gbaben

@gbaben (509)

Russian Federation • Age 39

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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whAt would you do??...

ajay10shadow @ajay10shadow (5) • Philippines 24 Sep 07

i have some kinda problem about my life. About my friends, at first, i can hang-up with them. but as time and days go by, as i know them and even know me, i feel like i was rejected by them. but i didn't do anything wrong. i feel,...

friendship

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gbaben Maybe you are not compatible.That is bound to happen,life is a processes,the people that you are the same today can run ahead of you tomorrow.There is an adage that says 20 children can not play for 20 years.I think you need to change you levels,as you change...

26 Sep 07

I need urgent advice.. Should I leave my BF for this problem?

shrutisharma @shrutisharma (86) • India 26 Sep 07

I have my BF of 1 year. The problem that he is facing recently is that he is wetting bed at night. Once he wetted his pants while awake also in front of me. He was excited as he was kissing me(he told me so). Then he sat...

help

problem

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gbaben I really don't believe this!but if it a true life story,i think there is a big reasons for you to call it to a quit with him.The major problem he is facing is not a mature man problem.He need to take care of himself first.You need to tell him that.It might be...

26 Sep 07

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Writing Letters

worldwise1 @worldwise1 (14885) • United States 18 Sep 07

When was the last time you actually took pen in hand and sat down to write a letter? With sending e-mail being as popular as it has become, I am afraid the art of writing letters will die out. I used to write letters often to...

writing letters

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gbaben You have try to race up a good occurence that is almost existing every where.I try to look back at the last period i cultivate the letter writing attitude last,but i could not remember.I send e-mail a lot and if you don't have mail i forget comminicatiin with...

19 Sep 07

ON THE ISSUE OF SALVATION: do you think you are hellbound?

sevnthjuly @sevnthjuly (913) • Philippines 15 Jul 07

i'm a christian, still i have doubts on my salvation and fear hell!

religion

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gbaben You need to be fear of hell,because not until you salvation is real,sure and geniue you can not say it with bodeness that you are a candidate to heaven.I think you need to seat down and think about the place you have miss it,pray and tell it to God and HE is...

19 Sep 07

Heaven and Hell

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 4 Sep 07

I often wondered how someone could be happy in heaven, knowing that one of their children was in hell. Once I heard a clergyman answer the question by saying that we would not remember anything about that child. I'm wondering...

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gbaben I don't think it will be okay.but i also think from another paspective that it is possible for a fire to be burning both father,mother and children.The father will try to save himself first.So that is the kindom of god,everyman for himself,i think it will be...

19 Sep 07

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We Are All Going to Hell

manzano22 @manzano22 (77) • Philippines 17 Sep 07

Yes we are.. You wanna know why? Because all religions say that other religions will go in hell if they are not part of their religion and are not following the beliefs of that certain religion. And then the other religions also...

religion

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gbaben We can not all go to hell,because i beleieve that the certificate to hell admissin is not religion but yourself and what you have live your life for.An average human being can pridict where he or she is going to end his/her race.This is possible beacuse we...

19 Sep 07

A mother-in-law from hell!!!

honesty2008 @honesty2008 (447) • United States 18 Sep 07

I had one before. What about you....Tell the truth do you have a mother-n-law from hell?

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gbaben I am not a woman but i have had a lot of mother-in-law from hell.But the question i will keep on asking myself is that, those it mean that we men that has difficult mother should kill our mother before we get married?or i don't understand............

19 Sep 07

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My neighbors house is burning to the ground...

Feona1962 @Feona1962 (7526) • United States 18 Sep 07

I have never witnessed a house burn to the ground...the whole house is up in flames. The fire fighters are putting it out as I type this..My heart just hurts to watch it...Not sure if everyone got out yet or anything...I am just...

fire

house

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gbaben I witness something of that nature over a year ago,is only by the grace of God that the old woman in the house was not get burnt.I believe something of that nature can not do without happening in our society, what we just need to do, is to be careful with...

