graedragon

@graedragon (329)

United States • Age 52

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Am I a Bad Mom?

aidenofthetower @aidenofthetower (1814) • United States 19 Dec 07

I was talking to my mom (who lives with us) today about having a baby. My husband and I hope to add a baby girl to our family. Right now we have a 17 month old son. My mom says, "Why, would you want to have another baby? You don't...

motherhood

parenting

toddler

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graedragon You are not a bad mom, In no way shape or form. It seems to me that your mother is saying these things to make herself feel better and to make you feel like cr--. Don't let her do that to you. You and your husband need to do what you feel is right. Don't let...

24 Jan 08

Do your kids complain about your cooking.......

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 22 Jan 08

My kids just dont like eating.Whatever I cook they have a problem with it.My 6 year old we have to force to eat.I dont know what their problm is.At one point we were even giving them appetite medication from the doctor.Are your...

cooking

eating

kids

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graedragon With my kids it depends on the day. Sometimes they are picky sometimes not. The other nibht I mad ethe kids their favorite hamburger helper and he would not eat. He just sat there staring at it. I couldn't believe it. On the other hand my 2 girls chowed. It...

22 Jan 08

which character do you like in x men

amsiddhu @amsiddhu (80) • India 21 Jan 08

hey friends which character do u lke in x men i like wolwerine since he looks cool and has awsome energy

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graedragon O.K I know this sounds bad but for the life of me I can't remember her name. My favorite is the girl who draws the power from whoever she touches. I just can't remember.

21 Jan 08

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what do you think of my avatar ?

snoopypoos @snoopypoos (363) 21 Jan 08

i designed it myself, in an indiana jones style. i superimposed myself on a photo of indy himself, do you think i am crazy or do you think it is good fun. are my photoshop skills any good? what makes you decide what to use a...

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graedragon I think you did a good job on it. I would never try to do that. My daughter is the one that is good at that stuff. If you look at my avitar it is a drawing done by my oldest daughetr. That's why i let her do that stuff. She is awesome with comtures and...

21 Jan 08

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Do you have the best husband?

LouRhi @LouRhi (1502) • Australia 21 Jan 08

Without a doubt my husband is up there with the best of them, if not the leader of the pack. They say it is the little things that count and this is where my husband takes the cake. For example we are both smokers of tobacco...

husbands love

thoughtfulness

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graedragon I really can't think of one that stands out. He does so much for me that if I tried would be discrediting him. I agree it's all those little things that make us happy.

21 Jan 08

Argument with Spouse/Partner

SViswan @SViswan (12051) • India 21 Jan 08

What if an occassion arises when you do not see eye to eye with your partner/spouse in public? Would you argue irrespective of who is around (family, neighbours or strangers) or would you wait to get back home or some place...

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graedragon I have never understood why poeple have to let the whole world know what is going on. Sometimes you just need to keep your mouth shut until you have a place to discuss it. I was with a mna that would degrade any chance he had and he didn't care where we were...

21 Jan 08

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Would it be right?

honeylore23 @honeylore23 (1081) • United States 21 Jan 08

My sister is already married with two daughters. She is working as a teacher in a remote areas, while her husband has no permanent job - but as of now according to her, has just started a job. Their kids left with no one to take...

family matter

incentive

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graedragon By all means you rsister should be sending money for her kids. These children are her responcibilty not your mothers. Nor should your mother have to ask for money to feed, cloth and keep a roof over their heads. This makes me upset because I was a single mom...

21 Jan 08

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Love or Religion?

honeylore23 @honeylore23 (1081) • United States 21 Jan 08

When I was in college, I worked to one of my teacher and I have accidentally read the letter of her boyfriend. (I didn't intend to read it, but then it was open and the letter really caught my attention). In the letter, she was...

choose between love and religion

dilemma

love vs religion

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graedragon I would have to say it would be no choice. I would go with my boyfriend. If I did truley love him then there would be no dilmma. I see it this way, without love in your life then what else is there. There is also the love of reliegion and this for many people...

