friend sacrifices his life to save that of a friend. But in reality, could we really do it? If our friend is in danger, are we willing to sacrifice our life so that, that friend...

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ergfortes for me it would depend on the situation. When i'm willing to help and if it is i know for a good cause i could say yes. it is true that you'll never find out your true answer unless you're already in the situation. But i believe that this life is given to us...

27 Nov 10

love VS friendly

Izallasky @Izallasky (6) • Indonesia 27 Nov 10

in this case, they are both very important in our live...if you have to choose which one is more important, love or friendly will be the chosen? for example : our friend has a beautiful and attractive girlfriend...by accident,...

love

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ergfortes in this situation friendship for me is more important. I will respect my friend and not bother them. There would be other people to meet. Both are precious love and friendship but you have to look at the situation and make sure that you are being just and not...

27 Nov 10

Being compatible

sammy14 @sammy14 (834) • Philippines 26 Nov 10

Are you compatible with your boy friend/girlfriend or your partner... Is compatibilty important in a relationship... Is being compatible to each other decrease the chance of misunderstanding? and if you're incompatible with each...

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ergfortes i agree that compatibility does help in keeping a relationship strong. Common interest would keep you both excited of sharing things with your partner because you know for a fact that both of you would enjoy it. Though i still believe that even people not...

26 Nov 10

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Hard to get along, help me!?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 25 Nov 10

I was a very difficult person to get along, feeling insecure and low self-esteem I really dominate. Now I am 26 years old. I always consider myself ugly, and others better. I really appreciate other people, but disfigure myself. I...

friend

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ergfortes It is only you who can help yourself. You need to accept who you are and appreciate what you have. We are all beautiful in our own ways, but you must acknowledge that on yourself. Try to freshen up, look at the mirror and tell yourself i'm beautiful. Others...

26 Nov 10

Have U liked or loved 2 people at the same time?

smiley83 @smiley83 (1534) • Malaysia 26 Nov 10

Hey friends... Well, I don't know what is actually happening to me at the moment!! I feel so confused and lost at the same time! I used to like someone few months ago.. he is a family friend.. then, another person came into...

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ergfortes It is in my nature to get attracted easily to people who are sweet and thoughtful, and this had made me fall for two guys at the same time as well. It was a little bit confusing when you try to figure who stands out more. When this happened to me, i try to...

26 Nov 10

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If you have a superhuman powers, what would it be?...why?

calebknox @calebknox (149) • Philippines 26 Nov 10

These past few days i've been day dreaming about having to make the time and the rest rest of the world stop for 5 mins.. insane ,, i know.. what if you really have superhuman powers?.. what is it gonna be?.. why?..what would you...

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ergfortes i most of the time dream of teleportation. Maybe because i'm far from those i love. I want to be in different places in short period of time. And so if someone needs me or if i want to somebody, i could easily do that in a matter of seconds.

26 Nov 10

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Have you ever think of coming back to your first love...?

xxj3ffxx @xxj3ffxx (501) • Australia 26 Nov 10

My first love was a painful one when we broke up. My mum was happy for me cause she think that the girl i loved wasnt the right one for me. I had loved someone who is much older than me. What to say.. love is really blind. We...

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ergfortes i was with my first love for five years, it has also been hard breaking up with him because i still love him then. i just need to move away because i'm in too much pain already. It's because of his ex and family, and i can't see him standing for me that's why...

26 Nov 10

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Would you choose night out with friends or spa session?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 22 Nov 10

After a long days of busy work, treating yourself for a spa session would be a good way to relax. Body massage in a spa would help you relieve the tiredness you felt. It's sometimes good for the body to relieve stress. However, I...

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ergfortes It would really be nice to treat myself for a relaxing body spa but i could always do that on my free time, so i'd rather go with my friends and hang out with them. It's not everyday that i see my friends and it would really be nice to chat with them and enjoy...

22 Nov 10

i believe that health is truly wealth

poshearns @poshearns (133) 22 Nov 10

this year had been especially troubling for us because our baby got sick 10 times in a period of 4 months. it was especially taxing for our finances, our emotions, our mental health, as well as our work. we were really worried...

health

money

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ergfortes this is indeed very true, as i have also experience this when my mom got sick. She was working so hard to earn money not considering her health condition. When she got too sick she was advised to retire because she can't fulfill her duties anymore. not only...

22 Nov 10

do you have sleeping habits or rituals?

acey76 @acey76 (1276) • Philippines 20 Nov 10

Do you have slepping habits or rituals before going to sleep or for you to sleep at night? i remember my highschool friend who wa've a mosquito net at her feet when sleeping she just rub her feet to the mosquito net to fall asleep...

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ergfortes some might find it weird what i do before i go to sleep.. i drink two cups of coffee. i can't sleep if i don't. they said that coffee would make you feel awake since it has caffeine but it has already been my habit to drink coffee before going to sleep.

22 Nov 10

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Earphone Causes Partial Deafness?

ivanmarginal @ivanmarginal (675) • Indonesia 17 Oct 10

Many people say that if we frequently listen to the music using earphone, sooner or later we will get partial deafness. So I avoid that. However, is that right guys? Do you have experience with that?

deafness

earphone

partial deafness

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ergfortes i was given the same warning before. I think apart from the volume, it's the impact of the closeness of sound to your ears. if you frequently use earphones, your ears is frequently in contact with direct sound. we know that very loud sounds or volume would...

24 Oct 10

How often do you listen to music?

lynlypiochy @lynlypiochy (706) • Philippines 18 Oct 10

I listen to music almost all the time. When I feel mad, I listen to music. When I am in love, I listen to music. When I am sad, I listen to music. When I am happy, I listen to music. It's like the music I listen to is my own way...

expression

life

music

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ergfortes i agree with you. music and songs could be a way to communicate our feelings and emotions. I do listen to music almost all the time as well. Whatever my moods are, there would be a certain kind of music that will compliment what i feel. I love listening to...

24 Oct 10

Play that song again

gloryacam @gloryacam (5540) • Philippines 21 Oct 10

I'm listening to Lionel Ritchie's The Only One. For almost thirty minutes now. Over and over. There are just days when I want to play a certain song over and over for a long time. Most people find it annoying. But, I don't...

song

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ergfortes I've been in this situation a lot of times already. I experience doing this when i can relate to the meaning of the song. Like when i heard this song from Michael Bolton "missing you now" i played it all day because i miss my boyfriend too much. and whenever i...

24 Oct 10

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Why do we close our eyes when we pray?When we cry?When we dream?Or When we kiss?

von_xy @von_xy (35) • Philippines 24 Oct 10

Because we know that the most beautiful things in the world are not seen but felt in our hearts...:-)

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ergfortes this is very true. the best things are not seen but felt deep inside the heart. This is also why inner beauty is a lot more important than physical beauty. it is not what you see or what your actions are but it is what you feel when you are doing it.

24 Oct 10

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Can you stay alone at night times in a big house?

Chaitra Vasanth @chaitra001 (3278) • Bangalore, India 24 Oct 10

Hi friends, Can you stay alone in a big house alone in the night times? For me I cant because from my childhood I never stayed alone atleast one time also.. always either with my parents and sister or atleast with my granny...

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ergfortes i do stay home alone, even at night but only in our own house. i do watch horror movies and get scared as well and have goosebumps but i'm already comfortable in my own room and own home so i could definitely stay there alone even in the dark. But if i were to...

24 Oct 10

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