flaubscher

@flaubscher (16)

South Africa • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Why Do people Marry

prashanthalva @prashanthalva (2272) • India 1 Jul 09

IS it for Just Lust ............ Love .......... To HAve A Companion ........... To Share Life in Happy Days ..................................... Tell me Why .... I think This Can Get Interesting .......................... i Will...

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flaubscher I believe people choose divorce because it's the easy way out and responsibility is not an option. Really is sad. Marriage is sacred and should be treated as such. It is a serious step to take in life and should not be taken lightly. When i get married it will...

2 Jul 09

Why can't a woman be more like a man!

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 25 Mar 09

This is a song that Rex Harrison sings in "My Fair Lady". Personally, I am quite happy that the women that I know are not more masculine. However, and I realise how sexually stereotypical this is. Ladies if there was one "male"...

change a car wheel

toilet seat

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flaubscher Personally, i think i've learnt many traits of a man. I have a photographic memory, which helps when driving. I remember landmarks and that helps with the directions. I can change a tyre, plug, fix small things around the house. i don't ask for help unless i...

25 Mar 09

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like it?

sigmachisweetheart @sigmachisweetheart (1) • United States 18 Nov 08

Does anyone like it here? Where about are you in KS?

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flaubscher i guess i can't really comment on Kansas as i don't live in the US. I do live in South Africa, Cape Town and i absolutely love it. I love the weather, the people and definately the winelands where i work.

26 Feb 09

Do you speak to your neighbours often?

nabs24 @nabs24 (40) 25 Feb 09

Well where i live i regularly see my neighbours so i always say hi at least but when i'm free and everything we like to go outside and sit for hours talking about everything and just generaly enjoy ourselves. My neighbours are...

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flaubscher well, i only recently moved into our new house and on the one side, we have an empty house. On the other side we have a young couple that have just had a baby about a month or 2 back. I hardly see the woman but her husband comes outside to rollerblade and then...

26 Feb 09

Mommies or Daddies :) :How old are you when you had your 1st born/child?

myralmedo @myralmedo (815) • Philippines 24 Feb 09

hi :) i think i can consider myself as a youngmom i got pregnant and gave birth to a cutie healthy baby boy when i was 21 :).. thank God i already finish my schooling and had my 1st work then but my pregnancy was so sensitive...

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flaubscher hi, i was a young mom. i fell pregnant in my final year at school aged 17. My daughter was born premature as i suffered from hypertension. strangely enough she is the healthiest in the family and has energy enough for everyone else. she will be turning 9 in...

26 Feb 09

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Will you marry a guy or a girl is infertile?

ktosea @ktosea (2026) • China 25 Feb 09

A man just found out that his girl friend will not be able to give him a baby after a surgery,his parents are totally indifferent about this and they ask their boy to break up with the girl.the man don't know what to do,he is also...

family

infertile

parents

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flaubscher in my personal opinion, i believe if two people get married or promise each other to get married, it's for better or worse. not for children or no children. if you love someone, it doesn't matter if you can have children. there really are a lot of beautiful...

26 Feb 09

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aprilten @aprilten (1966) • Philippines 21 Feb 09

To those of you who have all boys/girls for your children, will you continue trying to have another kid of different gender? Or will you stop trying because you have enough children for you to take care of?

kids of same gender

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flaubscher i guess the question is if you can afford to look after your children. I have two lovely little girls. i was hoping for a boy the second time round but i wouldn't swop my girls for anything. i don't think i'd try again for a boy. the blessings i have with my...

26 Feb 09

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Drugs in the family, how does one deal with it.

flaubscher @flaubscher (16) • South Africa 26 Feb 09

I've always wondered how people got involved in drugs and how their families deal with it, until it happened in my family. My sister is 4 years younger than me and we found out that she was using drugs. obviously, the first thing...

drugs

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Do you belive smoking is bad

violeta_va @violeta_va (4831) • Australia 25 Feb 09

Or more so do you KNOW that its bad. I dont think there is a single person that does not know this so my question is why do people still get away with suing tobaco companies. So they got cancer from smoking and say I had no idea...

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flaubscher in my opinion, everyone knows that smoking is bad. the reason why they get away with sueing the tobacco companies is because they are excellent actors and manipulators. it really is your own choice to smoke. personally, i smoke and i would love to stop. I have...

25 Feb 09

Father or motherless? Does it really make a negative impact?

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 24 Feb 09

Does a child growing up in a home without a mother or a father have a BIG impact on them? I grew up with my mom as the primary person raising me along with my grandmother and my aunts. My father was around, and had remarried...

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flaubscher I agree totally. My eldest daughter didn't have contact with her father for years. i met someone else and he is so good to her and our daughter that they are both treated the same. there is no favoritism. you can definately see the difference in behaviour when...

25 Feb 09

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