heartsoul

@heartsoul (311)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you feel the spirit of Christmas?

taki_takaishi @taki_takaishi (1279) • Philippines 8 Dec 09

It has been a long time since I wrote in myLot. I think I was inactive for like 9 months, I have been busy, but I guess, it is time to start knowing more about other people's ideas. Anyways, a lot has happened, and sad to say,...

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heartsoul Hi there! I am glad this will be my first response after a long time absence, probably 1 year. It is the case that many people suffered a lot during year 2009. Even though people should have faith in themselves and be optimistic. After all, tomorrow is...

8 Dec 09

At a loss

fuxiaoyi @fuxiaoyi (26) • China 12 Feb 09

How time flies. 2 years and a half have passed since I took this job. Though I am used to the lift here, in fact,during the past time here,what I did was not what I expect at all. Often, I am desirous to resign,but I failed again...

resign failed what should i do

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heartsoul Hi there, fuxiaoyi. I suppose you are from the same country as I! Am I right? Regarding your current situation, I think not only you bust most of people have such a period during their lifetime. As you know, the life road for many people will not be so smooth...

12 Feb 09

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are you nervous when speaking in public?

vikeyshuy @vikeyshuy (284) • China 11 Feb 09

i am talkative when i am with my friends,family members or acqaintance.but when i stand in front of a group people, say, deliver a speech, give a presentation,i feel very nervous and i can't speak fluently and i can't think...

public

speaking

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heartsoul Hello, vikeyshuy! I have the same experience with you! When I stay with my friends and family members, I become very talkative. But when I come to a strange place, I feel I become silent and can not open my mouth! And when meeting strangers, I can't find...

11 Feb 09

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Why do we often feel bad when we make mistakes ?

samtaylorskykierajen @samtaylorskykierajen (7977) • Canada 27 Sep 08

Mistakes are a part of life and are never done on purpose so why do you feel bad when you make a mistake ?

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heartsoul Because we are tending to be a perfectionist at the bottom of our heart. It also has something to do with the education during our studying period! Sometimes a task is very important and it permits of no mistake which will lead to a failure. 'What is done can...

27 Sep 08

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Who do you trust more , Family or Friends ?

samtaylorskykierajen @samtaylorskykierajen (7977) • Canada 27 Sep 08

Family is someone we have always known where frieds are someone we have met and liked because we share the same interests , find them funny or just have a connection with them , so when you have a problem in life who do you trust...

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heartsoul I think it depends on the kind of problem and your relationship with them!If you meet some problem about yourself and your family can not quite understand you, then you can resort to your friend. And sometimes something happens to your whole family, it is best...

27 Sep 08

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number 8 is seems unlucky for china

fatima07 @fatima07 (169) • Philippines 16 Jun 08

August 08, 2008 is the start of beijing olympics but as i have observe two big disaster happened in this year the first is the earthquake that kills thousands of people, secondly flood. What do you think about my perception do...

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heartsoul I think it was just a coincidence for China to suffer your called disasters in this year with number 8. Though 2008 is a year hard for us, we still believe we can overcome these difficulties if we all the people unite together. Union is strength though the...

16 Jun 08

I feel like crying tonight

misshoney @misshoney (973) • Philippines 15 Jun 08

I hate to burden people by sharing bad feelings but I am really lonely and sad now. Sorry because I can't tell what is it about. I hope this bad feeling will disappear fast because I am not so tough sometimes and this can be hard....

sad

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heartsoul I'm sorry to hear your bad feelings. I hope you can overcome this hard time as soon as possible.Try to be optimistic and think about some old happy time you have spent with your friends or your family. Sad is a kind of feeling which is unavoidable in our life....

15 Jun 08

Do you love to read?

ramyashreesk @ramyashreesk (1021) • India 15 Jun 08

Hi Mylotters! I love to read newspaper, novels, and rarely magazines. What do you read? Do you enjoy reading?

reading

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heartsoul Hello, ramyashreesk. I like reading because it enlarges my views and extend my vision. By reading I can acquire the necessary knowledge and information for my life. I often read economic newspapers, magazines and sometimes the news about the whole world. And...

15 Jun 08

finally! i already have 100 posts...

carrotcake14 @carrotcake14 (361) • Philippines 15 Jun 08

hope i could also reach 1000 posts....sigh! cheer! wink!

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heartsoul Congratulations on your achievement, carrotcake14. I think it is a really happy time for you at this moment as I also felt very excited when I reached 100 posts. I think that is some kind of encouragement for us. So I hope you can post, respond more and make...

