garetamor

@garetamor (55)

Philippines • Age 45

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FRIENDS or LOVER?Who would you choose?

cheerldr @cheerldr (594) • Philippines 9 Feb 07

Let's take this situation: You have a new boyfriend/girlfriend. He/She's nice but your friends didn't seem to like him/her. You really love your boy/girlfriend and you can't afford to lose him. But your friends didnt like...

relationships

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garetamor love makes us blind. friends and bfs comes and go. at the end of the day, what really matters is who you're with when you're down and who makes you happy.

9 Feb 07

from feeding bottles to sippy cup!!!

alfa62603 @alfa62603 (192) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

I'm kinda worried or let me say SCARED of weaning my baby from feeding bottle to sippy cup when drinking her milk...to mommies out there, have you been succesful doing this to your toddlers???...the reason why I'm a bit worried is...

sippy cup

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garetamor same here. my son is 2yrs old already and drinks water and juice from his sippy cup. but when it comes to milk he prefers bottle.

8 Feb 07

Pseudo-relationship??

carlaurens @carlaurens (188) • Philippines 7 Feb 07

its been a year i started a pseudo relationship. and over those years i experience what you call falling in love and falling out of love. and what is difficult here is youre into something that you've created only in your...

psuedo relationship

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garetamor we always have a choice in life and whatever that is we must be ready to face the consequences. learn from it and live it.

8 Feb 07

what should my mother do?

andak2007 @andak2007 (3229) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

this happened middle of 2006 and concerns my parents. my dad had a mistress younger than me and my mother was not aware of it because she was busying herself gambling all night...she only knew of it when our neighbor told her...

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garetamor i think it would be better for you to just stay in the middle. your dad probably has reasons why he had an affair and your mom has problems as well because of her gambling. dont tell them to separate or whatever. they're old enough to decide on their own. just...

8 Feb 07

how do you feel about domestic violence?

taqwa9487 @taqwa9487 (24) • United States 7 Feb 07

nowadays being married is just not the same old walk in the park. men are becoming more and more abusive to their women as time goes by. its gotten to the point where they have many shelters for battered women. if you ask me men...

abuse

battered women

violence

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garetamor im lucky my husband isnt the violent type. but if that happens to me, no way would i tolerate it. i mean my parents couldnt even lay a hand on me. i know people who tolerate violence and their reason for staying is because they love the person. i cannot judge...

7 Feb 07

if you could go in another city..which would it be???

yahooguy @yahooguy (508) • Romania 7 Feb 07

if you could goin another city..which would it be??? and why??? personally id like to go to dubai because its avery richcity full of HUGE malls. i mean what else could you ask for????? what about you??

city

mall

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garetamor definitely in paris..im a sucker for romance.

7 Feb 07

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I'm bored of mylo t!!!?????? tell what to do...........

sanjaychawla @sanjaychawla (366) • India 7 Feb 07

i've been here for about 2 months. initially i was very excited to see that you earn the money here. But when i started using this, I realised that here we are getting the money very slowly..... I'm earning very very slowly. I've...

mylot

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garetamor just keep posting..i feel the same way..but what the heck, i have nothing to do so just stay here and wait.

7 Feb 07

are you married??

taqwa9487 @taqwa9487 (24) • United States 31 Jan 07

are you married or single?? if your not married what are you views and outlooks on marriage?? do you feel as though marriage is right for you or is right at all?? do you feel as though a person should marry the person they love??...

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garetamor im happily married. in marriage, love is not only factor to be considered if you want to marry the person. you should be ready to embrace everything about the person most especially when he is at his worst state.

7 Feb 07

mothers love???

king_rulz105 @king_rulz105 (114) • India 5 Feb 07

anyone agree with me that your mother's caring,sharing&loving is only when you are young i.e(kid)& then lost when you are grown up...then there is some kind of of barrier setup between you and your mom

love

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garetamor i am a mother myself. the day that my son will grow up and have a mind of his own is the day that i dont want to see. you see, my only wish is for my son to still need me as much as he does now that he's a toddler. but reality bites. i know when he grows up,...

6 Feb 07

Re-post. Really curious. How would you discipline a 1yr old?

Rosy001 @Rosy001 (363) • South Africa 6 Feb 07

1st time mom. i have a 14 month old girl who seems to be showing signs of a 'tantrum queen'. i dont believe in spanking as i feel she will not understand it only feel the pain involved. am i wanting to start too early to...

discipline

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garetamor i have a 2 yr old son. its really frustrating when they throw a tantrum specially when you're out. as early as now you should let your child know that you are the BOSS. when they throw tantrums in malls, grocery or wherever, tell them that if she doesnt stop...