19 Sep 07

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do you agree that health is wealth? why?

napatu @jogie_bien (1103) • Philippines 8 Jun 07

can you share your opinions? thanks

people

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gbaben we will like to know your own opinion too........ Health is wealth!i believe in this saying because as we have only one life,a life without photocopy or duplicate.There is a need for you to treasure it.Wealth is anything we treasure,anything we give a good...

9 Jun 07

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count your blessings..

victoriacrisostomo @victoriacrisostomo (136) • Philippines 9 Jun 07

Life has so much to offer.Yet, admittedly we take a lot of things for granted.If today were your last day on earth, what things would you regret not having done?

life

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gbaben I regret not having a wife.I believe that a married man is a fulfiled man.So for me to die without getting married is a regret,and i will need to ask from God if i can have part 2 of my life.

9 Jun 07

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Help! My cat keeps waking me up at night.

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 4 Jun 07

I don't think I've had a good night's sleep in a year. My oldest male cat runs around during the night, knocking stuff off tables, and waking me up. Or, he'll come right up to me and jump on the bed and talk really loud until I...

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gbaben I don't love cat.I think in as much as it as been your for a long period of time,and the cat is trying to develop a new character,there is a great need for you to replace it with a new and young cat.Because i have got to discover that animals too can do some...

5 Jun 07

You Won't Believe What Happened To Me Last Night! What would you have done?

terri0824 @terri0824 (4991) • United States 4 Jun 07

Last night I went to pick my daughter up at K-mart after receiving a call from her to pick her up. Once I got there, there was a truck in the parking lot, drove up real quick as I was picking her up with two of her friends. They...

antenna

life

small claims

what would you have done

you wont believe what happened

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gbaben I love what you did.in a situation like that,you firstly ran for you dear life and later sit down to hear a full story.

5 Jun 07

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honesty or corruption?

krantib1 @krantib1 (59) • India 2 Jun 07

What is the success mantra at WORKPLACE? is it honesty or corruption?

workplace

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gbaben No matter how big an organisation is,but if the foundation is laid on Corruption the end result is zero.So i believe so much in honesty.

2 Jun 07

Honesty is the best policy? How far do you agree?

BRIJENDRA @BRIJENDRA (926) • India 14 Apr 07

Hello everyone,there is an old saying and proverb that honesty is the best policy.In our school days we used to write essay on this.But in this era,rarely we heard this from anyone mouth.Followers of this policy are said to be...

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gbaben i still believe this saying.when you are honest you are doing it to yourself and not any other person.And i know that nothing you do to youself either good or bad that you will not see the end result.

2 Jun 07

My Sunday school teacher said...

mjsdls @mjsdls (1840) • United States 22 May 07

that her boss made this statement one time, " you only lie when it is more convenient than the truth." But the bible says do not lie. That also includes what people consider a "little white lie." When you think of it what is a...

honesty

lie

truth

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gbaben I have been among people that usually call one set of lie "a holy lies" that God is also in tune with it.All this Are human deceptions,let us call a spade a spade,either big Lies or Small lies,Lies are lies and they are all nothing but bad.i hate it.

2 Jun 07

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1 person

The Truth Or Lies?

princeworthy @princeworthy (1909) • United States 2 Jun 07

I have an interesting question for all of you at Mylot. Does it make you madder (is that a word) to be lied to or to just be told the truth in the first place. My husband has a habit of lying to me when he knows that the truth...

relationships

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gbaben If i get to know that you have lied to me once i will not agree with everything you are telling me some other times with good faith.first impression last long.

2 Jun 07

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Do you keep letters?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 29 May 07

Do you keep letters from your old friend, crushes, lovers, and even from your childhood sweethearts?Later this morning I was cleaning my storage room when I saw a box with my old files and some note and papers, aside form the box...

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gbaben There are letter and there are letters!!! I mean letters are more importants than one another.I love keeping letters that i can easly reffers to in future.

2 Jun 07

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What are the good qualities your friend has that you like to have?

Bala @balasri (26537) • India 1 Jun 07

Or already got inspired.

friend

qualities

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gbaben Oh! i have a friend that is always optimistic,even when it seems to be no hope.i like that, i wish i should be able to do that.

2 Jun 07