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my girlfriend is such a flirt

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 21 Jan 08

I have a girlfriend that is such a flirt,and she is married by the way.I often wonder why she does it,I suppose for the attention she receives.Her husband has no idea that she acts this way because around him she is a perfect...

flirt

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graedragon I would have to say that you should probably leave it alone. She is looking for attention and even when you say something she is getting that attention. Her husband will find out in due time and wether he gets mad or not she will have to deal with it.

21 Jan 08

Which do you do most on the internet.......

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 21 Jan 08

What do you use the internet most for?Do you use it more to socialize,chat,work,play games,business,or make money?What do you think people did before the internet was around??lol.I think that I use it most to socialize with my...

internet

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graedragon I've been using it more for work anymore. If it's not work then it's school, if it's not school or work i really don't get on much.

21 Jan 08

Is your life working out the way that you had planned???

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 21 Jan 08

Is your life working the way you planned it out?Are you getting what you wanted out of life?What could you do to make it a little better for yourself?

life

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graedragon If my life had turned out even half the way I had wanted it to when I was young I would be so much futher aheasd but then I would not have my 3 wonderful children. I really don't think I would go back and change anything. I have A wonderful husband now who...

21 Jan 08

My sons class is taking a trip and are loking for ways to raise money.

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 21 Jan 08

My sons class is taking a field trip and are looking for ways to raise money so that the parents dont have to come up with the money to pay for the trip.Any good ideas on things they can do with little help from the parents,so...

field trip

raising money

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graedragon I would have to say do a Bake Sale or Fund Raiser. Maybe a craft sale or have a raffle for something. Like maybe the winner gets to throw a pie in the principals face.

21 Jan 08

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Would you ever....

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 21 Jan 08

If your husband/wife asked you to participate in a threesome,would you?I dont thin icould partly because I am mean and I wouldnt want to share him with anyone else.Would you do it?Have you ever done it?What was it like?Were yo...

sexual pleasures

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graedragon I've never done that and I really don't think I could bring myself to do it. Sharing is not one of my strong points.

21 Jan 08

Do you sing while having a bath?

cherubgardenia @cherubgardenia (151) • China 14 Jan 08

i like to sing a lot, expecially when i am taking a bath. this is my way of relaxation. however, some people think that singing in the washroom is kinda rude. and my roomate thinks it is annoying and drives her crazy. what...

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graedragon I would sing. I fyou re having fun then go with it. I'm sure that your roommate has things that annoy you also. I'm not one to sing in the bath. I like to read. That's how I relax.

20 Jan 08

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Interracial relationships

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 11 Jan 08

How do you feel about interracial relationships?Does it make a difference to you?Why or why not.I think its whats on the ins.ide that counts.I am a white lady and I have been married to a black man for ten years now.We have 3 kids...

interracial relationships

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graedragon I think it's all about how someone thinks or is raised. I personally have never had a problem with interracial relationships. It's what is in the heart that makes a person not the color of the skin. If more people thought about the heart and not the color then...

20 Jan 08

What would you do if your 15 year old.........

neelygal @neelygal (1022) • Bahamas 19 Jan 08

What would youdo if your 15 year old son came home and told you that he had a girl pregnant?How would you handle it?How wold you feel?I think I would be ready to kill him.Would you make him take responsibility for the child after...

teen pregnancy

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graedragon I would want to kill him. I would probably be close to wringing his neck but in the same since I would want to know what he planed on doing. What he had already thought about. I would want him to face the responcibilty of what he had done. If he was...

20 Jan 08

Many says, nowadayw, to be a teacher is becoming difficult?

honeylore23 @honeylore23 (1081) • United States 16 Jan 08

To be a teacher is very difficult nowadays, especially that our technology becomes more advance. Teacher should be aware and know all the basic needed in teaching. Just like when the internet starts, many teachers were ask to...

to be a teacher is difficult

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graedragon It's hard for those teachers that cannot keep up with the newest technology. If the teacher is open to the students teaching them then they will mske it easier on themselves and the students. Teachers need to be open to this in order to keep up with the...

20 Jan 08

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