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YOUNG husband and wife...!

firdaus313 @firdaus313 (47) • Malaysia 29 Jan 07

hi friendz..wanna ask about early marriage..give ur opinion about it..its OK or not suitable for this current time?as me,im married at the age of 20th..as for my wife, she's also 20th.. an now our age is 21st..hehe..sound...

wedding

young marriage

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garetamor age really isnt the issue here. the question would be is if you are both ready in all aspects. marriage isnt the happy ending that we see in fairy tales. it has a lot of challenges along the way. both of you should be mature enough to face the trials in life.

29 Jan 07

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What is considerd work...having a paying job or taking care of the house?

winky73 @winky73 (1404) • United States 29 Jan 07

I've had this discussion just this morning.I was told that he works seven days a week after I told him he just wants to be waited on hand and foot. Well I work seven days a week as well....doing laundry,paying bills,buying...

fair

paycheck

work

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garetamor well you know guys, they think this is a man's world. tell him to give you a break and if he says that what you're doing is easy tell him that you'd gladly switch places with him so he'll know how hard your work is too. my husband is like that sometimes but i...

29 Jan 07

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Is yelling at your children ok?

nexis777 @nexis777 (133) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

emotional

spanking

yelling

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garetamor it would be much better if we just raise our voice a bit or change our tone than to yell at them. we dont want to have a family thats always yelling at each other whenever a problem arises.

29 Jan 07

My dad

keepermykitty @keepermykitty (2573) • Canada 25 Jan 07

My dad just passed away, and the only will we could find was an old one. Just before Xmas Dad told me he had gone to his lawyer to update it cause he had made changes to it. My sister`s and my brother are the executers . Now it...

dad

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garetamor go to your dad's lawyer so that you can see his updated will. the hell with the lawyer's fees! im sure it wont be such a big amount rather than your oldest sister getting everything.

26 Jan 07

This Is The One Thing

Go Crossbones @crossbones27 (50069) • Mojave, California 26 Apr

This is the most happiest I will ever be About America Its theory but many were trying to go this way in 90's Its now a sad song but we almost had it/ It was neat how musicians were getting it and furthering along, stupid band...

garetamor This is the most happiest I will ever be About America Its theory but many were trying to go this way in 90's Its now a sad song but we almost had it/ It was neat how musicians were getting it and furthering along, stupid band by the name of Killers. Go...

26 Apr

Tips for breaking baby from bottle and pacifier

cheetahnc @cheetahnc (414) • United States 13 Dec 06

Does any one have any good tips for me to break my baby from the bottle and her pacifier. She is a year old and she does really well with the cup during the day and she will go all day without her pacifier, but at night she will...

bottle

pacifier

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garetamor we have the same dilemma. my baby is 2 and he will really cry if i dont give him his bottle and pacifier at night. i guess we just have to wait when they're ready to give it up. or just simply give it up and we must be firm when they start crying at night....

26 Jan 07

How big were your children at birth?

quispy @quispy (572) • United States 24 Jan 07

How much did they weigh and did you have them "naturally" or by C-Section? My first child was 9 pounds 11 ounces and he was natural. UGGHHH! My second was 8 pounds 12 ounces and I had an epidural. My third child was 8 pounds...

parenting

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garetamor i had a normal delivery and my baby weighed 5kgs..he was really small..

25 Jan 07

Is Love enough to get married?

maijes @maijes (18) • Philippines 23 Jan 07

As most of girls, we usually dream of a beautiful and perfect marriage for us in the future. But are you ready to face marriage life? I am only 21, but my bf wants us to get married before he leave for a business trip for about 6...

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garetamor when you get married, it doesnt mean that you'll live happily ever after. its a new beginning in your relationship. when you marry someone be ready for changes between you and your partner. if you are emotionally and financially ready then go for it. love isnt...

25 Jan 07

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Do you think kids love and respect their parents these days????

Stephannie @stephcjh (38473) • United States 25 Jan 07

Hi. I have a 14 year old daughter and she talks to me most of the time like a dog. She does tell me she loves me but as soon as she dont get her way about something, she says she hates me. She has got to do more in her young...

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garetamor oh my..i have a 2 yr old son and i wouldnt want him to treat me like that when he becomes a teenager. i guess kids these days are more aggresive, independent plus the environment is harsher now. environment and friends are a great big factor in a teenager's...

25 Jan 07

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