15 Jun 08

Cheap quick meals

sassygirlanne007 @sassygirlanne007 (4517) • United States 13 Jun 08

Does anyone know of any good cheap quick meals for breakfast or dinner. I am trying to save myself some money because I am trying to save money so I can move out. Any ideas?

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heartsoul Cook yourself for some simple food. One one hand you can save money. One the other hand you can eat healthy and learn something. So why not have a try. Usually clean and beautiful meals in big restaurant are always expensive. While the cheap food in the small...

13 Jun 08

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Do you have a good relationship with your father???

budz08 @budz08 (55) • Philippines 12 Jun 08

Me I don't have a healthy relationship with my father...Since when I was a kid I can't remember a single thought wherein my father and I bond together...It seems that we have a distant relationship and I haven't felt that He was...

life

love

relationship

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heartsoul I do not know the environment around you. I think relationship lies in distance. Do you ever want to improve the relationship? One palm can't make applause! Why not try to speak with him and understand his situation? Maybe for more than one child in the...

12 Jun 08

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Like brother...like sister...

budz08 @budz08 (55) • Philippines 12 Jun 08

Do you have a brother or sister???Do you have a good relationship with them????Are you good buddies or just like a cat and dog in the house???

brother

family

relationship

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heartsoul Hello,budz08. I am the only child in my family and I'm always a good buddy since my childhood! Though I don't have brothers nor sisters, I think the children in the same family should help each other, care each other and understand each other. A good...

12 Jun 08

Can i gift a teddy beer to my mother???????

Srivastava_roli @Srivastava_roli (269) 12 Jun 08

She loves soft toy.But as she is my mother..Is it ok to gift her a teddy beer?????????

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heartsoul Of course it will be OK. I think that what kind of present is not that important. What important is your expression conducted to her. Your mum will be very glad to listen to your kind and understanding words. Parents are not easy bringing up the kids. So we...

12 Jun 08

DO you open your eyes under the water?

liuqian @liuqian (476) • China 11 Jun 08

I never opened my eyes in the water.some of my friends can do it. But i tried and just can not do this because i always worried about something would run into my eyes. How about you? Can you do it?

open your eyes

swim

under water

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heartsoul Hello, liuqian. I used to open my eyes when I was learning to swim in the river. It made me uncomfortable because the water run into the eyes and it hurt somewhat. But I think if you wear a water-proof glass you can open my eyes willingly. The world underwater...

11 Jun 08

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Can everybody ?

tx_666 @tx_666 (191) • India 6 Jun 08

Can everybody win the race of his / her life ? I don't know the answer... Let me reach to the end of my life ?

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heartsoul Hehe, I think it's hard to say just by asking. You should have confidence in yourself. To win the race of your life or not depends on your attitude towards life and your actions in your life. So come on and work hard. The course of your going will tell you the...

6 Jun 08

new comer

nee919 @nee919 (22) • China 2 Jun 08

Hello, I'm a new comer who comes across this website when I look for some information in the yahoo search engine. I think this is really a good site with simple style and interesting topic. Also there are so many friendly people...

glad

new comer

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heartsoul Hello, nee919. Welcome here and I'm glad that you like mylot.com. Good begun is half done. I hope we all can make great progress here step by step. So let's try to post more topics and share our experience with those friendly people all over the world, I...

2 Jun 08

Anniversary.... Which one is the most important for you?

ranjeetkolarkar @ranjeetkolarkar (1595) • India 31 May 08

The most important anniversary for me is my marriage anniversary. what about you?

anniversary

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heartsoul Mine is graduation anniversary from university because I'm still single for I'm young. I think marriage anniversary will be the most important one in the future. Have a nice day and enjoy yourself!

31 May 08

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the urge to buy even if its not very necessary

knightrider @knightrider (1083) • India 31 May 08

y is it that people cannot resist buying things that are not very necessary or for that matter no required at all considering the time and patience required in selecting and spending

llls

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heartsoul Sometimes when I was shopping in the marketplace, I just can't help but purchasing something which I don't need at all at present. At that time you just can't overcome the desire to buy the favourite thing though you know that it is not urgent for you. By...

31 May 08

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Are you a vegetarian?

ml2blog @ml2blog (414) • United States 31 May 08

I am not a vegetarian, I like every kind of food. For vegetarians, they think eating meat and fish are not healthy for their body, and they think only eating vegetable is a healthy way for their body. I think this is not right. If...

health

vegetable

vegetarian

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heartsoul I am also not a vegetarian. I think the the theory that eating meat and fish are not healthy can't hold water because lack of scientific evidence. People should keep balance in eating between meat and vegetables because we need to absorb the nutrition from...

31 May 08