fay511

@fay511 (43)

United States • Age 69

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What is the speed of internet connection you have

sranuradha @sranuradha (161) • India 1 Apr 07

what is the speed of internet connection you have? how much do you pay for it? Are you facing intermittent connections at times or is it reliable?

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fay511 Hi, I have a broadband connection and currently get 4.72 Mbps. I pay $40 a month but to me it's worth it because I don't have to wait for a page to load it's there within 1 or 2 seconds of clicking on a link. I've been with this company for over 2 yrs now...

1 Apr 07

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What is the right age for marraige?

pretty_angel @pretty_angel (908) • Philippines 1 Apr 07

I'm just wondering, is there really a right age for marraige? In other culture, they get married in a younger age, mostly in china and other country which practices fixed marraige. I just want to know you opinion regarding this.

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fay511 I don't think there is a chronical age that says someone is the right age. Some people are mature enough at 20 yrs old, granted not many, some by the time their 30 yrs old, and some aren't ready even at 50 yrs old! Marriage takes the ability to comprimise...

1 Apr 07

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What is your favourite movie and why?

Bell88 @Bell88 (370) • Malaysia 1 Apr 07

Tell me why. is it the actor is cute. Or is the actress so beautiful . or it can make you doze of the second you play it. OR prehaps it has good soundtrack . or the plot is really hillarious.

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fay511 Hi, my favorite movie is "Enemy Mine" with Louis Gossett jr. and Dennis Quaid. I love this movie because it starts out with them as two alien species fighting each other in a war and they both crash into an unihabited planet. They have to work together to...

1 Apr 07

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Do you like Men who keep long hair?

vickyjazz @vickyjazz (32) • India 1 Apr 07

I personally like men who have long hair because It makes them look different and they grab attention quickly. It adds to their personality as well as their popularity... I myself have very long hair but get criticized everywhere...

hair

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fay511 I personally love men with long hair. I find it to be very sexy! However it has to be well cared for, neat and clean, I don't care if they wear it straight down or in a ponytail as long as it's clean! I feel clean hair speaks for how well they care for their...

1 Apr 07

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High street, armchair or internet shopping? Which do you prefer?

hezoid @hezoid (2144) 31 Mar 07

There are so many ways to buy things these days! You can go to the shops yourself, order out of a catalogue at home sat at your armchair, surf the internet for what you want. You can even buy items while watching the TV these...

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fay511 I buy a lot of my clothes and cd's and such online. I used to shop in stores for clothes so I too could try them on but since I can't walk anymore trying clothes on is too difficult so I buy from two sites where I know what sizes fit me best and order from...

31 Mar 07

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What do you think of being a new parent at over 50 years old?

ironstruck @ironstruck (2298) • Canada 31 Mar 07

First of all, it takes a lot of physical and mental energy to chase after small kids. Do you really think that at 50 something is wise to be taking this on? Say the husband is 52 and his wife is 30. It seems that the burden would...

50 something

kids

parent

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fay511 I met and married a man twice my age when I was 19 yrs old. No I was not looking for a father figure. I had a father of my own. I had just never had anything in common with kids my own age. To me they were to childish, I was very grownup for my age. He was 40...

31 Mar 07

PTR - Check this out for a SCAM energy-mails.com

Carl79 @Carl79 (81) 31 Mar 07

I was just looking at some sites on Link Referal (free affiliate listing website) and look what somebody was trying to recruit members for. The site is called energy-mails but look at these terms and conditions for...

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fay511 I guess the old adage is really true here. READ THE FINE PRINT PRINT!!!

31 Mar 07

Work, rest or play???????

mummymo @mummymo (23706) 31 Mar 07

As most of my friends here know I am awaiting back surgery in a couple of weeks and am in chronic pain. Walking is both exhausting and painful but hey such is life! I work in a pub and know that after my surgery I will be off work...

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fay511 Hi, If you can take the pain, even though it leaves you exhausted, go to work and enjoy it while you can. As you said being home with nothing to do is enough to drive you insane! I have been where you are except for the surgery part. My back condition...

31 Mar 07

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When I hear the phrase "boys will be boys" my blood boils

CaroleeKaufold @CaroleeKaufold (1853) • United States 23 Mar 07

There is no excuse..... When I hear the phrase "boys will be boys" my blood boils. That phrase seems to relay a message that it is all right to be stupid, insensitive, and a jerk. It seems to allow boys to be disrespectful,...

boys will be boys

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fay511 Hoo Ray!! I agree with you! Boys are constantly seeing images of the "Bad Boy Gets Away With It" mentality all the time! Most of the boys that I personally know, sons of other parents etc, are brought up and taught better, but even here in this little tiny...

31 Mar 07

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what are the chances that one of you live near me?

