hearmyview

@hearmyview (69)

Malaysia • Age 70

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Curious or Busybody?

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 16 Jul 08

You are stuck in a massive traffic jam, to find out later that there was an accident. Would you stop your car by the side and watch, or slowly drive past, or go as fast as you can? You saw a crowd of people surrounding 2 men or...

busybody

curious

stop to watch

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hearmyview Everyone of us is curious in one way or the other trying to find out what happened or what is going on over there. Whereas, busybody means meddles or pries into the affairs of others. So being curious, is short of being busybody. Being curious is just looking...

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In whose company you are more comfortable? Men or women?

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 27 Jun 08

Sad to say, I feel more comfortable with guys; maybe because of interests more than anything else. I enjoy conversations about politics, economics, football, investment....but I also found that guys are really big gossips too....

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hearmyview It's body chemistry. If you like the body chemistry of someone (whether male or female) both of you will click together. Sometimes you just don't really like somebody say or do anything. You don't even like the smell of that person. That's body chemistry....

24 Jul 08

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Do you have your TV or radio on?

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 23 Jun 08

When you are using your PC for work or MyLotting, do you have your TV or radio or any music on? I'll have the TV on - background sounds. I'll listen to the movies or news, while working or MyLotting. It breaks up the...

music

radio

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hearmyview Lazeebee, I normally do multi tasking. While at the PC, most of the time my TV is also on. Not only that. I might be Mylotting while toggle over to read news or emails or even listening to songs from You Tube when the TV is off.

23 Jul 08

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What would you do when someone cut in front of you?

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 14 Jul 08

I was standing in a queue that seemed to last forever. I've been there for about 15-20 minutes when I noticed this woman inching towards me. As the line moved, she started to cut in, right in front of me. I told her nicely, to...

cut queues

refused to move

rude

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hearmyview I would have done the same thing as you. At worst, when it is supposed to be my turn, I will tell the person at the counter what happened. I will say that the one in front of me cut queue. So he should serve me first. We got to be careful. Sometimes those...

23 Jul 08

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Do you have a favourite coffee or tea mug?

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 20 Jul 08

Do you have a favourite coffee or tea mug that you usually use? My 2 year-old niece presented to me a coffee mug for my birthday. I was born in the year of the dog (chinese zodiac), so they got me a mug that has a...

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hearmyview My Chinese zodiac sign is a horse and the English one is crab (Cancer). I don't have mugs with these signs. However, during one of my birthdays, a few years back, my brother from Australia bought me a pair of mugs. Written on one of them is "I am Stupid" and...

23 Jul 08

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Do you have a favourite song or music?

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 30 Jun 08

A favourite song or music can cheer us up, bring back memories or just to de-stress after a hard day at work. When I feel good, I'll play Boyzone's "Baby, Can I Hold You Tonight?" It is a real sexy song - makes me really relaxed....

favourite song or music

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hearmyview I like to sing especially at Karaokes. As such, there are a lot of songs which I like. Most of the time I have to sing songs that people like to listen and not what I like to sing. However, I do sing those songs that I like. I can sing your favourite song -...

23 Jul 08

Can you last a day without talking .....

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 21 Jul 08

Can you go through a day without talking to anyone, not even on the phone? I've done that before - once or twice, when my husband was overseas, and I was all alone at home. It was rather nice - very peaceful, and...

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hearmyview Not easy but can be done. I have done it before. I will be spending my time at my pc or sing karaoke or watch DVDS or TV.

23 Jul 08

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What do you do after dinner?

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 22 Jul 08

Each evening, after dinner and cleaning up, I'd have my shower, and would look forward to spending the rest of the evening, relaxing! I'd either read a book, watch TV (if my favourite shows are on), watch a movie on...

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hearmyview After dinner is the time to relax and rest. As for me, my wife will do the dish washing while I wipe the dinner table clean, throw away the rubbish and take my shower. After refreshing myself, I will be reading news ( business, political ) at the internet...

23 Jul 08

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can u marry with a girl/boy without knowing her/him

rochakrs @rochakrs (36) • India 12 Jul 08

hi...friends the basic structure of any realeation is understanding to our life patner so can u marry with a girl/boy without know about his nature just becouse of ur parents?

marry

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hearmyview This situation can happen but seldom nowdays. People are cleverer and smarter. They know that they have choices as lifetime partners. It is very common in olden days where marriages are prearranged.

16 Jul 08

secret marriage

heart4u @heart4u (409) • Philippines 13 Jul 08

are you in favor of this so called secret marriage where in only the two of you knows your married but not your family and friends. how was it huh?! what can you say? are in favor of this thing? actually my mom and dad did this...

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hearmyview Why did your mum and dad have a secret marriage? Was there any objection from anyone? There must be a reason. I am not against it. Marriage is an auspicious occasion. The couple should be joyest. Everyone should be happy for them. Right? So why get married...

16 Jul 08

Would you let someone else breastfeed your baby?

madebyrobyn @madebyrobyn (616) • Australia 15 Jul 08

A friend of mine who is breastfeeding her 3 month old baby is going into hospital for day surgery (and wont be able to breastfeed her baby for 48 hours afterwards so that her breast milk does not contain the anesthetic). She has...

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hearmyview I believe a woman's milk is suitable for all babies. Most women have enough for their own babies only. The main conecern actually is the health aspect of it. I mean the woman is healthy and have no disease. In times of war or famine, you have no choice if the...

16 Jul 08

Florida man suffocates baby while sleeping. Should he have been arrested?

spalladino @spalladino (17891) • United States 11 Jul 08

The following tragic accident could have been avoided but do you agree that this father should have been charged? LEHIGH ACRES, Fla.- A Lehigh Acres man has been charged with manslaughter in the suffocation of his infant...

death

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hearmyview It depends. We must know more about the man. Why is he caring for the baby. Was he aware that he was not supposed to sleep next to the baby? From the facts of the case, I believe he loves and he cares for the baby. He was trying to feed the baby inspite of the...

12 Jul 08

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Introducing the new myLot look

myLot! @myLot (127) • Kansas City, Missouri 11 Jul 08

Wow, myLot looks incredible! We hope that is what you are going to say when you look around. We have added some new features and moved some things to different locations, but overall it is still the same myLot that you have always...

mylot

upgrade

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hearmyview Excellent! Changing for the better or for a new look is always good provided those who are using it are not lost with your new look. We must always change to move forward or else we will be left behind. The users would have been happier if there were also...

12 Jul 08

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What Do People Think of Military Wives?

DresWifey25 @DresWifey25 (22) • United States 2 Dec 06

I am a 24 year old Army wife and with all the drama and talk about the war and soldiers being killed , I am curious to know if us military wives are thought of by the general public. I personally don't think we deserve extra...

military wives

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hearmyview Normally families of soldiers are very closly knitted. If a soldier is killed, a close friend will b expected to take care of the dead soldiers wife and family. This is an unwritten social contract. Am I right?

8 Jul 08

Have you ever loved a married woman/man?

maple_kisses @maple_kisses (2156) • Philippines 4 Jul 08

I always love Whitney Houston's "Saving All My Love For You". It's a woman's song for a man who isn't hers and can't be hers because the man is already married. No, I have not been involved with a married guy. I just love the...

marriage

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hearmyview You are so lucky. That guy really makes you feel good. Can't blame you. Love cannot be forced. Timing and situations also count. Sometimes you may not like a person initially. However, with his persistence, you might just slowly and surely fall for him. There...

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Did you see the new study on green tea?

estherlou @estherlou (5015) • United States 4 Jul 08

We've been hearing quite a lot about the health benefits of green tea over the last few months. Now a new study says it helps keep the arteries of the heart flexible, relaxed and dilated...thus more healthy. They are not ready to...

green tea

heart health

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hearmyview i have been drinking green tea regularly. Keep it warm. Drinking cold tea on empty stomach may give you stomach problem. My personal experience is that I seldom fall sick nowadays. I used to have to take antibiotics every now and then for flu and rhinities. An...

5 Jul 08

Are you an Optimist or a Pessimist?

selece @selece (2357) • Philippines 22 Jun 08

An optimist looks at life in a positive way, believing in good things. He expects the best possible outcome of a given situation. A pessimist on the other hand, is the opposite of an optimist, he expects or looks...

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hearmyview Can I add on to this interesting definition? An optimist can also be a person who have tried but failed. On the other hand, a pessimist is a person who failed to try. For me, I rather try and fail, than to fail to try. Am I an optimist?

22 Jun 08

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Coffee - how many cups per day?

lazeebee @lazeebee (5461) • Malaysia 16 Jun 08

How many cups of coffee do you drink in a day? I used to drink up to 5-6 cups per day; but then it tended to 'heat' me up; so I cut down to 3 now. I tried to substitute with tea; the last time I drank tea before bedtime, I...

coffee

no substitute

tea

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hearmyview Coffee is not my cup of tea. My intake of tea is more than coffee. I do not take coffee on empty stomach because it cause some discomfort. I also heard that too much caffeine is not good for health. Coffee is also not good for people who find difficulty in...

22 Jun 08

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