CaroleeKaufold @CaroleeKaufold (1853) • United States 15 Mar 07

I live near Orlando Florida, how about you?

chances

orlando florida

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fay511 I live in Sanford, Maine

31 Mar 07

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Are you this kind of friend, do you have these kinds of friends

CaroleeKaufold @CaroleeKaufold (1853) • United States 31 Mar 07

In the play Les Miserables, near the end Jean Valjean says "to love another person is to see the face of God." WOW!! Everytime I heard that, I would stop the CD and think, what a wonderful saying. I think loving a person is not an...

birthday cards

friends

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fay511 You certainly sound like a very caring and loving friend to have and they and you are all lucky to have each other. I too have friends that I am very close to and we lean on each other in good and bad times. I'm sorry to say that due to circumstances beyond...

31 Mar 07

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Six year old girl arrested

Caila611 @Caila611 (992) • United States 30 Mar 07

A six year old girl was arrested at her school after hitting and biting her teacher. The school officials tried to calm her down but she was having none of it so they called the police. She was still yelling and screaming when she...

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fay511 First of all if she never behaved this way at home then I'd like to know what happened at school to cause it. Esp. since it happened twice in one week with same teacher! Are the parents to easy on her? Did teacher do something? Was it another kid and teacher...

31 Mar 07

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Someone has try to get to my account with Amazon.com!!

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 25 Mar 07

Through Paypal. I got two different emails from Paypal. thanking me for a reciept from Amazon.com, I know nothing about these transactions, I emailed Paypay and Amazon.com to let them know what was going on. PayPal told me If I...

account

online banking

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fay511 I agree with most of the other respondents here. This is definetly a SCAM! Never click a link in an email that hs to do with anything financial. Always go to those sites through a new browser window and close it when you're done checking it. You were very...

26 Mar 07

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Friendship Help!

cripfemme @cripfemme (7698) • United States 2 Mar 07

My best friend from childhood and adolescence, who stopped talking to me when I was 19. On the day, I told her I was bi. After she told me everthing was fine and that she would call me the next day. I thought she was being...

friendship

homophobia

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fay511 Have you contacted her yet? What was her response? If not I guess I'd have to agree with everyone else, start off with "Hi" and "How are you doing?". See if she responds to that. Maybe that will break the ice as they so. I hope so for your sake. It's tough to...

26 Mar 07

why are older brothers so mean to their younger sis?

hazbung @hazbung (17) • United States 24 Mar 07

i have this older brother who was just so mean to me that i am now holding a grudge against him. i am not proud of hating my brother but after all the injustice and bruises that i got from him, i'd be crazy if i still say that i...

brother

hate

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fay511 I don't know about being the older brother, I was the older sister. I was the oldest of 5 kids. I had three sisters and a borther. My mother worked two jobs because our father was an alcoholic who drank his paycheck and it was the only way to keep us all fed,...

25 Mar 07

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I was charged in a taxi for my wheelchair

smithy86 @smithy86 (137) 18 Mar 07

I know i have already started a discussion about taxis but i am just shocked to my very core. I got a taxi home from the pub tonight as it was starting to snow and they charged me extra money for the fact that i had a wheelchair....

life

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fay511 I am not in a wheelchair yet, will be by end of next month, it's just been ordered yesterday. I never even gave something like this a thought! I find the thought of being in one degrding enough but to be charged extra for it is unbelievable!

24 Mar 07

Waiting in line at walmart! GRRRR

nelly5 @nelly5 (1424) • United States 23 Mar 07

Okay can anyone tell me if they have this problem at their local walmart??? It never fails!! Every single time I go there, no matter what time of the day or what day of the week they will not have the appropriate number of lanes...

shopping

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fay511 Hi, I too find the walmart in my area is the same. I end up using the handicap cart even when I only go in for two items right near the front of the store! If there were enough registers for me to walk in, get what I wanted & be back in my car within 5 minutes...

24 Mar 07

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Fibromyalgia and medications Do you take?

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 9 Mar 07

I have been reading the posts and have found a number of them mention fibro and sometimes people mention what they take. I have had Fibromyalgia for over 20 years and about 3 years ago I started taking narcotic pain pain...

pain management

pain medications

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fay511 Hi, I've had it for 36 yrs now. I am currently taking Hydrocodone for the pain. I try not to take it but some days I really have to. Mine has progressed to the point that even with the pills I have all I can do to walk. As you said the pills don't take the...

24 Mar 07

Do you chew gum?

DFrodeo06 @DFrodeo06 (1325) • United States 24 Nov 06

yes i do

chew

gum

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fay511 I suffer from dry mouth so I've always chewed gum, but now that I'm on med's for blood pressure and such that cause dry mouth I REALLY NEED IT! LOL!

23 Mar 07